Coaching & Healing Tools & Strategies

  • Astrological time of conception

    So what about using the astrological time of conception, if it can be calculated, as a map to understand the influence of your parent's relationship as it plays out in your life?

    So putting parental relationship influence into its own category like active memories, karma and generational patterns?

  • Back From Wonderland... Enlightened

    So I have really felt like Alice in Wonderland over the past month… the word is wow. We stop there cos no word is big enough to describe what I’ve experienced and seen. A small one will have to do.

  • Battling with Cognitive Dissonance

    Battling with Cognitive Dissonance

    The conflict between what you know spiritually (internal) and your experienced reality (external)

    Cognitive dissonance is a constant struggle for us on the spiritual journey, and it's a more constant companion as you surge higher.

  • Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

    I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?

  • Bonding tools for Long Distance Relationships

    How do you build and maintain a romantic bond without touch, smell or sex in a long distance relationship?

    When you’re in a long distance relationship it can feel like you are limited in so very many ways, first because you don’t have the basics available to you – you can’t make love or walk over and give each other a hug for example.

  • Calling all practitioners: a worldwide forgiveness healing session

    So in order to heal the world and fix it, I think we’ve all realised that it’s time to stop talking and start taking whatever action we can.

    One resource that we have available to use is healing sessions – and arranging a worldwide proxy healing session for the planet is something we can all band together and do at little to no cost.

  • Chakra Grounding to Gaia and Your Higher Self

    A simple technique to ground to Gaia and your Higher Self :)

  • Christ Consciousness & the Religious Overtones for the Shift

    Christ Consciousness & the Religious Overtones for the Shift

    Like so many other lightworkers, I come from a strict religious background.

    My parents used to make us go to church sometimes every day of the week. My mom was in the choir and the church secretary. I grew to hate Christianity.

  • Coaching & Healing Tools & Strategies

  • Coaching Strategy for Physical System Support & Practical Functionality (Getting stuff done day to day)

    Coaching Strategy for:

    • Physical System Support
    • Practical Functionality (Getting stuff done day to day)

    This will help you face the things you need to do, like work and focus and meetings and chores.

  • Control Issues

    We're definitely butting heads with control structures and 3D souls who want to try and control what they see and cannot understand.

    Luckily yesterday I did see a lot of stuff lift in that regard, and things are starting to flow more easily.

  • Converting someone to your way of thinking or faith by conversion

    Converting someone to your way of thinking or faith by conversion

    The whole idea that you automatically want to convert someone to your way of thinking because you're spiritual is somewhat annoying.

    As is the idea that you want to change someone's mind just because you're talking to them.

    Also, I find people glamorize their journeys, because it is the most exciting thing that's happened to them.

    Truth is that most people's journeys compared to ours are quite boring. Their lives and issues and experiences are quite boring.

  • Coping with day-to-day life during romantic troubles

    When you have a difficult romantic situation to deal with but you still need to get on with your day-to-day life, what can you do to clear your head and get focused again?

    Isn’t it amazing how life seems to hit all at once? Your car breaks down, you and your partner start fighting, your bank card gets cloned… all while you’re in the middle of your final exams, or the day before a massive presentation?

  • Creating Hope for Love

    This set of exercises is designed to help you chip away at resistance and build hope that you can find love again.

  • Criticism Response Analysis Tool

    Why are criticism and feedback so hard to take?

    It doesn’t matter if you’re in the corporate environment or at home with your nearest and dearest, hearing negative feedback about yourself seems to hit hard, and can shatter the way you thought things worked in an instant.

  • Cult Leaders & the Big Ego Trap of Special Relationships

    I – like so many of us – have been fascinated by human behavior my whole life, which of course has lead to a lot of reading books, biographies and watching documentaries, and I’ve loved the serial killers and cult leaders and their stories.

    So this weekend I watched a completely new one, on a place in California called the Buddhafield, watching it with a new level of awareness obviously.

    It dawned on me that there is a pattern in what all former cult members say about the evolution of cult leaders – they all start out as so holy and so pure, but then it becomes about sex eventually. And when the whole thing collapses, there’s always a sexual scandal attached – one of an extreme nature usually.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 1

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    When you're chatting to someone online via text or messenger service, and you want to get to know the real them in as short a period as possible, do the following.

    Each time you respond, send off a quick bunch of questions - say 3 to 10 questions in each response burst.

    Make sure the questions cover a variety of topics, including sex and relationships, as well as things you're looking for in a potential partner.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 2

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    We are bad at seeing liars and lies

    As you progress along the journey, you're going to cross through certain one way barriers of understanding.

    You've experienced this before with big aha moments of realisation: suddenly you think in the new way and can't imagine that you ever thought the other old way before.

    What you'll realize later on is that this is because paradigm blindness works both ways.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 3

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    So continuing on our previous thread, here are some more dating tips for empaths and twin flames.

  • Dedicating relationships to holiness

    A Course in Miracles clearly says (repeatedly, the whole text through lol) that special relationships of any kind are an ego illusion and identification - in fact the ultimate one, because they are tied to your identity and the other person's identity.

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