Coaching & Healing Tools & Strategies

  • Further Understanding Ego & Messianic Lessons

    Why it feels like you are so much less important than everyone else right now.

    Loved this question and the response will fit what a lot of you are feeling :)

  • Generational Patterns

    Generational Patterns

    So healing work aside, I still needed to unpack the emotional pathology behind the lockjaw and mouth pain. What I experienced was an entire shift of generational patterns.

    This one so rare, it's worth a mention just because it's so rare. Apart from yesterday, I've only ever seen this happen once before, in a shifting session I did for myself when I first started creating the mirrors process.

    A generational pattern is a belief, fear, energy, habit, pattern you inherit on the genetic line from one of your parents. You can think of it like family karma - it's passed down but not from soul to soul; it's passed down parent to child.

    One distinguishing way of looking at a Generational Pattern (GP) therefore, is that the energy would not follow you into a next incarnation. Unless you had personal experiences with that energy that created new karma, a new life would mean saying goodbye to those GPs permanently.

  • Getting back together – a coaching strategy

    A relationship life coaching strategy for when you and your ex want to get back together and rekindle your romantic flame.

  • Global Check In - 6 February 2018

    Global Check In - 6 February 2018

    So something is definitely afoot… what a few days this has been.

    As Tuesdays often do, this one feels like a switchover, so let’s hope the next week will be lighter.

    So we’ve just passed the once-in-a-lifetime Super Blue Blood Full Moon a few days ago, and symptoms have been all over the place.

  • Global Energy Check In & Update - 3 October 2017

    Global Energy Check In & Update - 3 October 2017

    Otherwise known as… what energy? LOL ;)

  • Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Thomas Szasz has a few really good books worth reading, if you can get past the superfluous language lol :) One of my favorites is pleasure and pain.

    In the book, Szasz presents the following idea: pleasure is not a thing in and of itself, pleasure is actually the absence of pain.

    So in order to experience pleasure, you need the contrast of pain to know the pain has gone away.

  • Healing immediately after a break up

    The end of a romantic relationship is almost always a tough experience to face.

    Here are three simple steps to follow after a breakup to shortcut the amount of time you have to spend healing mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

  • Hermit Mode

    At the point when I ascended and the penny finally dropped about why complete alone is so important, I was really amazed.

    It’s so obvious – you can’t rely on external validation to tell you where you are on this journey, and you cannot rely on others’ opinions or their reactions to information, because you’ll fall into cognitive dissonance.

  • How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    Okay for background there are articles on my site on the morphic or holographic field.

    • Alternate Realities, Timelines & Tinnitus: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/alternate-timelines-realities
    • Morphic Field Understanding: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together
    • You can also read this one to help you understand the thought reality thing: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/03/13/creationism-vs-evolution-a-spiritual-perspective-on-the-debate-that-will-really-make-you-think/
  • How forgiveness frees you

    Inherently, we understand that forgiveness is powerful technique for freedom, but through lack of experience or understanding, we often don’t understand how.

    What are the ways in which forgiveness frees you?

  • How Much Have You Grown?

    Think about a period about two years back and compare it to now.

    Here are a few questions to ask yourself :)

  • How my mind works and how much I actually see

    So if the fact that I have incredible insight into stuff scares you about me, then you will probably be positively petrified by the end of this post. Probably best to stop reading now LOL

    However…. I challenged an ALDG member to stretch himself enormously. This member was anti-Trump and managed to find ten positive things to say about Trump as part of a forgiveness and acceptance lesson. I truly respect that kind of stretch.

    In order to create a safe space for this seeker to express himself, I offered to stretch myself equally by posting something that makes me uncomfortable.

    I do this regularly, exchanging pieces of information about myself and my journey to show seekers that they can safely reveal themselves.

    The weirdness of what we deal with means that people are often scared to verbalize their experiences for fear of being grandiose, delusional and insane - or having others think that they are. Sharing my experience and offering an equal return means that clients just have to follow my lead - they don’t have to take all the responsibility.

    So this is that post that stretches me and makes me uncomfortable :)

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to deal with shock and trauma

    Right now the world is in chaos. People are being laid off, others are dying and it feels a bit like we’re constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.

    How do you deal with shock and trauma when you’ve had a traumatic or scary event take place in your life?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • How To Grow Your Abilities

    So as all these wonderful experiences open up and you get messages and meet guides, etc, how do you throw yourself into the process and not let yourself get blocked by fear or doubt?

    There are two simple principles to keep in mind.

  • How to help others deal with shock, trauma & grief

    With so much shock, trauma and grief going on in the world around us right now, what can you do to help your friends, family and colleagues cope if they have been personally affected?

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to make a woman squirt

    A step-by-step technique that can bring a woman to multiple orgasms and squirting.

  • How to make holy water

    Instructions on how to make holy water that you can use for cleansings and protection.

    These instructions on how to make holy water are kindly provided by Shaman Jonathan of www.thesoulhealer.co.za

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