Coaching & Healing Tools & Strategies

  • How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    Okay for background there are articles on my site on the morphic or holographic field.

    • Alternate Realities, Timelines & Tinnitus: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/alternate-timelines-realities
    • Morphic Field Understanding: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together
    • You can also read this one to help you understand the thought reality thing: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/03/13/creationism-vs-evolution-a-spiritual-perspective-on-the-debate-that-will-really-make-you-think/
  • How forgiveness frees you

    Inherently, we understand that forgiveness is powerful technique for freedom, but through lack of experience or understanding, we often don’t understand how.

    What are the ways in which forgiveness frees you?

  • How Much Have You Grown?

    Think about a period about two years back and compare it to now.

    Here are a few questions to ask yourself :)

  • How my mind works and how much I actually see

    So if the fact that I have incredible insight into stuff scares you about me, then you will probably be positively petrified by the end of this post. Probably best to stop reading now LOL

    However…. I challenged an ALDG member to stretch himself enormously. This member was anti-Trump and managed to find ten positive things to say about Trump as part of a forgiveness and acceptance lesson. I truly respect that kind of stretch.

    In order to create a safe space for this seeker to express himself, I offered to stretch myself equally by posting something that makes me uncomfortable.

    I do this regularly, exchanging pieces of information about myself and my journey to show seekers that they can safely reveal themselves.

    The weirdness of what we deal with means that people are often scared to verbalize their experiences for fear of being grandiose, delusional and insane - or having others think that they are. Sharing my experience and offering an equal return means that clients just have to follow my lead - they don’t have to take all the responsibility.

    So this is that post that stretches me and makes me uncomfortable :)

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to deal with shock and trauma

    Right now the world is in chaos. People are being laid off, others are dying and it feels a bit like we’re constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.

    How do you deal with shock and trauma when you’ve had a traumatic or scary event take place in your life?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • How To Grow Your Abilities

    So as all these wonderful experiences open up and you get messages and meet guides, etc, how do you throw yourself into the process and not let yourself get blocked by fear or doubt?

    There are two simple principles to keep in mind.

  • How to help others deal with shock, trauma & grief

    With so much shock, trauma and grief going on in the world around us right now, what can you do to help your friends, family and colleagues cope if they have been personally affected?

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to make a woman squirt

    A step-by-step technique that can bring a woman to multiple orgasms and squirting.

  • How to make holy water

    Instructions on how to make holy water that you can use for cleansings and protection.

    These instructions on how to make holy water are kindly provided by Shaman Jonathan of www.thesoulhealer.co.za

  • How to make people and fights seem less scary

    When we get into a fight or argument, or in any way feel scared or less-than the other person, we tend to imbue them with qualities that somehow lift them above what we’re experiencing internally. Changing how you see that makes a massive difference to how you relate to and see people, and how scary they come across to you.

  • How to navigate 5D unity energy

    So the big part of the shift is over and now we begin to live by the new energy rules…. what can you expect?

    How can you expect your life, healing and growth to change over the next few months and years, and what are the lessons you should be looking out for?

  • How to prepare for a big event, meeting or presentation

    When you have a big event, meeting or presentation on the horizon, you’re filled with anticipation – and nerves.

    What coaching and energy healing tools can you use to make sure you are totally prepared and perform at your optimum on the day?

  • How to protect yourself for lightworkers & light warriors

    Tips and techniques that lightworkers and light warriors can use to protect themselves on the energetic level.

  • How to release anxiety when you’re worried about money


    There’s very little as mentally and emotionally taxing as being worried about money. So how do you release the anxiety and let money flow?

    Manifestation practice teaches us that the way to allow the money you’ve manifested is to relax. But when you’re stressed out about money, it’s difficult to relax. In fact when you're worried about money, it's often all you can think about.

    It consumes every single thought and becomes a filter through which you see the world. This horrible, heavy emotional feeling settles over your body. You feel heavy, tired and demotivated. You battle to focus or think.

    That last one is really the crux of the matter isn't it? When you battle to focus or think, you often can't create the movement you need to get you out of the money crisis.

  • How to release pain and other bad feelings with the miracle prayer

    Sometimes you need to use a fixed format prayer to get past the craziness in your head.

  • How to stay happily married

    When it comes to relationships, we tend to put a lot of effort into finding them, the wedding, fixing them and healing from them.

    What can you do to circumvent all that and stay happily married in the first place?

  • How to surrender to and accept situations

    In spirituality and personal development, we’re often told to surrender to and accept an issue or situation – but where and how do you begin to surrender to and accept situations in life?

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