Trial By Fire or Dark Night of the Soul

  • On confidence as a healer

    Why do we feel inadequate to teach or heal people, and yet we still get results?

    Shouldn't we be completely realised and have solved an issue before we help someone else with it?

    This belief is a normal teaching block.

  • People seem to think that because you're working remotely, online or at distance, that somehow healing work is not as powerful or effective.

    While I can't show you how powerful distance energy healing is in a post, I can show what online text coaching via email or message service looks like - and that's what this link is - a transcript of the actual client session that took place, with names changed for privacy.

    This exchange took place over a message service, and was entirely written.

    There are huge advantages to using only written communication - first you get total privacy, second you can take your time or do it spread out over a longer time period, third you're not rushed, and fourth, the client can go back and reread the session in their own time if they'd like a review.

    LOL just think about how many times you've walked out of a session or healing or reading and wished you could have recorded it? Working online means it's instantly recorded.

  • On Spirituality & Growth & the Evolution of the Journey

    A comment in reply to another comment ;)

    I have to be strong - there's a difference. There are times I'd like to collapse, but it's just never been an option. It's just easier to step over it now.

    It's all practice - I was gobsmacked when I ascended and realised it had all been practice for not going insane once I was there. The cognitive dissonance is beyond words.

    The problem is the 500s level and the Christianity and external validation.

  • A retrospective view on my Twin Flame ending - and why I’m glad I finally got the hell out of, well, hell!

    So this week marks exactly a year since I found out that my Twit Flame had catfished me.

    Understandably, I booted his slimy ass to the curve pretty much the moment I found out. A guy who cheats on TWO women for FOUR YEARS is not exactly a keeper LOL - no matter how “extraordinary” the “love” was.

    But that’s the thing that traps most Twin Flames isn’t it…? The “pull” of the “love" is undeniable. You can’t resist it, it’s an addiction.

  • Ongoing ego in society discussion

    Part 2 of the discussion on ego in society.

  • People don’t understand you and you don’t fit in

    If you’re really honest about it, the reason that you started the spiritual seeking was because you don’t fit into society - people don’t understand you or get you.

    For most of us, the journey was tied to likability and popularity - obviously as we became more spiritual, more people would be drawn to us and like us.

    Whether it was fixing the relationships with our parents, or our kids, or finding a lover, or a group to work with, the underlying presupposition was always that this journey would bring us closer to people, i.e. they would like us more.

  • People think us spiritual types are weird...

    This was a tough one to title, not gonna lie, because it’s about how we are alienated and isolated by society as we grow spiritually, and some of the reasons why.

    This post is inspired by chats with people who are SCARED and ASHAMED to show their spiritual selves; scared even to post a question on their feeds for fear of backlash.

    This is something I was pondering when we did the group clean up - people are scared to participate outside of private groups and communities.

    The 3D all-loving spiritual world doesn’t talk about this stuff often, mostly because they’re laboring under the misbelief that, as you grow, you will automatically become all-loving, and people will be able to ‘see’ what and who you are. This will automatically attract people towards you; making you a celebrity God.

    This is bullshit - of the highest order.

  • Possibly the most frustrating thing about working with ego is the deep attachment to personalisation, victim mentality, suffering and the willful ignorance.

    I distinctly recall being given timelines on my dark night, knowing that I would still face years of trial, and sticking my head down and doing it.

    Even though I knew I was in for the long haul and it would be difficult and painful, I still said okay. And I opened myself to change.

  • Personalization on the Ego Journey

    Also applies to suicide and depression

    The single most important concept that you need to understand in order to start understanding ego, is personalization.

    But personalization is a massively difficult concept to understand when you are still doing it to yourself, so I’m always looking for the simplest analogies and verbalization in order to be explain it and try to relay the concept.

  • Powerful Surrender, Release & Forgiveness Prayer for Lightworkers, Twin Flames & Twin Flame Break Ups

  • If you’ve been feeling stuck lately on your personal and spiritual growth path, it’s very likely because of the way lessons have changed in the new 5D reality.

    So how do you stop feeling stuck in the Age of Aquarius?

    How do you get you get your spiritual and personal growth moving forward again?

  • Real Client Session Transcript

    • What a session can look like
    • Covers jumping levels of lessons to go to a higher level of lesson, such as God level or Cosmic level lessons
    • Jumping lesson levels also means getting out of personalization
    • Themes of free will, life stages, parent child relationships, loneliness, the ego battle
  • Rejection & Betrayal - the Cosmic Core Lesson

    So the restlessness has somewhat started subsiding as the new downloads are starting… and they started with a humdinger this morning hey.

    When you first start getting the aha moments on your journey, you stall for a few minutes while you assimilate the information, and you generally go quiet and can’t speak.

    Once you’re past a certain level, you really just feel the relief that the lesson releases - and past a point you’re on duality lessons: lessons of all that is. So here you get multiple ahas that lead to a bigger aha, or puzzle fitting together - often a reshimo (pulling down and completing a spiritual lifetime).

  • Remember Your Shifting Basics!

    When Life Coaches Toolbox first started life, it started as a book (if you've seen the PDF downloads on free tools, that's it).

    The point of this book was to aggregate all the primary basics and all the tools you could possibly need, with one major tool per double page spread.

    So the idea was, if something falls over, you grab the book, flip it open and let Source guide you to the healing tool you need.

    The reason you need a resource like that is because when you are shifting hectically, you don't remember basics. Hell you hardly remember anything!! LOL

  • Reshimot: When you feel like a whole different person after a lesson

  • Shifting too much and too fast

    When you do vigorous shifts like we're doing right now, you run the risk of going into shifting overload.

    What is shifting overload or shifting crisis?

    Basically you've been processing through emotion and thoughts so much that it puts enormous strain on your system.

    You land up sick, fatigued, having a breakdown or even potentially having a mental breakdown.

  • This list of spiritual jargon and terminology will give you vocabulary for common spiritual experiences that you don’t necessarily have words for, greatly simplifying your journey over time.

    Half the difficulty with a journey like spirituality is that it’s so uncommon that we don’t have easily accessible language for similar experiences.

    The following list of terms will help you clarify and codify certain concepts so that you can more effectively communicate your spiritual experience. The simpler clarifications will also help you surge into a new level.

  • Spiritual seekers and the manifesting money conflict

    So continuing on the why we battle with manifesting money thread:

    One of the aspects of the system that is apparent to everyone is money, but we can't really figure out why money plays such a crucial role.

    It has to do with manifestation and focus: manifesting money takes time and focus away from time spent on God.

  • Stress and emotional eating

    People often try to fix stress and emotional eating by applying rules to food.

    If you don't want to eat because you're triggered by stress and emotion, then clear the stress and emotion away.

    You won't need to overeat if you're feeling at peace, secure and rested.

    And it's a permanent solution to the weight.

  • Suggested Coaching Strategy to Fight Addiction

    This strategy has developed as I’ve been thinking about addiction as the polarity scale of free will, and so it is untested.

    Two things with that: I’m really open to feedback and suggestions on improving this, as it’s a first draft.

    I would also love to hear from people fighting addictions what they think of this as an approach.

    Anyone who does want to try it, I’d been keen to watch and stay in touch as you do to see how it plays out as a DIY strategy.

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