Coaching & Healing Tools & Strategies

  • Criticism Response Analysis Tool

    Why are criticism and feedback so hard to take?

    It doesn’t matter if you’re in the corporate environment or at home with your nearest and dearest, hearing negative feedback about yourself seems to hit hard, and can shatter the way you thought things worked in an instant.

  • Cult Leaders & the Big Ego Trap of Special Relationships

    I – like so many of us – have been fascinated by human behavior my whole life, which of course has lead to a lot of reading books, biographies and watching documentaries, and I’ve loved the serial killers and cult leaders and their stories.

    So this weekend I watched a completely new one, on a place in California called the Buddhafield, watching it with a new level of awareness obviously.

    It dawned on me that there is a pattern in what all former cult members say about the evolution of cult leaders – they all start out as so holy and so pure, but then it becomes about sex eventually. And when the whole thing collapses, there’s always a sexual scandal attached – one of an extreme nature usually.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 1

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    When you're chatting to someone online via text or messenger service, and you want to get to know the real them in as short a period as possible, do the following.

    Each time you respond, send off a quick bunch of questions - say 3 to 10 questions in each response burst.

    Make sure the questions cover a variety of topics, including sex and relationships, as well as things you're looking for in a potential partner.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 2

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    We are bad at seeing liars and lies

    As you progress along the journey, you're going to cross through certain one way barriers of understanding.

    You've experienced this before with big aha moments of realisation: suddenly you think in the new way and can't imagine that you ever thought the other old way before.

    What you'll realize later on is that this is because paradigm blindness works both ways.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 3

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    So continuing on our previous thread, here are some more dating tips for empaths and twin flames.

  • Dedicating relationships to holiness

    A Course in Miracles clearly says (repeatedly, the whole text through lol) that special relationships of any kind are an ego illusion and identification - in fact the ultimate one, because they are tied to your identity and the other person's identity.

  • Did your child’s personality and behavior suddenly change?

    What can you do if your child’s personality and behavior has suddenly changed – and what is behind the shift?

    Around the world, parents are experiencing situations where their children go from angels to demons - seemingly overnight.

    Often there seems to be no triggering factor for this change, and the contrast in behavior can be extreme, in many cases leaving parents at their wit’s end.

  • Easy tools to measure your growth and change

    A series of easy coaching tools to help you measure your personal development and consciousness growth and change over 2015.

    2015 was hard – we all felt it and it left its mark on all of us. Very few people won’t tell you that they’re glad to see the back of last year – and we’re all certainly hoping 2016 bodes better.

  • Ego and conversion - conversion is lazy faith

    Ego and conversion - conversion is lazy faith

    The more I think about conversion vs seeking, the more I realise that conversion is lazy faith.

    The thing about the journey is that it is hard - and whether you're consciously journeying or even just manifesting, it's all about building faith, and stamina of faith.

    Everything boils down to faith in the end.

  • Ego and the belief in the physical body

    Ego and the belief in the physical body

    One of the reasons that physical healing miracles are held in such high esteem above other emotional healing, for example, is that it requires you to detach from the ego identification of the body.

    What this means in practical terms, is experiences like: understanding that you have no physical body, and that the physical body, like everything in reality, is just accumulated layers of thought in agreement that the body exists.

    Being in the body while denying that it exists creates an interesting kind of cognitive dissonance, I'm not going to lie. It's not an easy balance to maintain.

  • Ego Death Basics

    Ego deaths are going to come in an area of challenge for you - mine were money, people stuff and relationships.

    Basically an ego death is a loss of something you wanted for the self.

  • Ego Deaths & Suicides

    Ego Deaths & Suicides

    Global Energy Check In - 20 September 2017 & about 23 September 2017

  • Ego Deaths EVERYWHERE... tee hee hee

    I’m sorry, I can’t help finding it just a little funny watching all these ego deaths around me the past few days.

    Part of me, first of all, really can’t believe I used to be that bad and take stuff that personally - and yes I can clearly see some of my old behaviors in others lol

    Secondly, I am truly staggered at how much people seem to be determined to hang onto their drama and take it all personally. I was unpacking this with someone and it dawned on me that a lot of this is caused by boredom actually.

  • Ego Deaths, Rock Bottoms & I Don't Matter

    When this stage of the journey first started happening to me, I couldn’t make any sense of it – it doesn’t make sense how accepting that you are worthless can lead to a breakthrough. I mean aren’t we meant to be realising we’re Gods?

    But the lessons kept coming, in deeper and deeper forms, and so I learned to surrenderto them over time, making the time period that they lasted shorter.

  • Ego in the world - The 8 Deadly Sins

    Ego in the world - The 8 Deadly Sins

    How perfect is this as a summation of what is wrong with the world and people today?

  • Energy Healing & Shifting Basics Free Resources

    This collection of free basic shifting resources is a gift from Life Coaches Toolbox and Chemory Gunko.

    These are free resources that should help you no matter your emotional or mental state. No accounts, no strings.... these resources are simply here to help. You may freely reblog this list of resources.

  • Feel the Fear & Do it Anyway

    So being dumped back into human world and lots of ego reactions is integrating, and there has been fear building the past few days.

    This morning I woke up and there were four clear areas where I having or seeing a mirror of a fear reaction. The answer, as always, is handing over... if you can remember to while your inner voice runs riot.

  • Forgiveness – your biggest mistake

    According to a 1988 Gallup Poll, 94% of respondents said it was important to forgive, while 85% said they couldn’t do it with outside help.

    Even regular prayer was not found be effective in achieving forgiveness.

    So what is it that people get wrong about forgiveness that makes it seem like it is so far outside our reach?

  • Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Twin Flames Break Up Update 1 of 2

    I live a deeply spiritual life, and if you’ve even had the briefest of interactions with me, you’ll know that. I’ll irritate you with how obsessive I am - even if you are deeply spiritual by your own standards. LOL :)

    For me, walking my talk is paramount, and I am VERY self disciplined in what I do. I’m not afraid to tighten my belt, limit myself and stick within very specific boundaries on certain things. Especially in matters spiritual.

    When I first found out that my Twit Flame of four years had been married all the time we’d been involved, I was shocked at a personal level.

    I have all this background with infidelity… ranging all the way back to my very narcissistic father who was a serial cheater.

    So at first, the knowledge that I’d been made a mistress hit me on that level.

    I felt the shame and humiliation and anger and resistance and vulnerability of the experience. Out of character for me, I didn’t cycle this up to a higher recursion. Probably because I was guilty of personalizing it too much.

    So in the past 24 hours when this realization hit me, well, it hit like a ton of bricks to be honest.

  • Free Will & Why We Remember Nothing at Birth

    Free Will & Why We Remember Nothing at Birth

    This is a plane of free will. That means that free will is honored first. That's what they mean by we're born as Gods - our free will is honored first.

    Also why they say the universe will respond to manifestation - it is obliged to honor your free will.

    So every time you put something out there, anything you manifest, you are automatically making God your servant.

    Therefore, the ONLY way to serve God fully is to hand over your free will in every second. To make no decisions for yourself.

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