Mirrors of Relationship

  • 12 Tools for Building & Rebuilding Trust in Your Relationship

    Rebuilding trust after a betrayal is difficult - especially when you feel like your heart is all caged up and there’s nothing you seem to be able to do to get through to it.

    As someone who has been there, I can honestly tell that this is not going to be easy... like forgiveness work, the exercises are simple but can be incredibly difficult to actually do.

    Likewise, you’ll hear people say that forgiveness and trust exercises are useless, which is true if your intention is wrong.

    Get your intention right and really mean for trust be granted again and it will happen - the exercises will work their magic.

  • 8 dangerous myths about Twin Flame relationships

    8 dangerous myths about Twin Flame relationships

    When you first hear about Twin Flames the idea is appealing - largely because it’s misunderstood at first.

    Most people make the mistake of thinking that a Twin Flame means guaranteed love - a guaranteed relationship.

    The second reason that Twin Flames appeal is this desperate need we all have to be special - at least to one person… The One.

    In this regard, ego has really screwed us over, as has society, with this idea of entitlement to love, a guarantee of love from Divine sources.

  • A Course in Miracles (ACIM) Daily Prayers for Lightworkers

    The two prayers below are daily prayers crafted from the A Course in Miracles (ACIM) text, and include what is instructed to be prayed for daily.

    An alternate way to use these is to use them as a dedication before repeating the Lord's Prayer or Ana B'Koach three times.

  • A Course in Miracles (ACIM) Prayer for Healing for Lightworkers

    This prayer is carefully crafted from the direct statements from A Course in Miracles, and can practically be used at any time, for any application. It's one-size fits all :)

    You can also use sections of the prayer alone for specific applications. Each paragraph or verse of the prayer can be used as a standalone, with Lord heal me, Lord atone for me as the opening line.

  • Basic Tapping Process

    The Mirrors of Relationship basic cornerstone tapping process can be used at any time to help you release, accept, fix and balance yourself.

  • Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

    I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?

  • Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Twin Flames Break Up Update 1 of 2

    I live a deeply spiritual life, and if you’ve even had the briefest of interactions with me, you’ll know that. I’ll irritate you with how obsessive I am - even if you are deeply spiritual by your own standards. LOL :)

    For me, walking my talk is paramount, and I am VERY self disciplined in what I do. I’m not afraid to tighten my belt, limit myself and stick within very specific boundaries on certain things. Especially in matters spiritual.

    When I first found out that my Twit Flame of four years had been married all the time we’d been involved, I was shocked at a personal level.

    I have all this background with infidelity… ranging all the way back to my very narcissistic father who was a serial cheater.

    So at first, the knowledge that I’d been made a mistress hit me on that level.

    I felt the shame and humiliation and anger and resistance and vulnerability of the experience. Out of character for me, I didn’t cycle this up to a higher recursion. Probably because I was guilty of personalizing it too much.

    So in the past 24 hours when this realization hit me, well, it hit like a ton of bricks to be honest.

  • Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Thomas Szasz has a few really good books worth reading, if you can get past the superfluous language lol :) One of my favorites is pleasure and pain.

    In the book, Szasz presents the following idea: pleasure is not a thing in and of itself, pleasure is actually the absence of pain.

    So in order to experience pleasure, you need the contrast of pain to know the pain has gone away.

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to stay happily married

    When it comes to relationships, we tend to put a lot of effort into finding them, the wedding, fixing them and healing from them.

    What can you do to circumvent all that and stay happily married in the first place?

  • Looking into the mirror: how to spot the lesson a situation is trying to teach you

    In coaching and development work you often hear talk of mirrors, and the fact that situations and experiences come to teach you a lesson and show you an aspect of yourself.

    How do you recognize these lessons when you’re looking into the mirror of a situation?

  • Mirrors of Relationship

  • Mirrors of Relationship for Lightworkers & the Age of Aquarius

    The Mirrors of Relationship is a complete diagnostic and healing tool that lightworkers can utilize to transition into the new 5D reality we're entering in the Age of Aquarius.

    This channeled and divinely-inspired tool has been sent to help lightworkers, lightwarriors, twinflames, angels, archangels, Pleaidians, Sirians and other star beings to transition their host bodies from the 3D to 5D reality.

  • Morning Prayer for Lightworkers

    Morning Prayer for Lightworkers

    Today I ask only for the day that God would have me have. Ask whatever you want of me.

  • Mr Right vs Mr Right Now

    We’ve all been through that dating experience… you meet the guy, everything is going perfectly and then bam! All of sudden you or he is not interested any more… and you’re not quite sure what went wrong.

    It’s great if the party that loses interest is you, because well, it doesn’t matter any more does it? But if you’re the party that’s left behind wondering and struggling, well it just plain sucks doesn’t it?

  • On Spirituality & Growth & the Evolution of the Journey

    On Spirituality & Growth & the Evolution of the Journey

    A comment in reply to another comment ;)

    I have to be strong - there's a difference. There are times I'd like to collapse, but it's just never been an option. It's just easier to step over it now.

    It's all practice - I was gobsmacked when I ascended and realised it had all been practice for not going insane once I was there. The cognitive dissonance is beyond words.

    The problem is the 500s level and the Christianity and external validation.

  • Rejection & Betrayal - the Cosmic Core Lesson

    Rejection & Betrayal - the Cosmic Core Lesson

    So the restlessness has somewhat started subsiding as the new downloads are starting… and they started with a humdinger this morning hey.

    When you first start getting the aha moments on your journey, you stall for a few minutes while you assimilate the information, and you generally go quiet and can’t speak.

    Once you’re past a certain level, you really just feel the relief that the lesson releases - and past a point you’re on duality lessons: lessons of all that is. So here you get multiple ahas that lead to a bigger aha, or puzzle fitting together - often a reshimo (pulling down and completing a spiritual lifetime).

  • Shifting too much and too fast

    Shifting too much and too fast

    When you do vigorous shifts like we're doing right now, you run the risk of going into shifting overload.

    What is shifting overload or shifting crisis?

    Basically you've been processing through emotion and thoughts so much that it puts enormous strain on your system.

    You land up sick, fatigued, having a breakdown or even potentially having a mental breakdown.

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