The author and creator of the Life Coaches Toolbox, Healer, Life Coach & NLP Practitioner, Chemory Gunko, also known as Amara Christi.
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It’s 2am. I’m sitting on my bed, in my tiny home, with a cockatiel on my shoulder & a chicken perched on my laptop stand. Two more birds are asleep, cozy in tunnel. My daughter is working on the bed next to me.
Like you, I’m often awake at 2am. So I’ve made it a habit to just wake up, work for a while & go back for another nap before starting the day. I’ve learned to roll with most of the idiosyncrasies us spiritual types have actually – weird sleep patterns are just one of them LOL.
To be fair, I’ve had some practice: I answered God’s call at the age of 4. I looked at myself in the mirror and the thought arrived: “If I’d lived before this, I would not remember now.” My mind turned on that day, and I remember everything from that moment on.
God – even when I ONLY “believed” (LOL) in a “Higher Power” or “Source” – was always first for me; I knew there was something I was meant to do spiritually, later in life. I never imagined it would mean dedicating my whole life to God.
But here we are… I’ve left behind an established marketing career, where I was considered a genius & the ultimate problem solver. I owned a company employing 15 people when my Dark Night properly started. Now, 6 years later, I’ve lost everything that was my former life: my old 3D life was entirely sacrificed for Amara Christi to be born.
Not that my old 3D life was completely wonderful; like all of you, it was filled with pain & trauma. I just see the point of all those lessons now. And the pain & trauma I experienced was nothing compared to what hit me in my Dark Night of the Soul.
You truly have no idea what is waiting for you when you commit yourself to navigating your Dark Night: it’s meant to strip you bare so that you are completely born anew. You only think you know what that means LOL. 6 years after mine started, I’m only really starting to understand what mine meant ;) But lessons work like that, don’t they? You only really see them in retrospect.
I spent many years trying to understand why I suffered from depression – and desperately trying to “fix” my life; to “stop” all the “bad luck,” pain & trauma that seemed to plague my existence.
I've survived all the ups and downs life can throw at you: abuse, rape, working in the sex industry, bad childhood, having a baby on my own (down to driving myself to hospital in labor!), losing everything, suicide, depression, being fired, being retrenched, heartbreak, chronic illness, being labeled mentally ill & so much more.
My past was colorful, to say the least LOL… I always manage to shock people. A question I get asked often is how I managed to do so much in such a short time? Time slips I guess? Time works differently for us.
Okay, the intuition and foresight I’ve been developing over the years didn’t hurt either ;) So, when I entered my Dark Night – despite the absolute chaos that was around me – I knew it was to prepare me for something. In specific, to have me go ahead, map the path, and find shortcuts for those who would follow in a few years’ time.
At first I fancied myself a Twin Flame coach – like so many of you, I was obsessed with my Twit Flame. Luckily, when the downloads for the Mirrors of Relationship started arriving, my inevitably doomed Twin Flame gave me LOTS of fodder to practice the new healing modality with LOL ;)
I suppose the Twit Flame deserves a mention here… God promised me a miracle. When that miracle arrived two years later, I did not expect it to be a revelation of information that he was married, had been married the whole time, and had created a false identity to catfish me. For 4 years.
There was a hugely valuable lesson in this: God can use any story we CHOOSE to create our paths, because all stories are only mirrors of the original cosmic recursions. I had ignored the messages telling me to leave him, insisting that he was my chosen one. My free will choice was honored & this nightmare became part of my story.
For the longest while I resisted accepting that my Twit Flame was doomed, and I became VERY adept at using Mirrors to alleviate the pain that this relationship was causing me – to navigate around ego levels in other words.
I didn’t anticipate how much Mirrors would change me long term as I used it; so I had a very Buddha like experience when I sat down on my couch one day and Ascended - like Buddha describes sitting beneath the Bodhi tree.
The Buddhists say you should work towards Ascension, without anticipating or expecting it, and hopefully you will one day evolve into it. I had that… I wanted to ascend, but I kind of didn’t really think it would happen to me – at least not in this lifetime.
So my shock was palpable when I sat bolt upright on the couch and said to my daughter: “Oh shit, I think I’m ascending.”
The initial Ascension journey lasted weeks for me. It was extraordinary & beautiful beyond words. After that, there’s no way you could shake my faith.
I can now say that the Ascension journey lasted at least a year – and I answered EVERY SINGLE big question that I had about life, the universe & everything. From why the pain, to what is the purpose of life, to what is God, to how the religions all fit together – I got every single answer I have every wanted.
Which brings us to now…
I’m a Prophet: a mouthpiece & voice for God.
I have this incredible bank of knowledge, as well as healing modalities to share, and I can’t imagine a life that is not about that. The thought of going back into 3D world and doing nothing but making money makes me sick to my stomach.
The only life worth living now, is one lived for God.
I teach, I coach, I mentor, do readings and healings and make a huge body of work available to spiritual journeyers on my site, www.lifecoachestoolbox.com
I am also building an off-grid and spiritual community to create a home where advanced souls can leave the 3D world behind and live their lives in service to God.
I look forward to working with you.
I offer services such as teaching, mentoring, coaching, healing, readings, distance healings, clearings and entity removal, either in person, at distance or remotely.
So it doesn't matter where you are in the world. Most of my clients are in Australia, New Zealand, Europe & The States.
Spiritual healing and personal development is about detective work - working together to find the root cause of a problem and solve it.
So when you walk into a session, or get feedback, it's not about the healer proving that they can read exactly what is on your mind, it's about being open and working together to find the root, a solution, and give you some real inner peace.
For an old hand like me, who got exposed to healing decades ago, I just know that you can apply healing to anything, from illness to life circumstances, to relationships, money and so much more.
This is all you need to know… if you want something to be better or different, healing in all its forms - from coaching to mentoring to teaching to clearings to energy healing work - can get you there.
Which avenue you choose will depend on the relationship between you and the healer you choose to work with and trust, and the level of development you are at.
You will feel most comfortable working with me if you resonate above 500 on the Human Consciousness Scale.
Please complete the ascension level calculator at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/free-ascension-enlightenment-level-calculator-using-the-human-consciousness-scale to work out where you are on the Human Consciousness Scale.
Services are available to those resonating lower on the scale, but please keep in mind that it will be hard going at first. It is possible to take anyone, at any level and lift them up higher, the person just has to be truly willing and ready to take on the challenge.
Sessions last two hours approximately, by video service or in person, or take place over a few days by text message service or email.
Whatsapp or iMessage contacts can be made on +27723354195. The number includes country code and should be entered as is. Skype is chemory.gunko
You can view testimonials at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/about/the-author-chemory-gunko/coaching-praise-for-chemory
9 times out of 10, when I meet you, your life is going to be in turmoil.
If your life isn't in turmoil when we meet, when you hit your first ego death, it will be.
Either way, the risk of working with someone who is in a low, and experiencing an ego death, is that they will turn on you and try to project onto you. It's just the price for what I do.
When you are in an ego death cycle, you are fighting to avoid accepting a (seemingly) terrible (to you) "truth" about yourself.
LOL the irony is that the moment you acknowledge it out loud, it loses all power over you. It's the privacy and shame and hiding it that gives it the power to upset you in the first place.
So, the only way I can usually help you is to get you to a point where you accept that terrible truth that shames and scares you, that you judge and doubt yourself for.
So... the only way I can help you is to cause more initial pain.
That doesn't always work - and is really entirely dependent on whether the person will choose to push through or not.
We honor free will first and foremost - it's the first law of the plane, and of God. So no matter my skill level, you will only cross the finish line, when and if you choose to.
It's something I have no control over in other words - but that doesn't stop me from trying. It just means that I can't guarantee that it will work every time.
When you are cold, you are cold. If you felt warmth at the same time, you would not be cold. You can either be cold or warm.
Shifting is exactly the same - you can be in an ego death, or you can be comfortable, You can't be both.
It's an ego death BECAUSE it is uncomfortable.
There is no way to make an ego death pretty or comfortable or make it feel good - you're only looking at it to fix it because it hurts.
But, you don't want to take responsibility for that pain - if you did, then you wouldn't be here needing help in the first place.
So it's my job to show you and make you look at what you were avoiding seeing in the first place.
I didn't cause the pain, but if you can't push through the ego death, it will become easy to blame me, because your habit is already to avoid responsibility for this.
It works like this… put your arms out, palms up, and press hard - as if you were pressing against a wall. Press really hard, for about a minute or two.
Notice the pain in your arms and shoulders? Notice the pain everywhere really?
Now drop your arms. Notice how the pain disappears?
The pain wasn't caused because the thing you were pushing against existed (nothing in this case!), it was caused BECAUSE you were pushing and resisting. Even though you were resisting nothing, the resistance still hurt you in other words.
But, the moment you stopped resisting and dropped your arms, the pain stopped.
And guess what happens when when I start pushing you to face what you're avoiding? Yip... you're gonna resist even harder, causing yourself even more pain.
You're just gonna blame me for it because I happened to be around when it started :)
In order to help, I will often have to be a catalyst to your resistance.
In an ego death, I have to make you see that, that's it your own resistance - and the risk is always that you will blame me for the pain.
Even knowing this, I still do what I do - and I've developed the reputation of being a dragon for it.
So you may not always like what you hear from me, but you will always hear the truth.
You may not like the solution, but it will always be the solution that offers you the most bang for your buck - the best long term results that will make a real difference.
Over time, you will come to understand that my brutal honesty means that you can trust me completely, and you will come to value it.
I won't pander to your ego and I won't make it easy when that will only lead to your detriment.
But you WILL get results like you've never had before. You will come to realize exactly how fast healing and miracles can be.
Don't just take my word for it, read what clients have to say: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/about/the-author-chemory-gunko/coaching-praise-for-chemory
Some extra reading material for you:
How my mind works and how much I actually see - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-my-mind-works-and-how-much-i-actually-see
Where my teachings come from & walking your talk - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/where-my-teachings-come-from-walking-your-talk
Teaching services are those of a Master or Guru - the Sage archetype in other words.
This is about filling in information gaps so that you don't have to learn stuff over a long period of time yourself - so it saves you time on your journey.
A miracle, according to A Course in Miracles, is a revelation of information that collapses time because the events are no longer needed in order to help the soul reach that level of understanding.
In this regard, teaching sessions are the true "miracle" sessions.
Think of it like this… when you have a fight with your partner, you can either choose to hang on or let go of the issue.
If you let go, then your relationship can immediately be happy and you can move forward in love.
If you choose to hang onto the issue, then you have to have a whole bunch of arguments and "talks" and potentially even therapy and healing, in order to get to the place where you can move forward in love and be happy together again… a lot of time spent fixing the issue that caused the upset in the first place.
So a forgiveness release that collapses the need for those future argument and healing experiences is miracle that collapses time - the time for those experiences to play out doesn't need to exist anymore once you've achieved the release of forgiveness.
On a larger level, it's karma - your understanding of an aspect in the now means that you don't have to live future lives in order to gain that understanding.
So teaching sessions are a miracle that collapses time needed for experience to play out in the future.
Each time we do a teaching session, you collapse the future time and experience needed for you to learn that lesson from the ground up.
When you learn on your own, you learn ground up… you get detail after detail that adds up until you see the bigger picture.
With teaching, we shortcut it by getting you to the higher level understanding, which automatically comes with the subconscious mental access to the details that you would have gained if you learned it ground up.
We then also fill in key details that are important for you to understand with the conscious knowledge.
Teaching sessions are one of the most powerful shortcuts you can take on your journey - and they are suitable for people at any level of development.
From energy basics to chakras, to ascension level knowledge, teaching sessions cover the range of information. You can also use them to fill in gaps about religion, learn how to heal yourself and others, and plug any gaps in knowledge you may have.
For a free 9 video training series on energy, chakras and auras, visit http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/understanding-energy-auras
Teaching sessions are conducted by video service, in person, over a text message service or by email. The choice is yours.
When I first meet advanced level souls. they have one thing in common - they need validation of their experiences because they actually believe they're going insane.
I call it the dance on the edge of insanity.
I'm very aware of what the lack of validation for your journey can look like in terms of consequences - I lived through it. I had to validate internally, for myself, when no one else ever believed me.
My validation though now, gets beautifully filled by mentoring advanced souls on their journeys - and that makes mentoring one of my favorite pastimes.
In order to know that I wasn't going fruit loops on my own journey, one of the markers I picked up early on, was that everyone comes to the same conclusions eventually.
For me this happened through books… I would have experiences and process them, come to realizations, and then read that realization in an advanced book somewhere later on.
So I love, really love the moment where I see people coming to the same realizations - years after I first had them. And then knowing what will come next for them, and what it will evolve into.
It's a very special kind of validation that makes up in leaps and bounds for the hardship of going so many years without validation experiences.
There are MANY of these moments - at all the different levels of the journey - and I love watching them unfold. I love that moment of "duh, well obviously!"
This doesn't mean the person will be thinking the same as what I am by the end of a session though… what it means is that they come to the same thoughts of insight at junctures, and I've happened to make a habit of noticing what those spots are along the journey.
It also doesn't mean that I have an agenda… it means that I have seen that there is a fixed trajectory and I mapped the path along the way.
People balk at that idea - wanting to hold onto the idea that "their journey is unique."
When you understand faith or doubt or any other aspect, you eventually have to come to a common conclusion - if you can't reach the same conclusion for what something is, a common understanding, then you do not truly understand it.
It's like language - you have to spell and pronounce the words in the agreed-upon way in order for them to be universally shared and understood. If you use your own sounds and spelling, people won't always understand what you mean.
So when you understand doubt or faith or patience - or any aspect or theme - you come to common points of energetic alignment, that can be shown in statements, e.g. "I do not know how to be, or, I must just have compassion for those lower vibration than me, or, You have to live the authentic expression that shines through you.
What determines the "uniqueness" of your journey then, is the order that you learn your lessons in.
Lessons that you get early on are lessons that you will come back to repeatedly over many years, so they will be lessons that you carry a lot of detail for. For me, these were faith, forgiveness and free will.
Likewise, learning one lesson before another can make a huge difference… when I was recovering from my Twit Flame breakup experience, within a day or two I had reached the aha moment of "he never could have loved if he treated me this way".
Therefore, when I got to all those moments later where you repeatedly realize the person never loved you (normal in a break up), I had already accepted it, so there wasn't shock or pain each time. This made my Twin Flame break up remarkably easy to get through, truth be told. I didn't have any of those repeated shocks of pain.
This process is strongly linked to Ego Layers of Separation and can be further unpacked here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-simple-analogy-to-understand-ego-with-7ps-of-ego-questions
Mentoring is about you leapfrogging off my knowledge and not going through unnecessary lessons, so it's teaching. But it's teaching about the spiritual journey and what it takes to walk it, as well as insight into what you can expect, and shortcuts and tools to make it easier - all based on my personal experience I have gained by doing this myself.
So we look at things like what you can expect next, what patterns your current stuff is leading up to, unpacking challenges you may face, bringing down revelation (miracles) to help you skip unnecessary stuff, arming you with tools, making sure you don't get stuck, making sure you don't fall into ego traps, and helping you grow your arsenal - and so much more.
If you are ready to take your journey to the next level and really start moving at the speed of light, then I have shortcuts that will make your mouth water with excitement.
I know the magic and splendor of the spiritual journey - and I am adept at turning emotional lead into spiritual gold.
It thrills me to walk with fellow advanced souls and help you accelerate through what I've learned, because like everyone, I most enjoying teaching what I am currently learning myself.
Ascension and the advanced journey is my first love and my playground - and mentoring souls on a journey will always trump for me.
Mentoring takes place via video, audio or text message service, or via email. Choice is yours.
Basically, you're here because you have a problem, are facing a challenge, and/or want something to change. Coaching & healing can do that for you.
What's the difference though?
Well healing does the work for you, where coaching is about arming you to do the work for yourself, both now and in future.
So coaching may take longer to reach relief right now, and you may need two sessions instead of one - or even three or four if it's a tough obstacle - but at the end, you should NEVER need help with healing that issue again, because you'll be able to do it for yourself, alone. Which means you'll never have to pay someone else again.
So you can go for the instant gratification of a band-aid healing session, or you can go for the longer term goal of learning the skill for yourself and never having to buckle to it again.
Coaching is talking and exercises and can be performed by Skype, text or video, or on any video or text messenger service. Because I also have a bank of resources to pull on, you will also receive homework to support the session, such as digital tools to use, articles to read, or videos to watch.
One of the nice ways this works out in ongoing text coaching, is that you can do the tool, and then come back to me afterwards before we assess how to go forward from there.
When it comes to privacy and needing to find space for a session by video or audio, text coaching can work amazingly well as a substitute.
You not only get the privacy you need, but you can break the sessions into smaller, more manageable chunks. So instead of chatting and fitting everything into one hour, we do shorter bursts over a few days, giving you time to integrate and absorb the info.
Clients have responded really well to this format, which took even me by surprise. Where I thought it would be something people would not go for, it turns out to be a favorite for clients.
Whatsapp or iMessage contacts can be made on +27723354195. The number includes country code and should be entered as is. Text coaching services are also available via these formats and you can reach out directly on my number.
For your reading pleasure, here is a genuine text session client transcript. One of my awesome clients was kind enough to allow this to be published. Names have been changed for privacy. Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/real-client-session-transcript
Here is another link to a practical example of simple self healing in action: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/healing-yourself-a-practical-example
Healing, then, is for two circumstances…. first when you are not yet ready to do the work yourself, so you aren't far enough along your journey, and secondly, when you have dropped down into a hectic low and need someone to pull you out. There's a third - when you can't figure it out yourself and you no longer need to drive yourself like a whipped donkey LOL <3
The difference is that healing means I go into your energy and system and do the actual work for you, mainly with the aim of helping you to feel immediately better. This is helpful when you hit rock bottoms, or are physically ill.
Like coaching, healing deals with everything - relationship, money, work, luck, happiness, health, wealth, illness, psychic pain and tension, overwhelming emotions, grief, depression… if you can think of a challenge, it can be tackled. There's nothing I have not been able to apply healing to over the past two and a bit decades.
I was lucky in a way - my father was one of the first people in my country to bring healing modalities in at an advanced level. So he was trained in Resonance Repatterning and BodyTalk, among others, and turns out he was a natural shaman.
So from my teens, I had daily access to healing - I could message my dad overnight and he would clear what he could find, and when I started really getting smarter, he would clear what I found myself and sent him to clear.
This carried on for YEARS - we're talking over a decade here - and meant that I really got to experiment and apply healing to every aspect of my life. So believe me when I say that there is nothing healing can't be applied to.
Among my biggest miracles were an overnight healing of a compression fracture of one of my lumbar vertebra, immediate turnarounds of the money situation, manifesting some other amazing stuff, healing illness and exhaustion immediately, changing relationships and how people were treating me, and so much more. There was literally NOTHING I didn't try lol ;) Even releases of massive loads of emotional energy and pain, as well as achieving true forgiveness.
I would even have sessions the moment I got physically ill, as well clearings for entity removals and implants, and I would use it to prepare for events and situations, in performance setups. Overcoming fears, doubts and shame became par for the course.
There was a downside though - I learned the hard way the lesson of becoming reliant on healers.
Even though I was eventually finding the statements for myself, I never knew that finding the statements was the work - and so I felt I HAD to go to a healer to have stuff removed each time I found statements.
Once my father and I parted ways, it cost me a lot of money to maintain my pace of daily shifting. Eventually I had barter trade agreements with multiple healers to feed my healing addiction.
So I learned a valuable lesson…. you need to know how to heal yourself. This is why I much prefer a coaching style over healing you myself.
When we coach together, you learn how to heal yourself. You are armed with skills and you become stronger.
It will never be my intention to make you reliant on me as a healer, because I have been trapped in that powerless quagmire. I will never do that to anyone - not even to line my own pocket.
We are here to build each other up and grow together. It is ego thinking to think that people need to be reliant on you, or that people are not capable. It also gives you control over people. I'm not looking for that.
We're all in this together - it's a unity shift. And we are only as strong as our weakest link.
I do what I do to make sure our weakest link is as strong as possible, and so I will always aim to educate and empower wherever I can.
With me, we do things the hard way in the now, so that you get permanent results long term. To do any less would be cheating you.
If I need to do healing on you to assist you at stages, I will do a full energetic scan of your body and find the thing that is causing the problem - whether a mindset, belief system, active memory, generational pattern, karma, cords, attachments, entities, implants, psychic pain, lack of forgiveness, programming, cognitive dissonance or anything else, and I will remove it for you energetically.
I also perform meridian healing work and wing meridian healing work for advanced level souls, as well as wing meridian activations.
All these sessions are done in person or at distance. You can simply pop me a message and I'll do the work remotely within 24 hours usually, and then send you feedback on what I found and removed or added.
You'll usually feel better within 72 hours. Please read this article about what to expect after healing: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-can-you-expect-after-energy-healing
More reading material:
7 common mistakes you make with energy healing & coaching - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/7-common-mistakes-you-make-with-energy-healing-coaching
8 ways that energy healing & coaching will change your life - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/8-ways-that-energy-healing-coaching-will-change-your-life
Make your healing and growth easier by understanding the different kinds of shifts and shifting cycles - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/make-your-healing-and-growth-easier-by-understanding-the-different-kinds-of-shifts-and-shifting-cycles
Over the course of my healing and coaching career, I have developed a huge number of resources, and five major healing modalities.
All of my resources are really designed with the aim of educating and empowering you to do the work yourself - because that is what is needed on the spiritual journey.
To this end, there are 300 free resources available on my website here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/free-diagnostics-tools
In addition, my blog contains over 400 articles as at May 2018, the time of writing, covering information gaps, new downloads and information, coaching strategies, key information, modern interpretations of difficult to understand content, and so much more.
Two of the healing modalities I've built are around meridians - one is a meridian healing and clearing process, and the other is a wing meridian activation and healing. Both of these are practitioner led and I do them for you. I have not yet started teaching these really.
The idea that we've got wings and that those are being experienced by lots of lightworkers is pretty common knowledge already. The wing meridian work allows the full power of your wings to be expressed, and alleviates the discomfort associated with having wings, like back pain and painful back sensations.
The three other healing modalities I've created are both facilitated and DIY resources:
1. The Mirrors of Relationship - read articles here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-mirrors-of-relationship-rabbit-hole
2. The 7Ps of Ego - read articles at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-7ps-of-ego-understanding-ego-and-easily-solving-issues-with-mirrors and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-money-problem-part-3-your-ego-responses-to-tightening-your-belt
3. The Ego Layers of Separation - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-simple-analogy-to-understand-ego-with-7ps-of-ego-questions
Each of these processes can be facilitated in a one on one session, by text, video or in person. We can either run an intensive session or spend time teaching you how to use the tools yourself so that you can go away and use the mechanism repeatedly to clear multiple layers.
How the three modalities differ in application is the following:
The Mirrors of Relationship tools are the baseline tools to mine as many statements as you can.
This tool helps you dig out all the statements that make up the belief system that is at play, and find all the related detail and links you need to shift it once and for all. Read more on this at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-an-emotion-and-how-can-you-release-it-with-thought
Free Mirrors of Relationship tools can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/ and you can purchase downloadable web apps, with no ads, at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/paid-coaching-tools
1. Mirror of People - What does this lesson come to show me about myself and the other people around me? What don't I want to see or acknowledge? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/people.html
2. Mirror of Ego - Where do I feel inferior or superior to people or in situations around me? What do I judge, fear, doubt, envy or feel shame about in my present or past? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/ego.html
3. Mirror of Desire - What do I expect of myself, the people around me, life and my Higher Power? What do the people around me expect of me? Do I live to expectations? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/expectationdesire.html
4. Mirror of Loss - What have I lost, sacrificed, given up, had stolen, or had taken away from me? Where have I not released or forgiven that loss? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/losssacrifice.html
5. Mirror of Programming - What beliefs, belief systems, habits, patterns, traditions, ideals, principles and ethics have I adopted - and which are really me? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/programming.html
6. Mirror of the Soul - What lessons does my soul want to teach me? Is there anything here related to karma, my mission programming, purpose or vision? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/soul.html
7. Mirror of Balance - How do I find balance and meaning in my relationships? Where do I experience conflict or being out of balance? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/balance.html
8. Mirror of the Dark - What lessons and orientation do I need from the dark? Am I experiencing a trial by fire or in a dark night of the soul? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/dark.html
9. Mirror of the Cosmos - What lessons am I learning from the Cosmos, my Higher Power, God, the Universe or Source, and in the Golden Age of Aquarius? - http://www.lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/MirrorsforLightworkers/files/cosmos.html
Use a simplified version of Mirrors of Relationship at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/mr-right-vs-mr-right-now
The 7Ps of Ego is a tool and resource that allows you to understand how ego presents itself so that you can identify your ego reactions and responses, as well as those of others.
This simple mnemonic tool becomes an easy way to break down any response you are experiencing in the moment, as it is happening, BEFORE it becomes an issue you will have to shift.
The 7Ps of Ego will also help you resonate with the learning that ego is about separation, which is a primary teaching of A Course in Miracles. This tool will help you witness that characteristic of separation in action.
1. Personalisation – I am separate and have these characteristics
2. Projection – that person is separate and has these characteristics
3. Possession – that object is separate, has these characteristics and I can possess it
4. Privacy – I will hold this thought (person/object) separate
5. Protection – I will hold this thought (person/object) separate to keep it safe
6. Parallels – this thought/person/object is separate and has these characteristics when compare to another thought/person/object
7. Power - I will control this person, thought object and hold it separate because it gives me power or I believe it empowers me
The Ego Layers of Separation is an incredible tool that can be used to mine statements, find an entire belief system, find potential hidden things to shift, and unpack your relationship to anyone or anything, in its entirety.
Used properly, the Ego Layers of Separation tool will help you unpack an entire belief system, mindset, person or relationship - and like all the tools, it's reduced to answering a simple set of questions.
Even if you work with a coach or healer or mentor or teacher, you will still do the work on your own. You have to - it's how the system works.
My aim is to build tools that enable you to do the work yourself, regardless of whether you're broke (which you often are in a dark night or trial by fire), sick, alone, nailed to a cross - whatever.
Tools are presented in simple written format, or are offered as interactive web apps, and books will be coming out shortly. These will unpack each modality in depth.
You do not specifically need to book for one of these modalities, as I will apply whatever needs to be done in session.
However if you want to learn to use the tools for yourself and others, then it helps to let me know that we need to focus on you learning how to use the tools.
If you would like to certify to coach and heal with these tools, then let me know and we can set up training for you.
Probably one of the biggest surprises that I've ever had on my journey as a teacher, was a few years back when it dawned on me what people's perception of dark or shadow work is - and how wrong they have it.
So let's get that out of the way.
Shadow work is NOT turning dark, becoming an evil person, worshipping Satan, murdering people, raping babies or anything else like that.
Shadow work IS facing the shadow parts of yourself, in order to overcome them, and choosing to remain positive and stay in the light.
Shadow work is about being an empath… absorbing negative energy that exists in the world and morphic field, shifting and releasing it, and then going on to do good in the world.
If you look at serial killers and criminals, many of them had one incident, or a series of incidents, in childhood, that somehow shaped their evil. They took their pain and projected it out and became evil, perpetuating that pain onto the lives of others.
The thing about shadow work is that it is about facing all the dark of your past and transmuting it into neutral energy or containing it within yourself. That way, if it is too much and you self destruct, you'll only harm yourself and not others.
This is why spiritual types are so likely to commit suicide.
If you do successfully transmute it, then you will be sent more, in bigger loads, to shift. This is because we're here to clean up the planet's energy by taking all the negativity out of it.
The price for being good at shadow work therefore, is that you will be given more ugly energies to get rid of - that's why you're learning these tools after all.
The Lightworker Mission and this time on Earth is about a massive clean up of shadow emotions that linger in the field in a form we know of as "karma". That excess negative karma is making the world an ugly place and we're here to clean it.
We had to come because the energy is stored here, so we have to be here to do it. We also had to come because if we leave it to the natural process of humans, then the humans will become even uglier, because they do not have our stamina to withstand dark energies.
The energies during this time are so dark that we can't risk pushing most of them into people who are living for ego, and so we're overloading our empaths.
This is why the journey has been so hard for so many of us in this lifetime.
What are these shadow aspects that you will be facing?
First you'll be facing your ego, which separates into a hierarchy by means of control.
When ego separates, the first thing it does is create a hierarchy - so someone is inferior and someone is superior. This happens with situations too.
So the truest thing we can say of an ego experience is that it is anything that makes you feel inferior or superior to a person or experience.
The only two superior emotions in the ego range are anger and judgement - and just think about that. You have to feel somewhat superior to feel you have a "right" to be angry at someone.
Likewise judgement - in order to be judging what someone does or says, it automatically presupposes that you have access to superior knowledge in that arena.
So both these - anger and judgement - are superiority.
The balance of the ego emotions place you in a position of inferiority, and include fear, doubt, resistance, embarrassment, humiliation, shame, vulnerability, guilt, frustration, impatience, jealousy, envy, possessiveness, and competition.
And then finally, the surprising two ego emotions…. awe and admiration, which both place you in a position of inferiority to the object of your admiration.
So if you are feeling any of the emotions listed above, it is YOUR ego reaction or response - because those are the only emotions and thoughts you can ever be sure are driving what you feel, and are experiencing. The thoughts that lie inside you.
In addition to your ego, your shadow work will include your expectations and desires, especially those unfulfilled, the losses and sacrifices you have experienced, anything from your past you don't want to face, as well as karma. Finally it will include your free will choice.
If shadow work makes you ugly, it is because you are falling victim to your ego desires and doing this for your own selfish benefit, without fail, every time.
I am a guide that will ensure that you do not go down that path - I will use every tool in my arsenal to make sure you stay on the straight and narrow.
One word here… I recently had a client who really bought into the idea that facing your dark and breaking privacy gave her liberty to treat me in an ugly manner.
You cannot, and will not, ever learn to manage your emotions if you allow them free reign. While I am willing to walk to many places with clients, I will immediately end any relationship that becomes abusive towards me.
If you cannot control your baseline emotions, it is because you have not done the requisite ego work. Both for the sake of my sanity, and because this will mentally break you if you are not prepared, I will summarily end any client relationship where I see that you are not ready to do the work yourself, by free will choice.
The baseline of controlling your emotional reaction is a minimum for shadow work.
You are not ready for shadow work until you have at least four categories of scores in the 600+ plus range on the Human Consciousness Scale. Here's the link to the test: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/free-ascension-enlightenment-level-calculator-using-the-human-consciousness-scale
Here's an article on how to do Shadow Work and force Ego Deaths: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-to-do-shadow-work-how-to-face-your-dark-shadow-or-ego
An ego death lasts up to six months, a Trial by Fire runs up to 18 months, and a Dark Night will run into years. Mine lasted 5 years, non stop.
An ego death is something I can help you through in a single session or two - I've experienced most of them personally and coached others through them as well. I can also teach you to sail through ego deaths in a matter of 24 to 72 hours, using one of my DIY tools.
A Trial By Fire is an ongoing period of trial and challenges, that usually lasts up to 18 months. You will experience multiple Trials by Fire before you get to your Dark Night of the Soul.
The point of repeated Trials by Fire is that it helps you to build stamina for your Dark Night of the Soul - and believe you me, you will need that.
Similar to a Dark Night, a Trial by Fire will also leave you very changed at the end of it, but when you have been through the onslaught of a Dark Night of the Soul, you WILL know it. It strips you completely bare.
Read more on the differences at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/ego-deaths-vs-trials-by-fire-vs-dark-nights-of-the-soul
Each of these stages requires different forms of assistance.
An ego death is something we can push you through in a session or two, depending on how resistant you are. A Trial By Fire or Dark Night however, is about stamina - enduring for the long haul.
The reason for that? Lessons of patience and faith.
First of all, you don't grow patience in a day, and even once you've done the hard slog of gaining the resonance of patience, you still have to LIVE it for a while (think a year), to prove that you have earned it and can utilize it effectively under strain.
Under strain is where it matters, because it's easy to have faith when everything is handled quickly for you. It's hard to stay faithful when your faith is being tested and no rewards are coming.
So in addition to stamina, knowing how to manage ego deaths, knowing how to rest, and knowing how to manage your emotional and mental systems, as well as your energy systems, which you need for a Trial by Fire.
Coaching and mentoring assistance for a Dark Night includes help with patience and faith. You are going to need it LOL <3
Read more about lessons in faith at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-lessons-in-faith
Read more about patience at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/an-argument-for-patience
Have you ever noticed how cult leaders and major religious figures are often involved in pedophilia and sex scandals?
The reason for this is that sex is a common ego trap on the spiritual journey - the ego trap of special relationships.
Basically, the sense of loneliness and separation you are feeling from the world is something you are always trying to fix - and is in fact, your soul's greatest desire. Your soul wishes for unity.
When you really drill down into it, this desire for unity is actually your desire to return to God or Source, but because we identify with our physical bodies as being "us", we think that the realest that anything can be is when it is physical.
The way you can get the CLOSEST to someone physically? Sex.
So sex, whether in the form of a relationship or sexual deviance, becomes a focus, because love is a positively aspected form of desire. If love is the emotional expression of desire, then sex is the physical expression of desire.
Read more on what love is at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-love and read what a relationship is at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-a-relationship
You're also not expecting that, at the higher levels of the journey, you yourself will develop a curiosity about LGBTQ, then polyamory, and then pedophilia. There's crucial information in each of those layers that you need to understand to see the bigger picture.
It's not actually that these energies are coming up for you, it's that your confusion of looking at the physical body means that you look to the PHYSICAL ACT first.
The LGBTQ thing is about reconciling dualities, the polyamory thing is about understanding recursions and different God layers and ego and desire, and the pedophilia thing is about understanding the energies that were at play when earth was created.
Another common side path many take as a result of the sexual confusion is the whole Master/slave Dominant/submissive adventure - and you're not expecting that to come up either.
In every case, you would be much better able to mange it if you knew how to cycle lessons up to higher levels, and not personalize (7Ps of ego) to the physical body.
Read more on cycling lessons up to a higher level at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-different-kinds-of-lessons-you-can-expect-in-5d-the-age-of-aquarius
And this is just one of hundreds of ego traps, including things like the external validation issue, physical attraction, the money problem, popularity and fame, being accepted, compassion, god level lessons, arrogance, and so much more.
Read more on arrogance at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/arrogance-humility-in-spirituality and read about self worth on the journey at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-to-interpret-seeing-ugliness-and-ego-in-others-what-makes-you-worthy-on-the-spiritual-journey and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/on-confidence-as-a-healer
Basically, you and ego are in a power struggle and only one can win. So ego fights for its life by utilizing every technique it can to undermine you and cast doubt.
Ego traps are not easy to spot in the beginning, and you will need help managing them. Luckily I fell into pretty much all of them at a stage, and I know shortcuts.
Don't underestimate the Ego Traps. How you handle them can - and will - make or break your journey and trajectory.
When Buddha tells the story of the day he achieved enlightenment, he tells how he sat under a Bodhi tree and just suddenly was there.
When Thoth speaks about his Ascension journey in the Emerald Tablets, he speaks of a similar journey or understanding.
Whether you call it ascension, enlightenment, consciousness or awareness, or even souped up mindfulness, it's basically about leveling up, and passing the grade so that you know you are going on to a Higher Self identity.
The Buddhists say you should work towards that moment, hoping that you will achieve it, but never expecting to achieve it.
I kind of just had that mindset my entire life…. I was working towards growth, but I never thought I'd be the big shot.
No one was more surprised than me then, when I sat down on my couch one afternoon in December 2016, and I suddenly ascended. Or achieved enlightenment - whatever you wanna call it lol :)
We have so much overlapping jargon in the spiritual world because each person had to define their own vocabulary for it. Read some useful jargon words at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/spiritual-jargon-that-will-greatly-simplify-your-journey
The journey was amazing - and lasted about six weeks. In total now, I realize it really lasted a year, and that year was packed full of the most incredible journeys, experiences and downloads.
So right now, you are having one of two reactions to this revelation - you're either salivating, or more likely, you've decided that this is bullshit and I must be a loon.
Well we lock up everyone who says they're the Son of God - and we brutally killed Jesus. It's not popular to say stuff like this.
The reason it's not popular is about you though - accepting that I've done it means that it's possible for you, which means accepting your own laziness. Because I don't hide the fact that this was, and is, hard work.
So accepting that I've ascended means accepting that you can get there too, and you will have to work as hard as I have.
It also most probably means accepting that I am on a higher level of evolution than you. No one likes to feel inferior - it's the first expression of ego discontent.
So people react in one of two ways - to tell me I'm a loon and that's impossible, and then write me off as someone to avoid, or they get thrilled and excited - because they want ascension for themselves.
If you are part of the first group, then your deciding I can't achieve it, is you not wanting to know that you can achieve it, which means you can't achieve it. The prerequisite for achieving it is to know it is possible to achieve.
If you are salivating, then you want to reach out to me - even if you are in a dark night and broke. I will always help where I can, even if you can't pay me. I am always happy to give advanced souls free resources.
I've been there too, and every single dark night comes with money issues - and you have to go dark night to reach ascension.
I'm here to help those that can reach ascension do so, and in order to do that, I allow those that can afford healing to subsidize those that can't.
I only ask nicely that you be efficient with my time when I am working with you freely. Please don't try to use me as an audience and send me long tomes of writing.
Also please respect that I have no agenda for your growth - I am only here to help you because you need help and you asked me to be.
I offer teaching from what I've learned and the tools I have built. I've seen the path common to us all and I know shortcuts.
I simply offer help.
I have NO interest in, or attachment to, you, your development and where you land up. And I am NOT looking for followers.
I aim to help those who help themselves, and if I have to carry you or do the work for you, I will stop working with you.
To repeat - I have no agenda when it comes to any journeyer's path. I simply help with what I know and figured out along the way with God's help.
I will only ever entertain the argument of "I have an agenda" once - then I will leave you to flounder until you sort it out for yourself.
You should be past that one by the stage you are heading for ascension.
If I had a penny for every time I've heard the words: "When this happened I knew had to come to you, because you would believe me. No one else would believe me" or any variant thereof, I'd be a very wealthy woman.
Along with: "If I had to say this to anyone else, they'd think I was insane!"
When you are on this journey on your own, and you have no mirror to validate your thoughts and experiences (read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/simple-analogy-to-understand-how-thought-creates-reality and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/creation-or-evolution-the-spiritual-answer-how-it-all-works ) it's easy to think you are going insane.
In fact, when psychiatry can't solve a person's depression or malady, the person is often instructed to "find God" - because it seems to be the one thing that eventually helps people break through.
It's cognitive dissonance you see, and it works like this: you know when you get a download or big piece of info, how you can understand it in that moment, or while you're on the journey, but when you come back you can't verbalize it anymore? It's cognitive dissonance that causes that.
When you return to earth from your journey or download or healing, you are inserted back into the Earth's morphic field, which is comprised of the level of every person in that geography's beliefs. Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together
While you were in the experience, you were in an isolated morphic field created by a mental connection to your Higher Self and other Divine Beings, and this supported your ability to retain the knowledge and understand it, because you "think" with the processing power of the morphic field you're in.
When you came back to earth however, you experienced a morphic field that did not support the thoughts and ideas filling your mind - a field that rejects those ideas in fact, because they are contrary to the ideas it values.
Read more about cognitive dissonance at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/spiritual-jargon-that-will-greatly-simplify-your-journey
As a result you experience a psychic tension created by the conflict between the information inside and what those around you will accept.
This is why it's easier to shift at home and make sense of stuff at home - you are responsible for creating the morphic field. It's why we isolate ourselves and become hermits. Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/hermit-mode and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-seekers-hibernate-and-alienate-people
It's also why ideas are harder to hold onto, and thinking is harder to do, in public spaces like work environments, and why it's easier to work at home.
Notice for yourself what it feels like when you walk into work - how that feeling arising happens as you move closer to the geographic space. Notice how it fades away when you leave the office and move into a different space.
The change you are feeling is the morphic field as it adjusts to accommodate the people making up the field in that geography.
So the way we help you manage these years of built up cognitive dissonance, that are leading you to dance on the edge of insanity, is to validate your experiences with parallel experiences. It's something I spend a lot of time doing with clients at first.
After a few weeks or months, this will lead to a level of trust you haven't experienced before - and then we leverage that to get you shifting at the speed of trust.
No matter how crazy, scary, insane, weird, odd, private, personal, whacky, or fruit loops your experience was, I promise you I've come across it already, either in my own journey or that of a client.
LOL if you CAN shock me, then I'll do your session free… that's how sure I am.
Not only will I believe you, but I will be able to relate a parallel experience to illustrate my understanding.
With time, you will come to realize that everything that has been happening to you is absolutely true - and it is every bit the magical experience you have waited for your whole life.
We will remove the fear through validation of your experience, teach you how to further validate your own experience, and then leverage that newfound confidence and trust to accelerate your journey trajectory.
I am a Twin Flame, and I started writing about flames about five years ago, when my Twin Flame chaos period started.
Unfortunately my Twin Flame turned out to be a Twit Flame, and so I eventually walked away. Read all about that at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-socially-unacceptable-heartbreak-of-finding-out-you-re-the-other-woman and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/yes-menaretrash-and-women-are-largely-to-blame and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/one-year-after-my-twin-flame-finally-ended).
There are a lot of dangerous misconceptions about Twin Flames, not least that they must be romantic relationships and there is only one. Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/8-dangerous-myths-about-twin-flame-relationships
The truth is that you have innumerable Twin Flames, and it is how we are creating 5D - through the abilities Twin Flames can develop together.
Because we want those abilities to be universal, we need everyone to have a common Twin Flame aspect.
In my own Twin Flame experience, we'd created a psychic and telepathic bond so strong that we could "call" each other mentally, communicate mentally and even trigger orgasms in each other at distance.
The Twin Flame is all about creating the psychic connection that enables the hive mind layer of telepathy to be born - 5D style. Read more about this at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-creation-unification-story-for-lightworkers and view the infographic to see the different layers and how it works.
Also Twin Flames are the 4D layer we're "skipping" as we go from 3D to 5D.
Twin Flames are also a part of the clean up of earth's energies - as empaths suck the negative energy out, Twin Flame relationships reconcile dualities across the Twin Flame, intensified by the addition of karma, and by reconciling them, new, neutral "zero point" energy is released into the morphic field, raising the overall vibration of the field.
So Twin Flames are really important, not because it's guaranteed romantic love, but because it's the next evolution.
So yes, I had four years of Twin Flame bliss(sic?) before it all went to pot, and I am very capable of helping you to balance and manage your Twin Flame and figure out how to deal with the push-pull duality.
However, I am really good at helping Twin Flames who are surviving the runner-chaser cycle or a Twin Flame love triangle and/or break up.
On the subject of love triangles, I will NOT assist anyone that is CHEATING on their spouse. I will not cross my ethical boundaries in that regard. If you'd like to leave your spouse, I will help you.
Here are four excellent tools for helping Twin Flames who have recently gone through a break up:
Twin Flame Reset or Break Up Release Exercise - Spiritual Divorce: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/twin-flame-reset-or-break-up-release-exercise-spiritual-divorce
Twin Flame Reset or Break Up Release Exercise - Restoring the Push-Pull Duality: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/twin-flame-reset-or-break-up-release-exercise-restoring-the-push-pull-duality
Twin Flame Reset or Break Up Release Exercise - Restoring the Twin Flame Divine Love Template: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/twin-flame-reset-or-break-up-release-exercise-restoring-the-twin-flame-divine-love-template
Powerful Surrender, Release & Forgiveness Prayer for Lightworkers, Twin Flames & Twin Flame Break Ups: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/powerful-surrender-release-forgiveness-prayer-for-lightworkers-twin-flames-twin-flame-break-ups
Here is a video with a DIY healing session that you can use immediately after a break up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiMxbFNz0zE&index=1&list=PL_nGXJMLD98RADZvj7YRvVWIi1m_WmUEP
If you are a currently-dating Twin Flame, then these articles will assist you:
Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 1: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/dating-and-online-dating-for-twin-flames-and-empaths-part-1
Dating and online dating tips for empaths and twin flames - part 2: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/dating-and-online-dating-tips-for-empaths-and-twin-flames-part-2
Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 3: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/dating-and-online-dating-for-twin-flames-and-empaths-part-3
Read a plethora of Twin Flame articles at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/twin-flames-rabbit-hole
If you're not sure what a lightworker, lightwarrior or empath really is, then start by reading this: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/understanding-the-lightworker-mission-roles
If you'd like to understand empaths more in depth, then start by reading this: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/your-role-as-an-empath and this: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-it-means-to-be-an-empath and this: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/6-ways-that-empaths-sabotage-their-relationships
You can also read about the empath-narcissist relationship at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/betrayal-empaths-narcissists and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-are-empaths-such-easy-targets-for-narcissists-and-psychopaths
I am a lightworker, like so many others, and I am also one of the 144,000 Ascended Masters needed to facilitate the planet through the shift. I could verbalize that I had chosen to be one of the 144,000 by 2003/4 approximately. I've known for a while.
Because I went ahead, it is part of my role to have mapped the path and come back with resources and shortcuts that help other lightworkers to ascend more quickly and avoid pitfalls that would delay them.
I'm also a magician, which means I operate in the morphic field (read more on roles and archetypes at at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/metaphysical-roles ), and so I've had other tasks to fulfill the past few years, including dissemination and broadcast of the new knowledge entering the field.
This makes me one of the Prophets or Messiahs, although I lean towards Prophet. I'm much more interested in what God has to say than I am in how ego interprets and accepts it.
Read more on the Messiah role for the shift at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/lightworker-reality-check-so-you-think-you-re-the-messiah
In a nutshell, the lightworker mission is empaths clean up the negative energy in the field, Twin Flames release bursts of zero point energy to lift the field vibration again, and Prophets and Messiahs receive and broadcast the new layer of information and new healing modalities, as well new understanding and new interpretations of old spiritual lessons that are easier to understand.
Parables related to what we know in our contemporary experience in other words.
The point of all of this? To raise the vibration of the morphic field to a high enough level that the Gods can literally take physical form and walk among us again.
We do this swap over approximately every thousand years, because we have to have a place for ego to exist in order for ego to continue it's job of facilitating creation. Ego is the mechanism that enables us to have creation - so we have to have a place where we allow it to exist.
That place is earth, and we also use earth to create God-level-potential souls. In order words, souls that can ascend and become Gods, or have a permanent space in the cosmos or "heaven".
The rules are different for us in this group, and it's one of the reasons why your journey has been so hard until now.
Luckily I have shortcuts, and there are over a 1,000 pages of resources available on my website for you to use if you cannot afford healing, or are not ready to face the shame of working on your stuff with someone.
The Life Coaches Toolbox website is a huge resource of tools designed for lightworkers and Twin Flames to make it through the shift and their Dark Nights.
As I was at each layer, I wrote articles and created tools designed to tackle all the major milestone points that I passed during that time. The point is that you leapfrog off my knowledge and save yourself the unnecessary suffering and persecution - I carried that for you.
The website is a gift from me and God - and we've been building it for years now. It is only going to get bigger.
When it comes to helping people freely, I try to do it in a way that helps many at once. So I'd rather write an article or build a tool than talk to you one on one necessarily. This way many get to learn because there are always others at your level.
I do speak to you one on one, but when I'm working pro bono and gratis, I try to limit the time of the interactions. Please respect that and be efficient in your communication.
Even though I offer a ton of resources freely, I am not a pushover and I will cut it short if I need to.
I am always willing to help, but there are always multiple people who need help. I need to carefully manage the time I spend on pro bono work.
Please respect that with brevity in ALL your communications.
If you're writing for an hour, it's gonna take me ten minutes to read it at least. And all of you have lots to say - it's not uncommon to receive as many as 42 emails from a single person in a day.
God has tasked me with finding and helping the 144,000 and I have to stay true to MY path.
Please respect that when I stop to help you for free, I am gifting you my time and knowledge. And please let go of the idea that I have an agenda for your growth.
I've only stopped to help you because you put yourself in my path and asked for my help. The moment you treat that as if I am forcing my agenda on you, I will cease to help.
Unfortunately too many people have taken advantage of my good will in the past, and so I find I have to be strict about it and limit the interactions.
I do charge for sessions and payment is upfront. My rates are lower than most and my sessions longer. I am also happy to work on donations for those who are very cash strapped.
Do not let the fact that you're broke ever stop you from reaching for help - just be respectful of the person that helps you. Lack of gratitude doesn't make people feel very charitable.
While I have studied many of the religious texts over the years, A Course in Miracles is still my favorite, and my ego work is based on A Course in Miracles.
The prayers I write are also drawn from ACIM, and I will often recommend it as a worthwhile study practice. Personally, I have studied ACIM for 15 years already.
Free ACIM resources are available at www.acim.org and you can read one of my ACIM articles at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-course-in-miracles-the-cliff-notes
ACIM Prayers can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-course-in-miracles-acim-prayer-for-healing-for-lightworkers and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-course-in-miracles-acim-daily-prayers-for-lightworkers and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-course-in-miracles-acim-prayer-blessing-for-teachers-lightworkers
I greatly enjoy ACIM based coaching and study sessions, and offer specialized ACIM coaching, mentoring and teaching services.
I work from the ACIM Urtext.
Well I guess it's no great surprise that I have a really fabulous intuition and psychic ability to draw on, and if you'd like a psychic reading done, that can be arranged.
There are multiple options for readings, starting with in person, video service or audio service, including phone calls. Alternately we can chat over messenger service or you can send me your questions via email - limited to ten questions.
I ask that you include a recent photo of yourself, your birth details (day, month, year, time and town) so that I can calculate your astrology chart and astrological atlas, and the same for anyone else you are querying.
I offer specialized Twin Flame readings and can assist you with figuring out the complexities of your Twin Flame.
I also offer advanced level readings where I can track down causes of problems and challenges and help you identify what may be holding you back.
My readings are very accurate and I get very good detail, which freaks people out at times. So please warn me if you don't want warnings about impending deaths and stuff like that, because I often get that kind of information.
My readings tend to be very practical as well, with practical advice on life issues and challenges. I may also channel directly in face to face sessions.
This covers more of the shamanic style healing work, and involves scanning the body energetically to detach any energetic elements that may be influencing you.
This includes entities, possession, cords, attachments, implants, attacks, negative energies, stuck energies, soul retrievals and more.
There session are usually performed entirely remotely - you simply whatsapp or email your list of symptoms or problems to us, along with a recent photo and your birth details.
We'll then take a look at you energetically and determine what needs to be done and removed, do the work and then send you feedback, usually within 24 hours or so.
We may also pick up belief systems, blockages in charkas and meridians, and other energy related issues, which will all be cleared.
Whatever we find we'll lift in the clearing, and let you know about afterwards.
Payment must reflect in Paypal before the session will be performed, if this is the first few times we're working together.
Any aspect of healing and clearing listed above can be performed in person or remotely.
Coaching, mentoring and teaching can take place via text message service, email exchanges, audio and video chats. I'm flexible around timezones and don't mind being awake in the middle of the night for sessions.
If you'd like to read an actual transcript of a client text session, with names changed for privacy, here's the link: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/real-client-session-transcript
Healings and clearings are completely energetic and can therefore be performed remotely as well. Simply message your challenges, along with a picture and birth details (day, month, time, town and year), and we'll do the work and send you feedback.
In addition there are free online DIY tools, and downloadable web apps you can purchase - perfect for coaching yourself at 2AM, when you really need healing help.
Free Mirrors of Relationship Tools can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/ and 300 free tools can be found here as well: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/free-diagnostics-tools
If you would like to purchase copies of the tools ad-free, to use at home, without needing Internet access, you can visit this page: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/paid-coaching-tools
I also have an extensive YouTube channel ( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-OLqyqYUqamwu4DjBIFUw ) which contains a variety of tools and resources, including DIY energy healing sessions you can use for most applications, to fix trauma or a bad day: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiMxbFNz0zE&list=PL_nGXJMLD98RADZvj7YRvVWIi1m_WmUEP
There is also a complete video series for suicide and depression here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDKuHUCL7LI&list=PL_nGXJMLD98Q5dUSJ61gVfUPbBo_8ZErH and a video series to help you understand the basics of energy and chakras can be found here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/understanding-energy-auras
A series of chakra healing video tools can be found here at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/chakra-healing-videos-by-life-coaches-toolbox and daily use tools such as Go Ape and Butterfly Release can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/daily-energy-healing-basics and a Ho'oponopono interactive forgiveness tool can be found here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/forgive.html
The daily use tools are designed to help you manage your energetic system so that you do not go into shifting overload.
Read more about shifting overload and getting sick after shifting at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/shifting-too-much-and-too-fast and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/getting-physically-ill-after-a-kundalini-awakening
My areas of speciality and focus are manyfold, and in a nutshell, I can help with any challenge or issue you are currently facing.
Grief & Loss
Break Ups & Divorce
Suicide and Depression
Personal Development & Growth
Relationship Counseling & Therapy - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-a-relationship and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-to-bond-without-touch-when-a-relationship-is-strained and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/5-answers-to-the-question-what-does-he-or-she-want
Marketing Your Business - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-you-re-not-expecting-about-marketing-a-spiritual-personal-development-or-healing-business
Soul Purpose & Mission - Vision, Purpose & Values generator at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/vpvindex.html
Twin Flames - How to manage and balance the Twin Flame relationship with tools and understanding - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/twin-flame-grounding-balancing-exercise
Twit Flames - break ups and the runner chaser cycle, as well as balancing dualites across the relationship - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-your-twin-flame-relationship-had-to-end-the-good-news
Lightworkers and Lightwarriors - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-age-of-aquarius-and-5d-reality-personal-growth-lessons-lightworkers-and-empaths-are-grappling-with-right-now and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/understanding-the-lightworker-mission-roles and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-creation-unification-story-for-lightworkers and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/lightworker-mission-challenges-part-1-lightworkers-and-our-love-hate-relationship-with-humans
Empaths and Narcissists - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/5-ways-that-narcissists-and-psychopaths-break-down-your-self-esteem-in-abusive-relationships
Ego, the Ego Cycle, and Ego Deaths
How to do Shadow Work or Facing Your Dark
Trials by Fire and Dark Nights of the Soul
Ascension & Enlightenment, Consciousness, Awareness and Mindfulness
Prayer & Meditation
Faith & Trust
Growing Your Intuition
Growing Your Other Psychic Abilities, such as telekinesis, levitation, flying, reading thoughts, channeling, clairaudience, claircognisance, clairvoyance, clairsentience, and more
Healing Yourself & Others
Losing weight by using your mind
Losing weight by shifting issues
A Course in Miracles
1. Performing and understanding miracles
2. What is ego?
3. Study support for Text & Workbook, plus the five additional books, including Teacher's Manual
4. How to live ACIM practically
5. Common Mistakes
6. Not letting it get to you
7. Shortcuts and important focus points
8. The more vague lessons and how they play out in life, e.g. I am under no laws but God's or My mind holds only what I thinks with God
Religion, including seeing the parallels across religions and spiritual schools of study, or mystic schools - it's all the SAME religion, the SAME God, interpreted and packaged according to the needs of the time, and the place that religion plays in all this, as well as Christ Consciousness as an evolution. Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-do-we-need-religion and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/christ-consciousness-the-religious-overtones-for-the-shift and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/science-is-as-much-a-religion-as-christianity-or-islam and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/4-responses-jesus-would-get-if-he-was-alive-today
The conflict with manifestation on the spiritual journey - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/manifesting-consciously-destroys-your-miracle-abilities
Coping with money issues on the spiritual journey - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-spiritual-people-battle-with-money
Dealing with alienation and loneliness on the spiritual path, as well as the need to isolate, turtle or hermit yourself - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-seekers-hibernate-and-alienate-people and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/people-think-us-spiritual-types-are-weird and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/people-don-t-understand-you-and-you-don-t-fit-in
Suicide and depression on the spiritual journey - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-are-spiritual-people-often-depressed-and-suicidal-the-link-between-your-spiritual-journey-and-mental-illness
Antidepressants - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-antidepressant-debate
How you can expect life and relationships to change as you grow and how to cope with it - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/3d-vs-5d-reality-question-how-will-my-spiritual-growth-knowledge-affect-my-relationship-with-my-spouse-and-children
Seeing your worth on the spiritual journey and understanding what you makes worthy to stand for God - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-to-interpret-seeing-ugliness-and-ego-in-others-what-makes-you-worthy-on-the-spiritual-journey
Difficult spiritual concepts such as God ( http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-god-and-understanding-god-as-all-that-is ), the morphic or holographic field ( http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together ), time ( http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/key-spiritual-concepts-understanding-time-as-a-dimension ), faith ( http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/why-do-you-have-faith and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/converting-someone-to-your-way-of-thinking-or-faith-by-conversion and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/ego-and-conversion-conversion-is-lazy-faith and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-lessons-in-faith ), ascension ( http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-most-important-steps-to-enlightenment-ascension-the-cliff-notes ), and so much more!
The Mirrors of Relationship - read articles here: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-to-use-the-human-consciousness-scale-mirrors and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-mirrors-of-relationship-rabbit-hole
The 7Ps of Ego - read articles at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-7ps-of-ego-understanding-ego-and-easily-solving-issues-with-mirrors and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-money-problem-part-3-your-ego-responses-to-tightening-your-belt
The Ego Layers of Separation - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/a-simple-analogy-to-understand-ego-with-7ps-of-ego-questions
Understanding Ego & Manifestation
1. What is Ego? Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/ego-101-what-is-ego
2. Going numb on the ego journey - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/going-numb-on-the-ego-journey-why-you-need-to-create-drama
3. The Ego Cycle and Manifestation or Law of Attraction, and how this makes you depressed - read mroe at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/how-manifesting-money-things-makes-you-depressed
4. How manifesting destroys the miracle ability - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/manifesting-consciously-destroys-your-miracle-abilities
5. What is the System and how does it trap you? - http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/what-is-the-system and http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/5-ways-the-system-traps-you-and-keeps-you-trapped
6. Overcoming personalization and the victim mentality - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/personalization-on-the-ego-journey
The Money Problem and why spiritual types battle with money - read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-money-problem-part-1-your-money-mindset
There's so much more as I've said before, because "there is no order of difficulty in miracles." (ACIM)
If you have a problem, we can make it go away - and we can turn your emotional, mental and psychic pain into spiritual gold... if you're willing to do the work, that is.
Before we have our first session, please take time to make a short five minute video of yourself talking about your life as it exists now. You’ll want to come back to that in a couple of months to measure growth. No one ever has to see it except you.
Alternately, just journal a bit and create a written record of where you are right now that you can reference later.
Please obtain a notebook for journalling purposes.
Journalling is simply logging the statements, thoughts or aha moments as they arise, with time and date. Eventually you’ll be filling multiple pages a day, and it’s handy to go back and see what you are shifting when you are trying to calculate where you are in terms of integration and processing.
Before sessions, please get your earbuds or earphones or headphones and plug them in! The sound quality on Skype and other service video and audio chats is always better if you use earbuds.
Before sessions, please go to your router and restart it by powering it down and unplugging it for a count of 60 seconds. Then plug it back in and turn the power on again. This will reset your ADSL line and usually gives you a stronger connection.
Once you’ve done that, please just log on to www.speedtest.net and run a speediest on your line to check the bandwidth.
If your line is under 1MB download speed then it’s not good. Most residential lines are at least 1MB. Check your package to see what the download speed should be. If it’s low each time you do it, then contact your provider to reset your line properly for you.
The extra effort is worth it for the lack of drama on the call while we’re busy.
Skype and video services do glitch every now and then, so if the call glitches, give it up 30 seconds before you end the call and redial. If it’s glitching, sometimes turning the video on and off will restore the line fidelity.
If I’ve called you first, then you can call me back. Sometimes dialing from the other side connects us to a better server.
Mostly though, if you wait a few seconds, the line will stop glitching and the call will restore itself. I honestly think the providers do it because they want to stop the high volume of calls and load on their servers. So that’s something that will make people end the call - and if you watch it, it often happens around a five or ten minute interval. Way too regular to be just coincidence.
So you have to be patient. Usually past a while the line stabilizes until about an hour into the call - again way too on the mark with time to just believe it’s random coincidence.
You will also probably notice that the line glitches when we get to important info. It’s happened so often that I am pretty sure they’re listening to try and interfere and prevent critical info from getting through. Let them listen… maybe they’ll learn something LOL ;)
Read more about data privacy here at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/on-data-risks-of-using-the-internet-and-the-power-of-working-remotely
So if the line glitches, wait before you hang up. It will usually stabilize within a few seconds and you can continue talking.
We won’t let the little stressors slow us down! LOL <3 Read more at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/lightworker-mission-challenges-part-2-warning-constant-low-grade-stressors
Before we meet for the first time, I do ask you to do the following prayer with me, which invites the Holy Spirit into our relationship, so that the relationship may be used as a tool for growth, instead of by ego to separate us.
View the prayer to dedicate relationship to holiness, in text and video format, at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/dedicating-relationships-to-holiness
I know how time works on the spiritual journey and I know how it can eat at you to get something shifted NOW - so I cater to that lol <3
I was exactly the same… 24 hours was forever to sit with an issue that could be cleared.
Importantly, make sure you put HELP or EMERGENCY or something similar in the subject line and/or first line so that I know it’s emergent. Otherwise I may only get back to you in 24 hours.
This is especially important on Fridays and Saturdays as I take Shabbat from Friday sundown to Saturday sundown most weeks.
If I see HELP or EMERGENCY I know I need to respond. Otherwise I will assume you can survive 24 hours.
Likewise for overnight hearings and clearings, you can simply Whatsapp or email me and I will do the clearing and send you feedback on the same medium.
All new clients will be required to pay for their sessions before I perform the sessions. Payments are via PayPal and you can pay at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/donate
Sessions cost USD 39 across the board and I can ONLY accept payments by PayPal if you are outside of South Africa.
A PayPal account is free and safe, and you will not be entering your banking details on my website, but rather giving them to PayPal.
I get told often that my prices are low and I do agree - so if you think the amount is too low, you are welcome to donate more using the donate button, which also links to PayPal.
South African clients can contact me for banking details for direct deposits.
All new clients will be required to pay for their sessions before I perform the sessions.
Payments are via PayPal and you can pay at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/donate
Sessions cost USD 39 across the board and I can ONLY accept payments by PayPal if you are outside of South Africa.
A PayPal account is free and safe, and you will not be entering your banking details on my website, but rather giving them to PayPal.
I get told often that my prices are low and I do agree - but I also know how hard you can get hit financially by a Dark Night.
So if you think the amount is too low, you are welcome to donate more using the donate button, which also links to PayPal. The donate button allows you to specify the amount of the payment, while the link below is a fixed cost of USD 39 that generates an invoice for your records.
South African clients can contact me for banking details for direct deposits and pricing in South African Rand.
If you require an invoice, then you can pay using this link: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/pay-for-your-coaching-session-with-chemory-gunko
Ongoing clients are able to discuss a monthly flat fee for ongoing support and mentoring and healing work.
We can chat about an amount that is comfortable for both of us, and what we each expect and are willing to give in exchange for that.
In general, I am in touch with ongoing clients for quick text chats on an almost daily basis, with a fixed amount of text or video coaching sessions scheduled per month - say two or four.
You get a flat rate for healing costs monthly, which is way lower than average, and I get a more stable income.
You also get all the healing help you need, and basically 24 hour access to help from me, whenever you need it. And that includes energy healing help when you need it, coaching, mentoring, teaching, readings and so much more.
I have an enormous skillset, and you can pull on or learn from any of the areas I have that interest you.
What you use the ongoing coaching for is up to you, but its real value is that I am on hand to help you correct your thinking and inner voice and behaviors immediately, in the moment. So we not only get rid of the bad habits, but we create the correct habits.
And because I’m on hand on your device immediately, you can reach me wherever you are, as the problem arises. So we deal with stuff as it happens - so you get to learn the skills and when to apply them.
We’ll keep the momentum of your journey going and help you deal with any ego traps, stumbling blocks and potential roadblocks you may face along the way.
And importantly, we do it spread out over time, not in one rushed session, and it’s often in a written text format, so that you can go back and reread what we spoke about at your leisure, and follow up on the links that I have sent you.
Ongoing clients get access to all my tools at no extra cost as well, with ongoing guidance about when to use which tool for which application.
I don’t answer phone calls, just like so many millenials. There are a million services you can use to reach me much more quickly.
Text message, iMessage or Whatsapp on +27723354195
Skype is chemory.gunko
Facebook is https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100009562782876 and Life Coaches Toolbox Page is https://www.facebook.com/lifecoachestoolbox/?ref=bookmarks and the Advanced Lightworkers Discussion Group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/LightworkersDiscussionGroup/?ref=bookmarks
Twitter is @iamamarachristi
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Over 100 FREE videos on my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-OLqyqYUqamwu4DjBIFUw/featured
Free Fix a Bad Day DIY Energy Healing Video Sessions for Shock, Trauma, Fights & Breakups, as well as Death: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiMxbFNz0zE&list=PL_nGXJMLD98RADZvj7YRvVWIi1m_WmUEP
Free Suicide and Depression Energy Healing Video Course: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDKuHUCL7LI&list=PL_nGXJMLD98Q5dUSJ61gVfUPbBo_8ZErH
Prepare for a big and important day with this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7LT5hYK_2c&list=PL_nGXJMLD98RIm-SjJnKdd8iCrvdZ4YIn&index=1
My blog has in excess of 400 articles and can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/life-coaches-toolbox-blog-resource-index
There are 300-plus free tools on the website at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/free-diagnostics-tools
Big Mirrors of Relationship and other tools can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/
Free Vision, Purpose & Values Generator can be found at http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/newmirrors/vpvindex.html
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As at May 2018, the contributions of other content creators is limited entirely to blog articles and pieces.
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The only people that have access to and work on the back end of the website are the healers directly involved in, and listed on the website. There are no external developers involved and all the development and maintenance work is performed by Chemory Gunko and Angelica Gunko.
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So the format in which you receive your results by email, or the way it is displayed on the submit page of the tool you’re using, is the only readable format of your results that exists.
If you haven't received an email with your results, please just check your junk mailbox for the results email, and add lifecoachestoolbox.com to your safe senders’ domain list to make sure you receive future results.
Amara Christi is ONE OF the Prophets currently alive on Earth - but NOT the Only One.
You know, you're really going to laugh at yourself when you realize why there can't be Only One ;) #justsaying ;)
What the 144,000 means is that there are meant to be AT LEAST 144,000 of us on the planet at the same time.
AT LEAST 144,000 - that means that's the minimum. We could have as many as 8-billion, and that would be preferable in fact.
Those 144,000 will largely be Prophets or Messiahs.
What's the difference?
Both are mouthpieces and voices for God, but Messiahs care more about how people RECEIVE the word of God, while Prophets care more about DELIVERING the word of God accurately.
So Messiahs are about bringing people to God, while Prophets are about bringing God to the people. Messiahs tend to care more about ego and people's offense than Prophets do, as well.
Maranism is tool for those of us on this path (the 144,000-plus) to unite ourselves across borders and religions, so that we complete the work of showing the changing timeline of evolution across the religions. And bring about the new Spiritual Renaissance.... the Golden Age of Aquarius.
So, if you're thinking that that is a weird intro for a biography, then you're probably right... doesn't seem to say much about the person does it?
Except in this case, it tells you everything...
Amara Christi is passionate (read obsessed) with doing the work of God, and making this shift happen so that we can REALLY change the world.
And she's obsessed with understanding how all of this fits together, and seeing the whole picture of knowledge. Tidbits of info, like those above, fascinate her.
She's a Prophet, NOT a Messiah... definitely way more interested in delivering the message accurately and in its entirety.
For this reason, people tend to find her aloof and distant, and intimidating is a word that comes up often.
Which is odd, cause really she's really good fun once you get to know her... she's just REALLY self disciplined and strict LOL <3
But, we get ahead of ourselves... so let's start at the beginning.
This is where I switch it to a first person tone ;)
Technically, this is an autobiography. The person writing it is me, Amara Christi, the Prophet formerly known as Chemory Gunko.
LOL - I love playing on the Artist formerly known as Prince thing... a random fact about me.
Another fact is that I'd point out that this is autobiographical... I'm super particular about language. Language really is my thing... it's the tool of the morphic field.
Amara Christi is my spiritual name, given by God - beautiful story actually. Chemory Gunko was the name I was born with. It feels like a distant memory and past life now.
Which do I prefer? Probably Amara, but honestly I don't mind, notice, or even pay much attention to identity.
I'll remember your Godview, but I'd be hard pressed to describe your face, or remember any physical attributes about you. I have face blindness in fact.
I tend to laugh a lot and I have a really loud, booming voice, I've been told. Mostly by my kids, who are both young adults already. So I'm old LOL <3 Happy to (FINALLY!) be the crone though ;)
I hate my arms and shoulders and legs and feet being covered, but I do cover myself out of modesty, and wear a headscarf, in public. I love how Muslim ladies look at me in shock, and then respect, when they see it LOL <3
So now you really do know a couple of human facts about me as a person - you're welcome LOL.
Most importantly though, like you, I am a seeker.
My journey started REALLY early... at the age of four, when I looked at myself in the mirror one day and had the thought, "If I had lived before this, I would not remember now."
There was nothing to trigger it... I was standing on my own in my bedroom, not really doing anything, and the thought arrived as clear as day.
And it was like a light switched on. I remember everything from that moment onwards.
I kept coming back to that thought over the years, along with all the other thoughts that were overloading my mind and experience, and the burning desire to find answers never died, it just grew and grew and grew over time.
Within a year of that four-year-old experience, I started being taken to psychologists and psychiatrists... this was early 80s. It wasn't a common thing back then - not in South Africa anyway.
I was already a deeply emotional rebel and "problem child", and I just couldn't seem to get control of my emotions.
My poor parents couldn't cope - I didn't even know what was happening to me.
I'm not sure anyone could have reached or helped me at that stage... so I learned to do things for myself.
But there was still something special about me, and it came out in my mind and thinking.
I was incredibly smart, and very academic, if I applied myself, and it showed.
My aptitude test results showed that I could do literally anything I wanted to, but I had a particular talent for languages. My IQ test results were one of the highest ever to pass through my high school, I was told by a HoD that was chiding me for my academic laziness.
And I was lazy, even though I was smart. School and the system either bored me to tears, or invoked my rebel archetype.
I was also too tall, too big built, too fat, too muscular, too masculine, too smart, too confident, wore thick glasses, had braces and had my hair cut like a boy.
I also had no filter for, or recognition of, social structures and protocols - I'd probably have been labelled on the Autism spectrum if I'd been born today.
All of this combined did not exactly make for the easiest of childhoods LOL... I was the outcast. Everywhere.
My parents were divorced, my dad had rejected me in my mind. My step family never really took to me, and my mom immersed herself in her marriage. That extended to school... and I was just on the outside everywhere it felt like.
I can laugh about it now, because everything that was of Chemory feels so distant, like a past life... but at the time? Wow. I was falling apart.
My first nearly successful suicide attempt was at age 14, my last nearly successful attempt was at age 24, in the wake of Post Natal Depression.
I felt too much, was too loud, was too dramatic, and boy was I ever a drama queen and hypochondriac, and I kept slipping into the most terrible depressions.
Life didn't make sense to me, the planet didn't make sense to me, and I knew there had to be something more - I just didn't know what it was.
But I kept looking.
Answer after answer, tool after tool, every book I could lay my hands on that I thought might have answers... because I knew that I should be able to do more. To heal myself and others with my mind. To perform what I thought of at the time as magic and miracles.
I had crashes and mental breakdowns. I found healing modalities and got addicted...and because my father was one of the persons who knew how to do it in my country, I got access to healing on a daily basis.
So, going back as far as two decades, I have been shifting multiple beliefs and belief systems daily. And I've never slowed down... I've just speeded up.
I raise the time issue because it's important... it takes years to get to the point where you are truly ready for this. And years to get all the practice you need in the various skills - like faith, and patience.
So many journeyers want to believe in the quick fix silver bullet, where they are gifted with natural abilities in a moment, without having to do work... well that's one of the mindsets we're here to change.
Anyone can do and achieve what I have done, it's just going to take dedicated focus, every single day, for hours every day, for almost every day of your life. That's the price for entry - and it's not a process you want to rush.
Eventually, I began studying healing modalities for myself, and over time, I started learning how to heal myself.
But it still felt like information gathering, like I was getting ready for something. And the momentum was growing... I was moving towards a point where I needed to start taking action. I just didn't know what that action was or what the path ahead looked like.
When my daughter was born in 2001, that was followed with a heavy bout of postnatal depression, that led to a suicide attempt when she was about 18 months. There were a whack of other traumas in that time.
I didn't know it then, but this was the really big start of my spiritual journey... my daughter was a Twin Flame that had triggered an advanced soul aspect awakening in me.
From the day I fell pregnant with her, my life was chaos. Her dad left me alone to have the baby, and my family left me homeless too. Thank God for my then best friend who took me in and gave me a place to stay.
Even the birth itself was trauma - I was alone at home and the fastest way to get to the hospital was to drive myself, in labour. I don't want to do that one again LOL <3
Then once I'd tried to commit suicide after the postnatal depression, I landed up being hospitalized for six months.
That was one of the worst depressions ever... I had a complete mental and emotional breakdown. I even landed up with epilepsy... which I now know was me rejecting the new information coming through, and personalising my attack to myself.
And one night, about two years after my daughter was born, I had a dream.
In this dream I was walking through a shopping centre, and there was tall, dark, robed figure next to me. I know now it was AA Michael.
As we passed by a mezannine balcony, this figure suddenly took me by the hands, and swung me out over the balcony, and safely to the other side. The message was "we've always got you" and "we'll always catch you."
I woke up the next morning a new person, and the next stage of my life started that day.
It wasn't all sunshine and roses from there, but I certainly could make things happen and move. And I did well in my career.
The next major stage was from 2005 approximately... I had my biggest trial period.
Suddenly I was unemployed, and I began studying healing modalities and began the initial work that led to Mirrors.
This trial period lasted nine months, and what I know now is that it was to prepare me for my Dark Night - to give me a timeline to measure against in terms of progress. This timeline kept me sane during my Dark Night.
This period ended when God revealed himself to me... which was totally unexpected.
Things had been wrong for months at that stage, I was feeling very low, and suddenly, one night, lying alone in my lounge, feeling sorry for myself, God gave me a vision - his open hands held out towards me.
I was filled with the most incredible bliss and gratitude... for like a month, my soul could only sing thank you.
About a month later, I was knocked harshly out that blissful state by my daughter throwing a huge tantrum, but that was good - because then the results could play out.
And really, by 3D standards, things went well for me after that.
I wouldn't have said so at the time, because I was very guilty of deeply personalising stuff, and I tended to be the victim and feel sorry for myself a lot. Money anxiety could completely knock me.
But from here, life went pretty easy and comfortably, and I kept at my studies and I kept growing.
A Course in Miracles was my preferred avenue, and I started figuring out how to heal myself - or at least how to make money so that healers apart from my father could work on me LOL.
And then 2012 happened, and as a result of a series of circumstances, I landed up quitting my job on the spot.
I'd already been planning to start my own marketing company - I used to be a marketing expert - but there was this one day at the office, this one incident, and I just had enough.
That same day, one of my oldest friends also lost her job opportunity, and we agreed to try and kick the business off together.
And we did, and we made a success of it. It was slow going at first, but by the time I had to retrench staff, when shit really started going wrong for me, there were 15 staff members in total.
During this time, I made a decision to be ruthless, to do whatever I needed to to ensure the business success... that was when I slipped into my "dark" - my ego side. And I became VERY focused on money.
It paid off - I was earning well. I had owned my home for five years at this point, my furniture and car were basically paid, and I had money to play with.
Heading towards the end of 2012 however, was the incident that really triggered my FIVE YEAR LONG Dark Night of the Soul... my stepmom died.
My father was influential in my life, but not in a good way. I am what I am in spite of him, not because of anything he did to aid me.
One of the cruelest things he ever did was around my stepmother's death... starting with how he informed me. I got a two word whatsapp... 'Ladragh passed'.
She had passed the previous night, and I only found out at 7am that morning. And I was heartbroken.
I went through to the house, but it was pretty clear my dad and my step siblings didn't want us around. I haven't seen any of my step siblings since the funeral a couple of weeks later in fact.
My family, on my Dad's side, really started when my stepmom came into our lives. He positioned himself as a caring father who had been sidelined to curry favour with her.
But, from the day she died, as quickly as my "family" had started on that side two decades previously, it came to a grinding halt.
She had held us together, and her death shifted everything.
At first I was devastated, but later on I realised that with that family gone, the expectation to be like them was gone as well. So I was free to ask myself who I was.
Had my stepmom not died, I would have kept getting pulled back into that morphic field and way of thinking, and I would not have had the enormous growth that I experienced over the next five years.
That was really the start of my isolation in my Dark Night of the Soul period.
The following five years were REALLY tumultuous.
I decided to ask my then husband for a separation, and while I was separated I met my Twin Flame. The great love of my life... or so I thought.
Fast forward to 2017, four years after meeting him, and I found out that he's married, and was married the whole time. Also he'd created an entire false identity to entrap me into a relationship.
I'd been well and truly catfished.
When God said to me I'd get a miracle around this relationship, I didn't expect that miracle to be an instruction to Google something that led to me finding photos of him, under his real name, randomly on the Internet.
Just think about that... four years of Twin Flame hell, and I'm ready for the miracle God promised me., waiting patiently, and suddenly I get an instruction to "Google this."
It's a weird instruction, but hey I've had weirder. And suddenly I'm looking at photos of him and his wife, discovering the truth.
A miracle certainly... because I had no clue, and no information to lead me to that discovery. A miracle certainly, because it's a sudden expansion of knowledge. But not exactly the pretty packaging and sunshine and roses I was expecting.
Those four years spent in that relationship weren't wasted though, most notably because I channeled, and then spent two years refining, the Mirrors of Relationship process. LOL... my Twin Flame offered lots of fodder for healing inside myself. Lots of testing of the process.
So, one of the reasons I believe so strongly in Mirrors, is that I have experienced firsthand what it can do. And then I've replicated those results in others.
Mirrors was just one aspect though... there were so many more tools I was discovering, insights I was reaching, new interpretations of old teachings I was seeing... and now I knew, I just KNEW I was "going ahead to get ready for what was coming end of 2017, into 2018".
I was so excited about it, and so ready to go ahead and gather info, and I was trying to find ways to get it out there, to gather all the stuff together coherently... I never stopped to think people would not be excited to hear what I had to say.
For me, this information, what I've been learning and discovering, is so fascinating, I feel like I'm living the dream. I kid you not.
The stuff I've gotten to experience the past few years has really been the adventure I was looking for.
I'd lived for so long, living a half life, knowing I was waiting for something to start, getting ready, and being sure I did not have the answers, that when I did stumble onto this path of truth, I was so excited that I threw myself wholeheartedly into it.
And boy, did I ever KNOW... I just knew these answers were right. I was seeing results like never before, feeling better than ever before, really achieving peace and resolution. My skills and ability and understanding were growing daily - by the minute in fact.
I had all the confirmation and validation I needed - and the results were obvious. And I knew this time that I had the truth.
More importantly, it all keeps fitting together.
Every new layer just keeps adding richness and complexity, and filling the picture more and more... and there's no way I could be making this up.
I've never been any good at stories anyway LOL. I'm very factual as a writer - many have pointed it out. I'm a business writer.
But that doesn't mean that the world will listen to what I have to say - what we have to say. Because those of us that are getting it, are all coming to the same conclusions. This is just one of the ways we've had confirmation of the path we've found.
Still, in a world of "my subjective truth", ego's truth trumps. And that makes it possible for people to dismiss what we have to say.
We're all also so used to doing this on our own, and the rebel archetype is strong in order to make us find a new way of being. It makes us ignore the status quo and break the rules.
Once I got out there and started doing this work, I discovered how hard it is to reach and help people under these circumstances.
I also noticed that there was a distinct lack of a community for advanced souls to belong to.
One Tuesday, after seeing one too many "please heal me for free" and "here's your free reading" posts in one of the groups I belonged to, I though to myself: "Myself! You've got all these marketing skills - why don't you start a group for advanced souls?"
Hmmm.... why don't I start a group for advanced souls? That's a good question.
And then I thought... well why not? And so I did. I formed the Advanced Lightworkers Discussion Group.
The group has had its ups and downs and has been an interesting experience, because I know it is the right thing - a community for advanced souls. I've just tried various formats and approaches and it never quite seemed to deliver the right results.
For one, people got very offended when Christ Consciousness happened to me, because suddenly I started talking about God. What I've learned since is that it happens to everyone eventually and it usually takes about a week to transition - but until you get there, you're probably going to be very anti religion.
Which I was by the way. For many years. In fact, at the start of all this, when I got the info that I was preparing for the shift, I remember saying to God... it will never be a religion. We hate religion; it can't be a religion. We'll have to find a new way.
Boy am I ever eating my words now LOL <3
Spirituality has labelled RELIGION and turned it into as trigger word. Like God.
They'll organise into communities, but NOT a religion or church. They believe in a Higher Power and Consciousness, but not God.
Honestly? Same things - different labels.
ALL a religion actually is, is a group of people who share a common belief system (Ascension in our case), and a common way of life. They organise themselves into local communities for the purpose of learning together, sharing a common lifestyle, celebrating together and supporting each other.
This is what religion is - it's not the atrocities that certain religious belief systems have perpetrated.
And these elements - people to live, work, grow, share and celebrate with - these are the things that all of us are missing.
Every single advanced soul, when I meet them, is alone, lonely, and usually convinced they are going insane because they are too ashamed of the things they are experiencing to mention them to anyone.
I honestly spend the first few weeks with everyone just convincing them that they aren't insane - mirroring parallel experiences from my life to theirs, so that they can see the parallels.
This is a dance on the edge of insanity - for all of us. And we make it so much harder than it has to be by doing it alone.
So I've finally given up my resistance to the label of religion, and I'm putting myself out there so that the other 144,000 know it's time to come forward. And that they have a community to join, a place to belong.
The problem with group is that I keep trying to keep God out of it - and that's just not possible anymore. I see God in EVERYTHING - I cannot help it.
So I need to immerse myself in God, and use that burning passion to create a home for those who share a similar belief structure. And importantly, to create a structure, over time, that will help future seekers more easily achieve enlightenment.
Speaking of enlightenment, that's a big elephant I need to address... I ascended, achieved enlightenment, crossed the ascension barrier, died, whatever term works for you, in December 2016.
I laughed when I read the Buddhist approach a few months later... you should approach ascension with the idea that you are working towards it, but do not expect it to happen. I just naturally had that mindset throughout my life.
So when I sat down on my couch one Saturday in December, and suddenly I crossed a barrier, and I knew what was happening, it came as a shock at the same time. I had never thought it would happen, but it did.
So, I have a choice... I can step forward and be brave enough to show myself, and use my considerable mental prowess to build a home for all of us, that will very well serve as our shield in the future... OR... I can go away and hide and use my knowledge to only benefit myself and line my own pockets.
Okay I couldn't do the second one, because I'm too far down the road LOL, but you get the point ;)
And I thought about it, and about how much I have changed since 2012, and especially since Ascending... I've answered every single question about life, God, the universe, the cosmos, what it all means - every question I've ever had since that day.
I KNEW was on the right path before, but the level to which I KNOW now - that is incomparable.
I KNOW... and I'm not going to hide.
I will stand up and stand for God, and I will light a way for those want to go on this grand and glorious adventure with me.
Because this is a grand and glorious adventure - and I live every day in PEACE and FULFILLMENT.
Nothing rattles me, nothing daunts me, and as you can see by the fact that I'm launching a religion, standing for God, nothing is beyond His reach through me.
I am ready for this, and I believe you can be too.
I have answers, resources, tools, insights, teachings and shortcuts - and I don't care to make a fortune with them. I care to help my advanced brothers and sisters achieve Ascension too.
So we're doing this in a format people will understand.... cos it turns out God is right (AGAIN) - it has to be a religion. It's the mechanism that already exists. And there's no need to reinvent the wheel.
My vote is that we rock this planet and show them what a religion can do, and what it can really mean, when it's filled with people who are truly dedicated to their individual spiritual journeys.
Why am I so ready?
I've asked myself this, and it was one of the things I unpacked in detail over the past few years. I keep asking this question, cos wow, if we could activate that in people, the job would be done quickly LOL <3
First, I keep choosing for this and I am deeply willing. If you work with me for a bit, my faith is powerful.
Secondly my karmic history - most of my lives have been as Rabbis and Buddhist Monks. This lifetime, I tested myself by placing myself in an environment devoid of enlightenment teaching, and full of religious rules and money and narcissism, to see if I could achieve enlightenment on my own, without a lifetime of training.
Third I'm a bit of a machine LOL - I've always been years ahead of everyone. I get stuff done. I run with ideas. I initiate. I take risks.
This is a risk for me - it really puts me out there. There will be backlash, and that's okay. I've had practice over my life LOL <3
Like Moses, I've made mistakes - and that's also a big part of why it's me.
I have a VERY colorful background, and you will find every skeleton imaginable (except stuff that hurts other people), if you go digging in my past. You'll even find out I was a prostitute for a short while, and stripper for a longer period to avoid prostitution. I've authored books on sex and BDSM as well.
Why does it matter that I have a colorful past?
Our job is not to ascend the planet ourselves, it's to show people that each and every one of them is capable of ascending.
So many people, by their own choice or not, have terrible pasts and sexual histories.
Many lightworkers faced abuse, being trafficked, kidnapped, incest, rape, and all sorts of torturous things that we wanted to have end in this generation.
The thing about lightworkers is that we're empaths... so we can take a whole bunch of negative energy and still turn it into something good.
My colorful past is to show people that it doesn't matter what they did, where they come from, if they TRULY mean it, and DO THE WORK, they can come to God IN ONE LIFETIME.
It does not matter what you've done - it matters what you do with it and who you become as a result. You have a whole lifetime to get that right.
People are going to judge me for this... especially if people take it out of context and just use those facts - and I'm ready for that. I'll answer any questions posed. I have nothing to hide.
But I have tools, resources, help, support, advice, a community and security to share. And that is all I offer. A framework - take what you need and leave the rest behind.
This piece of writing is rare LOL... I hardly ever tell my story or give examples, and really, I barely touched on much today.
I find it's a conflict to personalise the teaching to my story, and use my story, when I'm trying to show you how not to personalise. Especially since that is one of the first keys to Ascension.
But, if I'm going to do something THIS ballsy, and put myself out there, well I'd better take the time to explain myself hey? No point in being shy about it LOL ;)
So, to close it all up.... Christi is a TITLE - it shows my ascension. Amara is my God-given name.
Maran has nothing to do with that - Amara came after, and draws on, Maran.
My title in the religion? I'll be opening a church, called a temple to us, and therefore Priestess works.
I'm a Healer, Sage, Alchemist, Magician.... Healer means I do distance and in person healing work and am a faith healer, like all priests and priestesses in the church. I also do counseling style work, coaching and mentoring stuff.
Sage means wisdom - I get these big downloads of information and entire healing modalities. I teach regularly, and those teachings to shortcut souls will move to the church now.
Alchemist turns emotional lead into spiritual gold.... I take your pain and use it to bring you closer to God. Magician - I work with and read the morphic field. This is my area of personal passion on Earth.
I did this alone for so long too, and since I've started collecting souls into communities, I’ve learned a few things… we’re ALL isolated and alone and scared and think we’re going nuts.
The work I’ve done has shown me that when you have a community of believers around you, you surge in growth – and that’s what we’re here to do and create.
If we do this right, no advanced journeyer will ever have to walk alone again, or stand alone again – they have a home, where they belong, where they will be believed and supported on their path to Ascension.
You’re not going crazy – it all has happened to us too.
We’ll make sure that this info doesn’t leave Earth again by leaving it behind in an enduring religious base, with documented material.
We will leave the instructions and guidance for ascension for any who truly are ready, and wish, to follow the path and find their way home to God.
I look forward to walking to God with you.
I look forward to lightening your load and lighting an easier way on your path.