Death Services

Death services include actual funerals and memorials, as well helping you prepare for death, helping your family prepare and grieve afterwards, helping you make peace with God, finding forgiveness and absolution and releasing karma and karmic bonds.

These elements can also be built into the ceremony to give the departed soul a proper send off and clear as many karma and bonds as possible.

We will also sit with you while you die and guide your soul into the afterlife.

This is non-denominational and can be tailored to your belief system entirely, so it doesn't matter what your religious beliefs are. We will honor them.

“Death must be so beautiful.
To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one’s head, and listen to silence.
To have no yesterday, and no to-morrow.
To forget time, to forget life, to be at peace.”
Oscar Wilde, The Canterville Ghost

Death Services

  • Funerals
  • New Age
  • Additional
  • Preparing
  • Suicides
  • Dying
  • Grief

Funerals & Memorial Services

Ceremonial services include actual funeral and memorial services.

  • Tailored to your religion and belief system
  • Non-denominational
  • Ceremony only - we will travel to your chosen venue

Specialized Healing Spiritual Funerals & Memorial Services

Our spiritual needs are changing rapidly, but we haven't kept pace in terms of elements like weddings and funerals. 

This range of services is designed to tackle the spiritual and healing aspects of the relationship between the deceased and the mourners, looking at releasing aspects like:

  • Forgiveness and absolution
  • Karma and karmic bonds
  • Cutting cords and attachments
  • Saying goodbye and finding resolution
  • Active memories and generational patterns

Healing funerals and memorial services can be structured in a way that works best for you.

They can be incorporated into the service, facilitated with the mourners as a group directly after the service, or a separate event can be arranged for key persons.

The idea behind this is that death really happens to the people who are left behind, and this process will help them move forward with peace. The aim is also to clear the karma that ties you to this plane.

We'll spend time with you beforehand identifying a few of the issues, and then we'll work with the group, using a variety of processes, from reality shifting to shamanic work and coaching, to help the entire group achieve release and peace.

Optional Ceremonial Services

We offer a range of additional add-on services to help you handle this process more efficiently.

  • Service flyers and pamphlets, design and printing
  • PowerPoint and video showcases of the deceased's life can also be compiled for you from Source material you provide. Videos can be distributed afterwards.
  • Email notification and registration system to email mourners and have them let you know if they will be at the service. This makes it easier to communicate last minute info to the entire group of people who are attending.

Preparing for Death

If you've been handed a diagnosis of a terminal disease and you know your time is approaching, then we will help you ready yourself for death.

  • Achieve forgiveness
  • Give absolution
  • Make amends
  • Make peace with death
  • Make peace with God
  • Be prepared for what to do during the death process, such as prayers and chants that you can keep in your mind.

According to Bhagavad-Gita, if you hold God in your mind at the moment of death, you will ascend instead of being drawn back into the cycle of reincarnation.

If you would like to ascend, we can help you prepare the chants and prayers necessary to keep your mind focused, so that you are not overwhelmed by fear in the moment of death.


No one really wants to talk about suicide, because it is a concept you cannot understand unless you have been there.

We will perform funeral and memorial ceremonies for suicides, and treat them with the utmost respect, without avoiding the fact.

We will also help those left behind understand the process, and make peace with the departed's decision, letting go of anger and finding peace.

The Moment of Death

It all boils down to the moment of death, and if you hold God in your mind, that it where you will go.

We will sit with you when the time comes, chanting, praying and keeping you focused as you transition, giving your soul the best chance it has of making it over to the other side.

You do not have to face death alone.

After Death - Grieving and Letting Go

If you have lost a loved one, and you are battling to grieve, make peace, find forgiveness or let go, we offer a range of services that can help you.

About Chemory Gunko


Chemory GunkoHi, I'm Chemory :)

Okay, the so the important question first... how do you say my name?

Personally I've lived with it all my life, so I don't really mind much anymore how you say it, but for the benefit of the perfectionists: my name is pronounced like memory, with a soft shh-sound. So, phonetically itʼs Shemory.

My parents overheard the name while I was in the womb, and it didn't come with a fixed meaning. Over the years I've discovered two.

Chemory translates into Name of the Light in Hebrew, and in Ancient Sumerian a Shem is a spacecraft - a craft that takes people to the Gods, or a place where people go to interact with the Gods.

Both meanings suit me perfectly - when I appear in your life, it is always as a catalyst for spiritual change.

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Qualifications & Experience

I'm a certified life coach, NLP Practitioner, Energy ReSourcing Practitioner and Ericksonian Hypnotherapy Practitioner.

I've been practicing for over a decade and got into energy and spiritual healing and personal development work at a very young age. What this means practically for you is that I'm going to draw on a wide range of knowledge and resources to help you overcome your challenges and soar to new heights.

I also hold various marketing qualifications, ranging from copywriting to fine art and photography. I create and present courses for html, Joomla and email development.

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Business Background

My business background is in marketing, with a particular focus on digital marketing, marketing creative, IT marketing and email marketing.

I am a very senior digital marketing expert, and hold senior level expertise in SEO (Search Engine Optimization), Public Relations, Copywriting, Graphic Design, Illustration, Email Marketing, Website Development and Joomla.

I formerly owned my own marketing business, Dsignhaus, specializing in digital marketing and website development, and I hold qualifications in radio broadcasting, copywriting, digital photography and fine art.

I do still build websites and do some marketing work for clients if you are looking for assistance.

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About the Website & Content

Everything on the Life Coaches Toolbox Website is created and administrated by me, Chemory.

There are no third party service providers involved in the website, content or digital tool creation process, ensuring that you get the same confidentiality as if you were working behind closed doors.

In order to make coaching services more easily available to the people who need them, there are a number of free tools throughout the website, from digital resources to actual coaching processes and energy healing and medicine techniques.

A second layer of less expensive products are available for those who need ongoing support but can't afford coaching through our paid online coaching courses.

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The Practical Stuff

I am based in Johannesburg in South Africa and I am a mother tongue English speaker.

I conduct sessions in person in Johannesburg and by Skype for international clients.

Options and resources are available for complete online digital coaching, as well whatsapp support and email coaching.

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Mirrors of Relationship

Based on the original Essene Mirrors of Relationship, the Mirrors of Relationship Coaching Process can be applied to any area of your life.

Useful as both a diagnostic and healing tool, my Mirrors of Relationship process is aligned to the scale of Human Consciousness, to allow you to clear challenges and mirrors at every stage of your evolution.

A self-perpetuating process, Mirrors of Relationship is a one-stop, one-size-fits-all coaching diagnostic and healing tool that will create guaranteed moments of awareness and insight, no matter the point you start from.

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Life Stuff

I'm about to be middle-aged (apparently - who knew?), and I'm a mom to a teenager. 

I'm divorced and I happily share a home with my daughter ;) 

I've survived all the ups and downs life can throw at you: abuse, rape, working in the sex industry, bad childhood, having a baby on my own (down to driving myself to hospital in labor!), losing everything, suicide, depression, being fired, being retrenched, heartbreak, chronic illness, being labelled insane and so much more.

I've been the outcast, the black sheep, too much for most people, misunderstood and maligned. My life has not been a bed of roses at all.

So if you're going to learn one thing from me, it's that you can and will survive anything life throws at you - in fact you'll thrive and turn every challenge into stepping stone to success.

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Depression & Suicide Coaching

Depression & suicide have been lifelong demons that I have battled - like many of the empaths on earth right now. 

My own battle has led to a deep understanding of the kind of support you need and the kinds of tools that can support you.

From acupressure to really clearing out emotional blocks, to tackling core issues like loneliness, not belonging and inner voice reprogramming, my suicide and depression solutions are designed to help you really clear through the blocks holding you back, without the need to resort to medicine and sedating yourself and your system.

In addition, I'll help you understand how to use the abilities that are currently tripping you up, and help you break down the construct and idea that there is something wrong with you or that you are undeserving.

I'll also give you practical ways to lift yourself out of a funk, so that you can function practically and get on with what needs to be done in your everyday life.

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Spiritual & Spirituality Coaching

My conscious spiritual journey began at the age of four.

I remember standing and looking at myself in a mirror and the thought arrived as clear as day: If I'd lived before this I wouldn't remember now. It was that night that I started waiting outside for the spaceships to come fetch me.

Spirituality - in all forms - has been an enormous part of my path.

My journey started out strictly Christian, and over the years moved into Wicca or Witchcraft, Zen Buddhism, A Course in Miracles and more, and has included a lot of study into other religions, cultures, belief systems and more.

In a nutshell - I see the point where every religion, belief and ideology fits together, and I can show you how.

In particular, spiritual coaching can assist you with your relationship to God, forgiveness, grief and becoming more loving and compassionate.

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Sex Coaching

My journey into sex coaching happened by accident, but I stay because I'm passionate about it. 

My own background is extensive - I started out as a stripper because of circumstance, but am grateful for the openness it gave me in my sexual world. 

Since then I've spent 16 years in the world of BDSM and kink (all the 50 Shades stuff), and have played on most sides of the fence, from poly to Mistress to slave. My kinks and exposure are broad and varied.

As an abuse survivor - relationship and sexual - I can also assist you with abuse issues and sexual skeletons in your closet.

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New Age Spirituality & 5D Reality

Empaths, Lightworkers, Lightwarriors & Twin Flames

I identify as an empath, a lightworker and a twin flame. My daughter is a lightwarrior.

My role as we enter the 5D Reality has been multiform.

To begin with, I was tasked with expanding and completing the Mirrors of Relationship process so that it could become a bridge to the new 5D reality for those undergoing ascension.

My job was also to translate this process onto the mental level so that it becomes accessible using the abilities we've gained during the information age.

My second capacity was forgiveness as one of the Messianic lightworkers - I have been doing enormous forgiveness work all my life actually.

My third capacity has been to hold the space for one of the potential miracles to realize on Earth.

My fourth capacity was to download the new Age of Aquarius info into the Holographic Field, being one of the first to think these thoughts and thereby make them available for others to think.

My final capacity, so far, is downloading the new layer of spiritual information that comes along with the 5D reality.

Believe me, I was just as surprised as you are reading this, when this started coming through LOL.

So far the lessons have been interesting:

  • What the orders of creation and evolution look like
  • How it all ties together
  • There is no soul
  • There is no such thing as unconditional love
  • There is no such thing as attachment
  • Everyone is everyone's twin flame
  • The meaning of life on Earth and the point and beauty of separation
  • How unity is the ultimate form of separation and individuation

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