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High & Low Energy Power Patterns

💠 KINESIOLOGY & THE MORPHIC FIELD 💠

Power vs Force, the book, is a leading authority on kinesiology & human consciousness, growth & development, and is the work of Sir David Hawkins.

The Human Consciousness Scale is also the work of Sir David in the same book, published 1994: Power vs Force

Simply reading the book has been shown to increase your level of consciousness, raise your vibration & give you a mental & emotional surge. I strongly recommend you read it.

Simply utilizing Mirrors as your preferred development tool is shown by Sir David in Power vs Force to be operating at a level of consciousness of 500 in the holographic field.

This process is an expansion of the original Essene Mirrors of Relationship. Watch Greg Braden speaking about the Essene Mirrors of Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EiBsczafvaA

  Calculate where you are on the Human Consciousness Scale

Why do the high & low energy power patterns matter? Because everything is words.

Relationships all boil down to communication, and all we can actually really ever do is share (send) or receive words - whether written, spoken or thought.

Simply improving your understanding of the words we use, and understanding them on the level of the program that exists within the morphic field, makes it significantly easier to navigate the challenges you face in life.

The reasons for this is that the clarification helps you to better understand the concept for yourself, and the right words of understanding unlock the resonance (alignment) with that energy in the morphic field.

Thought can only be grown by sharing it - as you communicate the idea, you are required to clarify and simplify it, which increases your own understanding. Then the listener asks questions, and simply processing these questions further refines your understanding.

Then you answer those questions, further refining the understanding for your yourself & the listener.

With each round of discussion & questions, your understanding grows significantly on both sides.

  High & Low Energy Power Patterns

This list of high & low energy power patterns, or emotions, as published in Power vs Force, is rated according to the Human Consciousness Scale, and tested using kinesiology to be found to be universally true across the holographic field.

A high energy pattern calibrates at over 200, while a low energy pattern calibrates below 200, or makes the test subject go weak.

Simply reading the list - & becoming aware of the polarities - is shown by Sir David & his team to raise your vibration & level of consciousness.

Below you will find the three lists. The first is just the list of High & Low Energy Power Patterns, while the second list contains definitions as well. The third contains practical examples of the patterns in action in our lives.

When you look at some of these examples, it really seems like they are the same, or very similar.

Remember the word pair is being compared TO EACH OTHER; so, to understand them, ask yourself: if these are the two options available, then which one is preferable?

Watch the video below for an overview of how to use the High & Low Energy Power Patterns Resources. The video (should!) start at the point this tool is being explained.

As with all the videos, they are linked online on YouTube and you will need Internet access to view them.

To read, or follow along with, the text of the video narration, click on the button below:

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  High & Low Energy Power Patterns

Plain list of patterns.

HIGH LOW
Abundant Excessive
Admitting Denying
Aesthetic Artsy
Agreeable Condescending
Allowing Controlling
Appreciative Envious
Approving Critical
Attractive Seductive
Authoritative Dogmatic
Aware Preoccupied
Balanced Extreme
Beautiful Glamorous
Being Having
Believing Insisting
Brilliant Clever
Candid Calculating
Carefree Frivolous
Challenged Impeded
Charitable Prodigal
Cheerful Manic
Cherishing Prizing
Choosing-to Having-to
Civil Formal
Concerned Judgmental
Conciliatory Inflexible
Confident Arrogant
Confronting Harassing
Conscious Unaware
Considerate Indulgent
Constructive Destructive
Contending Competing
Courageous Reckless
Defending Attacking
Democratic Dictatorial
Detached Removed
Determined Stubborn
Devoted Possessive
Diplomatic Deceptive
Doing Getting
Educating Persuading
Egalitarian Elitist
Empathetic Pitying
Encouraging Promoting
Energetic Agitated
Enlivening Exhausting
Envisioning Picturing
Equal Superior
Erotic Lustful
Essential Apparent
Eternal Temporal
Ethical Equivocal
Excellent Adequate
Experienced Cynical
Fair Scrupulous
Fertile Luxuriant
Flexible Rigid
Forgiving Resenting
Free Regulated
Generous Petty
Gentle Rough
Gifted Lucky
Giving Taking
Global Local
Gracious Decorous
Grateful Indebted
Harmonious Disruptive
Healing Irritating
Helpful Meddling
Holistic Analytic
Honest Legal
Honoring Enshrining
Humble Diffident
Humorous Sombre
Impartial Righteous
Ingenious Scheming
Inspired Mundane
Intentional Calculating
Intuitive Literal
Inventive Prosaic
Inviting Urging
Involved Obsessed
Joyful Pleasurable
Just Punitive
Kind Cruel
Leading Coercing
Liberating Restricting
Long-term Immediate
Loyal Chauvinistic
Merciful Permissive
Modest Haughty
Natural Artificial
Noble Pompous
Nurturing Draining
Observant Suspicious
Open Secretive
Optimistic Pessimistic
Orderly Confused
Outgoing Reserved
Patient Avid
Patriotic Nationalistic
Peaceful Belligerent
Polite Obsequious
Powerful Forceful
Praising Flattering
Principled Expedient
Privileged Entitled
Prolific Barren
Purposeful Desirous
Receiving Grasping
Releasing Tenacious
Reliant Dependent
Requesting Demanding
Respectful Demeaning
Responsible Guilty
Satisfied Sated
Selective Exclusive
Serene Dull
Serving Ambitious
Sharing Hoarding
Significant Important
Sober Intoxicated
Spontaneous Impulsive
Spiritual Materialistic
Steadfast Faltering
Striving Struggling
Surrendering Worrying
Tender Hard
Thoughtful Pedantic
Thrifty Cheap
Timeless Faddish
Tolerant Prejudiced
Tractable Contrary
Trusting Gullible
Truthful False
Unifying Dividing
Unselfish Selfish
Valuing Exploitative
Virtuous Celebrated
Warm Feverish

Alternatively, watch the video version below. This video is linked online from YouTube and requires an active Internet connection.


  Index of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns

Indexed list of the patterns, with links to definitions, examples & positive & negatively aspected expressions, or the positive & negative ways that the patterns are shown in life.

HIGH LOW
Abundant Excessive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Admitting Denying
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Aesthetic Artsy
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Agreeable Condescending
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Allowing Controlling
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Appreciative Envious
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Approving Critical
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Attractive Seductive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Authoritative Dogmatic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Aware Preoccupied
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Balanced Extreme
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Beautiful Glamorous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Being Having
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Believing Insisting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Brilliant Clever
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Candid Calculating
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Carefree Frivolous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Challenged Impeded
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Charitable Prodigal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Cheerful Manic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Cherishing Prizing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Choosing-to Having-to
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Civil Formal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Concerned Judgmental
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Conciliatory Inflexible
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Confident Arrogant
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Confronting Harassing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Conscious Unaware
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Considerate Indulgent
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Constructive Destructive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Contending Competing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Courageous Reckless
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Defending Attacking
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Democratic Dictatorial
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Detached Removed
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Determined Stubborn
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Devoted Possessive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Diplomatic Deceptive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Doing Getting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Educating Persuading
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Egalitarian Elitist
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Empathetic Pitying
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Encouraging Promoting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Energetic Agitated
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Enlivening Exhausting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Envisioning Picturing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Equal Superior
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Erotic Lustful
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Essential Apparent
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Eternal Temporal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Ethical Equivocal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Excellent Adequate
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Experienced Cynical
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Fair Scrupulous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Fertile Luxuriant
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Flexible Rigid
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Forgiving Resenting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Free Regulated
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Generous Petty
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Gentle Rough
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Gifted Lucky
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Giving Taking
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Global Local
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Gracious Decorous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Grateful Indebted
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Harmonious Disruptive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Healing Irritating
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Helpful Meddling
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Holistic Analytic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Honest Legal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Honoring Enshrining
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Humble Diffident
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Humorous Sombre
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Impartial Righteous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Ingenious Scheming
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Inspired Mundane
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Intentional Calculating
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Intuitive Literal
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Inventive Prosaic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Inviting Urging
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Involved Obsessed
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Joyful Pleasurable
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Just Punitive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Kind Cruel
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Leading Coercing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Liberating Restricting
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Long-term Immediate
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Loyal Chauvinistic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Merciful Permissive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Modest Haughty
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Natural Artificial
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Noble Pompous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Nurturing Draining
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Observant Suspicious
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Open Secretive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Optimistic Pessimistic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Orderly Confused
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Outgoing Reserved
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Patient Avid
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Patriotic Nationalistic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Peaceful Belligerent
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Polite Obsequious
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Powerful Forceful
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Praising Flattering
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Principled Expedient
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Privileged Entitled
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Prolific Barren
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Purposeful Desirous
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Receiving Grasping
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Releasing Tenacious
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Reliant Dependent
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Requesting Demanding
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Respectful Demeaning
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Responsible Guilty
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Satisfied Sated
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Selective Exclusive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Serene Dull
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Serving Ambitious
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Sharing Hoarding
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Significant Important
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Sober Intoxicated
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Spontaneous Impulsive
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Spiritual Materialistic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Steadfast Faltering
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Striving Struggling
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Surrendering Worrying
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Tender Hard
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Thoughtful Pedantic
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Thrifty Cheap
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Timeless Faddish
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Tolerant Prejudiced
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Tractable Contrary
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Trusting Gullible
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Truthful False
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Unifying Dividing
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Unselfish Selfish
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Valuing Exploitative
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Virtuous Celebrated
Definitions | Examples | Aspects
Warm Feverish
Definitions | Examples | Aspects


  Definitions of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns

List containing dictionary style definitions of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns.

To understand the pair together, and in action, scroll down to examples in the table below this one.

When you look at some of these examples, it really seems like they are the same, or very similar.

Remember the word pair is being compared TO EACH OTHER; so, to understand them, ask yourself: if these are the two options available, then which one is preferable?

HIGH LOW
Abundant
Having or using a lot or enough, without excess
Excessive
Having or using too much, seen as 'excessive'
Admitting
Confess to be true
Allow to enter
Denying
Refuse to see truth
Refuse entry
Aesthetic
Beauty & the appreciation of beauty & artistry, or the arts
Artsy
A pretentious display of being artistic or interested in the arts
Agreeable
Willing to agree to something
Quite enjoyable or pleasurable
Condescending
Having or showing an attitude of patronizing superiority
An attitude of being 'better-than' someone or something around you
Allowing
Let someone have or do something, without unnecessary interference
Give time or opportunity to happen or unfold
Trust in the process & Divine Timing
Controlling
Supervise the running of someone or something
Micro-managed focus on almost every detail of the process
Clear lack of trust
Appreciative
Feeling or showing gratitude or pleasure
Glad that someone or something exists
Happy for the element to exist, even if separated from yourself
Envious
Feeling or showing discontent, resentment &/or longing when viewing someone or something
Appreciating the element but wanting it exclusively for the self
Not wanting someone else to have it
Approving
Showing or feeling a positive attitude towards someone or something
Expressing positive sentiment
Critical
Showing or feeling an attitude of superiority towards someone or something
Expressing judgment over a situation or person, without the aim of helping the other
Attractive
Pleasing or appealing to the senses
Qualities & features that arouse positive or favorable interest
naturally appealing & does not need to be 'showcased' or manipulated
Seductive
Purposefully manipulated to be alluring & appealing
Tempting & enticing with the purpose of blinding you, with 'fake' appeal to the senses
Obviously created to be 'attractive' to the senses
Authoritative
Commanding & self-confident
Likely to be respected & obeyed
Reliable, or able to be trusted as accurate & true
Dogmatic
Strict adherence to protocol, even when it doesn't make sense
Inclined to lay down principles as undeniably true
'My way or the highway' type of attitude
Aware
Having knowledge & perception in a situation, or of a fact, or of the general environment
Preoccupied
Having a matter, or a subject, engross the mind, or dominate the thoughts, to the exclusion of other thoughts & the general environment
Balanced
The application of elements, use of resources, or engagement in activity, in appropriate & healthy proportions
Extreme
Excessive alignment with one polarity or another
A very 'black-&-white' view of life
Beautiful
Aesthetically pleasing to the mind & senses
Excellent & of a high standard
Timeless & not limited to the standards of the day
Glamorous
Contrived beauty, designed to seem out of reach & exclusive
Magical enchantment; the ability to 'enchant' someone so that they don't see the whole truth
Being
The nature & essence of a person
The state of peaceful & effortless existence
Having
The act of owning or possessing someone or something
Engaging in, or 'having' an experience
Believing
Accept something as true, often without proof, or proof that can be validated through another's experience
To hold a thought or opinion, or 'believe' something
Insisting
Demand something forcefully, without accepting refusal
Persist in a course of action or behavior
Stubbornly hold onto an idea, sharing it with the aim of getting others to agree
Brilliant
Exceptionally intelligent &/or talented
Luminescent quality that engages the senses; captivating
Clever
Quick to understand & learn
Quick to devise & apply ideas; can be manipulative
Candid
Completely honest, truthful & straightforward
No hidden agendas; can be trusted
Calculating
Manipulative, scheming & ruthless behavior
Will be untruthful in order to achieve personal results
Carefree
Free from anxiety, guilt & responsibility
Able to take responsibility where needed, without seeing it as a burden
Frivolous
Deliberately carefree & superficial, to the point of being careless
Without serious purpose or value
Challenged
Dispute the truth or validity of something in order to improve or correct it
A challenge is short-term & can be overcome
Impeded
Dispute truth or validity with the purpose of stalling or stopping it
If you are impeded, it is long-term & permanent
Charitable
Relates to the assistance of those in need
Apt to view someone or something in a favorable light
Prodigal
Spending money or using resources recklessly & with wild abandon
Focus on the self to the exclusion of others' needs
Cheerful
Noticeably happy & optimistic as a natural state of being
Causing feelings of joy, happiness & emotional lightness by its appearance or nature
Cheerfulness is a long term state - a person is considered cheerful by nature
It is possible to face emotional lows & ego deaths without losing a default state of cheerfulness - you revert back to your default of being cheerful
Manic
Wild, apparently deranged, excitement, energy & 'high' spirits
Forced congeniality & happiness that last for a short period before being replaced by a low
Manic periods are short-term stages of a larger pattern - you go up, then down again
The emotional high experienced in mania lasts only as long as the stage lasts, and the contrasting drop into the low is often too much for people
Cherishing
Protect & care for lovingly; hold dear
Keep in your mind or awareness, allow to influence other areas
Prizing
Value extremely highly, above all others & to the exclusion of others
Choosing-to
Free will consent to participate or align
Having-to
Forced agreement of consent, that removes free will choice
Civil
Courteous & polite
Warmer & more welcoming attitude
Formal
Doing ONLY what is necessary to be deemed polite
Remaining cold, distant & aloof
Concerned
Worried, troubled or anxious
Intervention with the aim of helping
Judgmental
Having or displaying an overly critical point of view
Intervention to point out fault & show superiority
Conciliatory
Wanting or likely to make amends or find peace
Sees multiple perspectives & from others point of view
Looking for compromise & a win-win
Inflexible
Rigid in viewpoints & thinking
Unwilling to see the other point(s) of view
Unwilling to change or compromise
Confident
A realistic view of oneself or one's abilities
Certainty of the level of mastery achieved
Arrogant
An exaggerated view of the importance of yourself or your abilities, often out of touch with reality
Confronting
Facing or dealing with a conflict or difficulty, usually in a emotionally-charged conversation, with the aim of finding a compromise or solution
You also 'confront' issues instead of avoiding them
Harassing
Repeated aggressive pressure & intimidation
Repeated confrontation, with the aim of causing emotionally upsetting & charged situations
Conscious
Aware of, and responding to, one's surroundings
Having knowledge of something, or in general
Unaware
Not cognizant of, or responding to, one's surroundings
Having no knowledge of a situation or fact
Considerate
Careful not to harm or inconvenience others
Showing careful thought
Indulgent
Inclined towards being too generous or lenient with someone or something
Constructive
Having, or intended to have, a useful or beneficial purpose
Designed to uplift & empower
Destructive
Having, or intended to have, a negative & destructive purpose
Can cause great & irreparable damage
Contending
To strive or participate in competition, with the aiming of performing at one's best
Competing
Participation in competition with the aim of defeating others & being externally validated as the best
Courageous
Brave enough to not be deterred by danger or pain
Healthy fear that creates awareness of danger, but is overcome by free will choice
Reckless
Heedless of danger or the consequence of actions
Distinct lack of, or complete ignorance of, the existence of fear
Fear tells you when to be careful!
Defending
Resist an attack
Protect from harm or danger
Attacking
Take aggressive action against
Criticize or oppose fiercely or publicly
Democratic
For the greater good, and not necessarily majority rules
Takes into the account the perspectives of a majority, or all, and compromises to find the most balanced compromise
Dictatorial
Exercising an autocratic manner or total power
Rigid adherence to protocol set by a single individual or group
'My way or the highway' epitomized
Detached
Separate but present
Concerned but non-interfering observer
Removed from emotional attachment to the outcome - unlikely to assign blame or judge results
Removed
Completely alienated or isolated
All contact is limited or impeded
Complete disinterest in any details, but may conversely be very emotionally attached to any outcomes
Determined
Having made a from decision & employing personal resolve to achieve the desired end goal or aim
Willing to tackle challenges & see the situation realistically, adjusting course where necessary
Stubborn
Dogged adherence to an idea, direction or way of thinking
Refusal to adjust or course correct based on circumstances
Refusal to see where reality of the truth conflicts the way of thinking
Devoted
Loving or loyal
Possessive
Demanding total attention, love & focus
Diplomatic
The ability to make people feel comfortable & welcomed, using 'white lies' & omission where necessary to achieve & maintain harmony & peace
Deceptive
The use of lies & misdirection in order to purposefully conceal something or lull someone into a false sense of complacency or security, often with the intention of taking advantage of this false sense of trust
Doing
Activity in which a person engages
Getting
The act of obtaining something, whether sought or as a gift
Educating
To give intellectual, moral or social instruction, in general, or for specific topics
Intended to help the student come to greater understanding & awareness
Persuading
Falsely presented or limited information, often from a singular point of view, excluding other perspectives
Intended to convince the listener to agree with the point of view
Egalitarian
Believing in, or based on, the principle that all people are equal & deserve equal access & opportunities
Elitist
Separatist thinking that divides society into a social & monetary 'class' system, where the populous is ruled by an 'elite'
Empathetic
Compassion for, and/or understanding of, a person's state or circumstances
Offering support, advice, solutions & caring, without taking on the responsibility of the problem
Pitying
If empathy is throwing a ladder to someone in a hole, the pitying, or sympathy, is climbing down into the hole with them
Pity also happens when there is alignment in wanting to complain for the purposes of complaining
Encouraging
Offering support or confidence; 'being supportive'
Giving hope for future success, even in the face of present circumstances of failure
The most obvious parallel here would be word-of-mouth awareness of something - your friend organically tells you that a product is great, and you are inspired to find out more
Your decision is made on the recommendation & free will choice
Promoting
Support, actively encourage, or further the progress of a specific venture or cause, presenting it as superior, instead of allowing the reputation to develop naturally
The matching parallel for promotion is an advertising campaign - they tell you the product is great, and that you must buy & use it above all others
Your decision is made based on the word of the product marketers
Energetic
Showing or involving great activity or high vitality
A more permanent state - a person is classified as 'energetic'
Energy levels can be tempered & controlled in order to improve, or achieve, focus
Agitated
Uncontrollable restlessness that may appear as a high energy state
Often a temporary or short term stage - she was agitated today
State is outside of control, and the party often cannot calm or center themselves in order to achieve focus
Enlivening
Make something more interesting or appealing
Make someone more cheerful or animated
Exhausting
Making one feel very tired
A very tiring person, experience or circumstance
Envisioning
Imagine as a future possibility; visualize
Picturing
Represent, describe or form a mental image of a specific outcome or circumstance
Equal
Being the same in quantity, size, degree or value
Being or feeling equipped to perform a task
Superior
Of a higher quality, volume, degree or value
Having or showing an overly high opinion of oneself
Erotic
Relating to, or tending to, arouse sexual desire
e.g. Your existing relationship arouses erotic desire, and you use sex to strengthen your bond - the relationship leads to the sexual desire, which then leads to coupling
Lustful
Having or showing strong feelings of sexual desire
e.g. You go out looking for sex; you get aroused first, and then seek someone to relieve that desire with - the sexual desire leads to the physical experience of coupling
Essential
Absolutely necessary & extremely important
Vital to the functioning of the whole
Apparent
Clearly visible; obvious
Seemingly real, true or important, but not necessarily actually so
Eternal
Relating to matters of God, or a spiritual nature
Timeless & eternal: unending & unlimited time
Temporal
Relating to worldly & secular matters
Of a limited time or timespan; subject to the nature of time
Ethical
Relating to moral principles
An internally-referenced code of conduct by which one conducts oneself, regardless of changing circumstances
Equivocal
Open to more than one interpretation; ambiguous
An externally-defined set of standards that fluctuates according to circumstances, or people that are present
Excellent
Extremely good; outstanding
Presented to the level of the highest quality that can be achieved
Adequate
Good enough; 'will do'
Made to meet the minimum required standards of acceptability
Experienced
Knowledgeable by means of practical hands-on experience rather than learned theoretical knowledge
Offers both positive & critical feedback & advice based on hand-on experience
Cynical
Jaded, judgmental sentiments that look for the negative or cast doubt
Often based on repeated past negative experience, or the inability to overcome a past life experience
Distrustful of humanity & sincerity
Fair
The state of treating people equally, without favoritism or discrimination
A fair boss will treat everyone with the same set of standards - it looks like perfectionism, but it's actually meddling & a sign of lack of trust
Scrupulous
Careful, thorough & extremely attentive to small details
Micro-management is a great example, with the unnecessary focus on details
Fertile
Producing or capable of producing abundant vegetation or crops
Able to produce or conceive young or seeds
Luxuriant
Rich & thick in growth; thick & healthy
Beautifully presented to appear fertile & amp; lush, but may be masking truth
Flexible
Able to bend easily, without breaking
Ready & able to adjust, in order to adapt to changing circumstances
Rigid
Unable to bend, be forced out of shape or adjust
Not able to be changed or adapted
Forgiving
Ready or willing to forgive
Easy or safe to deal with or use
Resenting
Feeling bitterness, resentment & indignation towards someone or something in the past
Free
Able to act or conduct oneself according your own free will choice
Not under the control of another
Not trapped, imprisoned or incarcerated
Able to develop organically & according to natural standards, trusting the process or natural flow of ups & downs
Regulated
Environment or process controlled by rules & regulations
Under the control of another party or parties
Evolution, growth & change is forced into a desired direction, with outcomes considered positive or negative when viewed in isolation & not as part of the process
Generous
Readiness to give more than is necessary or expected
Larger or more plentiful than is usual or necessary
Petty
Concerned with small, trivial matters & focused on tiny details
Small picture thinking & view that obscures the big picture
Gentle
Moderate in action, effect, or degree; not strong or violent
Having or showing a mild, kind, or tender temperament or character
Rough
Uneven & irregular; not smooth or level; coarse &/or abrasive
Violent, boisterous & potentially harmful, behavior or actions
Gifted
Having exceptional talent or ability
Lucky
Having or resulting from fortuitous chance, or 'good luck'
Giving
Freely transfer the possession of something to something
Cause or allow to have an experience; provide with
Taking
The action or process of removing a possession from someone or something, whether willingly given or by force
Global
Related to the whole world; worldwide
Encompassing the whole of something, or a group of things; big picture
Local
Related or restricted to a particular defined geographic area
Relating to a particular region, part or area; more detail oriented
Gracious
Courteous, kind & pleasant, especially to one of a lower status
Decorous
In keeping with good taste & propriety; polite & restrained
Grateful
Feeling or showing appreciation for someone or something as a result of genuine gratitude
Indebted
Feeling obligated to, and often controlled, because of the expectation of gratitude created by an act of assistance
Harmonious
Forming a pleasing & consistent whole
Calm & peaceful, without disagreement or dissent
Disruptive
Causing or intending to cause upset & turbulence
Argumentative, rowdy, unruly & disorderly
Healing
In the process of becoming sound, whole & healthy again
Tending to heal; therapeutic
Irritating
Causing annoyance, irritation & mild anger
Friction, rubbing, tension & discomfort
Helpful
Giving or ready to give help
Useful, constructive & positive intervention or assistance
Meddling
Interfering in something that is not your concern
Touch or handle without permission
Holistic
The idea that the parts of any element or group are intimately interconnected & understandable only in relation to the whole
The treatment of a person's entire or whole system, taking into account mental & social factors, and not just the physical symptoms of the disease
Analytic
Relating to, or using, analysis of details & facts, or logical reasoning
An in depth look at a detailed section or part or a larger whole or system, often viewing it in isolation & ignoring the big picture
Detail-oriented & focused as opposed to a larger big-picture view
Honest
Free of deceit; truthful & sincere; able to be trusted
Decisions based on ethics, principles fairness & reason
Legal
Relating to, or permitted by, the laws of a region
Decisions based on rules & existing protocols
Honoring
Regard with great respect, giving an adequate & balanced place of reverence
Fulfill an obligation or keep an agreement
Enshrining
Honoring a revered or precious object or person, or preserve a right, tradition idea, or memory of a person to the point of excess, almost worship
Humble
Having or showing a modest, or low, estimation of one's importance
Diffident
Being or feeling modest or shy, as the result of a lack of self confidence
Humorous
A lighthearted feeling of laughter & amusement; comical
Sombre
Having or conveying a feeling of deep seriousness & sadness
Impartial
Treating everyone concerned equally & without favor
Not allowing thinking to be swayed by partiality or alignment with a way of thinking
Righteous
Morally right or justifiable
Convinced of a superior point of view, which can cause favor to one side & discrimination to the other
Ingenious
Clever, original & inventive
Cleverly devised & well-suited to its purpose
Scheming
The activity or practice of making secret & underhand plans
Cunning & manipulative behavior designed to achieve a specific goal
Inspired
An idea of extraordinary quality, as if arising from some external creative impulse
Mundane
Lacking interest or excitement; dull
Of this earthly world rather than a heavenly or spiritual one
Intentional
Done on purpose; taking deliberate action
Calculating
Acting in a scheming & ruthlessly determined way
Intuitive
Using or based on what one feels to be true even without conscious reasoning; instinctive
Big picture view that looks at the person, context, environment, circumstances & other influencing factors holistically
Literal
Taking words in their usual or most basic sense without metaphor or exaggeration
Meta focus on individual words & small details, to obscure the big picture
Inventive
Having the ability to create or design new things or to think originally; showing creativity or original thought
Prosaic
Lacking imaginativeness or originality; commonplace; unromantic
Inviting
Offering the promise of an attractive or enjoyable experience
Urging
Prompting or encouraging someone to do something
Involved
Voluntary participation that is engaged, loyal & dedicated
Obsessed
Overwhelming preoccupation that fills the mind continuously & to a worrying extent
Joyful
Feeling, expressing, or causing great pleasure & happiness
Pleasurable
Designed to be obviously pleasing & enjoyable to the senses
Just
Based on or behaving according to what is morally right & fair
Punitive
Inflicting or intended as punishment
Kind
Having or showing a friendly, generous, and considerate nature; affectionate & loving
Cruel
Willfully causing pain or suffering to others, often feeling no concern about the pain or damage caused
Leading
Show (someone or something) the way to a destination by going in front of or beside them
Be in charge or command of
Have the advantage over competitors in a race or game; have or experience a particular way of life
Coercing
Persuade (an unwilling person) to do something by using force or threats
Obtain (something) from someone by using force or threats
Liberating
Set free from imprisonment, slavery, or oppression
A freeing experience that removes perceived mental, emotional, spiritual & even physical limitations
Restricting
Put a limit on; keep under control
Deprive (someone or something) of freedom of movement or action
Limit someone to only doing or having (a particular thing) or staying in (a particular place)
Long-term
Occurring over or relating to a long period of time; delayed gratification
Immediate
Occurring or done at once; 'instant gratification'
Loyal
Giving or showing firm & constant support or allegiance to a person or institution
Chauvinistic
Feeling or displaying aggressive or exaggerated patriotism; displaying excessive or prejudiced support for their own cause, group, or sex
Merciful
Showing or exercising mercy; bringing relief from something unpleasant
Permissive
Allowing or characterized by great or excessive freedom of behavior
Modest
Unassuming in the estimation of one's abilities or achievements
Haughty
Arrogantly superior & disdainful
Natural
Existing in or derived from nature; not made or caused by humankind
In accordance with the nature of, or circumstances surrounding, someone or something
Having an innate talent for a particular task or activity
Artificial
Made or produced by human beings rather than occurring naturally, especially as a copy of something natural
Insincere or affected, put upon, 'putting on a show', 'wearing a mask' (of a person or their behavior)
Noble
Having or showing fine personal qualities or high moral principles
Pompous
Affectedly grand, solemn, or self-important; characterized by pomp or splendor (archaic)
Nurturing
Care for & protect (someone or something) while they are growing; cherish, help or encourage the development of
Draining
Cause something to run out, leaving it empty or dry; deprive of strength or vitality
Observant
Quick to notice or perceive things, without unnecessary or excessive surveillance
Comfortable to let their guard down, as observation continues without non-stop surveillance
Adhering strictly to the rules of a particular religion, especially Judaism
Suspicious
Having or showing a cautious distrust of someone or something
Causing one to have the idea or impression that someone or something is questionable, dishonest, or dangerous
Having the belief or impression that someone is involved in an illegal or dishonest activity
Open
Freely available or accessible; unrestricted
Not concealing one's thoughts or feelings; frank & communicative
Secretive
Inclined to conceal feelings & intentions
Withholding or not disclosing (all of the) information
Optimistic
Hopeful & confident about the future
Pessimistic
Tending to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen
Orderly
Neatly & methodically arranged
Confused
Lacking order & so difficult to understand; unable to think clearly; bewildered
Outgoing
Friendly & socially confident
Gregarious, warm & welcoming
Reserved
Slow to reveal emotion or opinions;
kept specially for a particular person
Patient
Able to accept or tolerate delays, problems, or suffering (time delays) without becoming annoyed or anxious
Avid
Having or showing a keen interest in or enthusiasm for something; having an eager desire for something, usually short lived with waning interest
Patriotic
Having or expressing devotion to & vigorous support for one's country
Nationalistic
Having overly strong patriotic feelings, especially a belief in the superiority of one's own country over others
Peaceful
Free from disturbance; tranquil; not involving conflict or aggression
Belligerent
Hostile & aggressive
Polite
Having or showing behavior that is respectful & considerate of other people
Obsequious
Obedient or attentive to an excessive or servile degree
Powerful
Having great power or strength & accurately applying it
Forceful
Excessively strong & assertive; Overly vigorous & powerful
Praising
Express warm approval or admiration of
Express one's respect & gratitude towards (a deity), especially in song
Flattering
Excessively full of praise & compliments
Contrived to appear pleasing & gratifying, often with the purpose of gaining someone's approval or manipulating them
Principled
Acting in accordance with morality & showing recognition of right & wrong
Expedient
(of an action) Convenient & practical although possibly improper or immoral
Privileged
Having special rights, advantages, or immunities
Entitled
Believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment
Prolific
Present in large numbers or quantities; plentiful; very productive or fertile
Barren
Showing no results or achievements; unproductive; infertile
Purposeful
Having or showing determination or resolve; having a useful purpose
Desirous
Having or characterized by desire
Receiving
Be given, presented with, or paid; suffer, experience, or be subject to
Grasping
Avaricious: having or showing an extreme greed for wealth or material gain & greedy
Releasing
Allow or enable to escape from confinement; set free; allow (something) to move, act, or flow freely
Tenacious
Tending to keep a firm hold of something; clinging or adhering closely
Reliant
Having or showing a limited degree of dependence on someone or something
Dependent
Completely contingent on or determined by; requiring someone or something for financial or other support
Requesting
Politely or formally ask for
The act of asking for something to be given or done, especially as a favor or courtesy; solicitation or petition
Demanding
Forcefully or aggressively ask for, or require to give
Requiring much skill or effort
Making others work hard or meet high standards; not easily satisfied
Respectful
Feeling or showing deference & respect
Demeaning
Causing someone to lose their dignity & the respect of others
Responsible
Having an obligation to do something, or having control over or care for someone, as part of one's job or role
Being the primary cause of something & so able to be blamed or credited for it
Guilty
Culpable of or responsible for a specified wrongdoing; justly chargeable with a particular fault or error
Conscious of, affected by, or revealing a feeling of guilt
Satisfied
Contented & pleased, having had consumed an adequate amount
Sated
Excessively satisfy (a desire or an appetite) to the full; supply (someone) with as much as or more of something than is desired or can be managed
Selective
Relating to or involving the selection of the most suitable or best qualified
Tending to choose carefully
Affecting some things & not others
Exclusive
Excluding or not admitting access to
Restricted to the person, group, or area concerned
Serene
Calm, peaceful, and untroubled; tranquil
Dull
Lacking interest or excitement; lacking brightness, vividness, or sheen
Serving
Perform duties or services for another person or an organization
Be of use in achieving or satisfying
Ambitious
Having or showing a strong desire & determination to succeed
Intended to satisfy high aspirations & therefore difficult to achieve
Sharing
Give a portion of (something) to another or others; use, occupy, or enjoy (something) jointly with another or others
Hoarding
Accumulate (money, junk or valued objects) and hide or store away; keep in one's mind for future use
Significant
Sufficiently great or important to be worthy of attention; noteworthy
Having a particular meaning; indicative of something
Important
Of significance or value; significantly original and influential
Having high rank or status
Sober
Not affected by alcohol; not drunk
Serious, sensible, & solemn
Intoxicated
Distracting & alluring; can cause to lose control of their faculties or behavior
Spontaneous
Performed or occurring as a result of a sudden impulse or inclination and without premeditation or external stimulus
Having an open, natural, and uninhibited manner
Occurring without apparent external cause
Impulsive
Acting or done without forethought
Acting on a sudden desire or impulse, often fleeting or newly discovered
Spiritual
Relating to or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things; relating to religion or religious belief
Materialistic
Excessively concerned with material possessions; money-oriented
Steadfast
Resolutely or dutifully firm & unwavering
Trustworthy & reliable
Faltering
Lose strength or momentum
Speak or move unsteadily or hesitantly
Striving
Make great efforts to achieve or obtain something
Fight smartly & vigorously
Struggling
Make forceful or violent efforts to get free of restraint or constriction; engage in conflict
Strive to achieve or attain something in the face of difficulty or resistance
Surrendering
Stop resisting an energy or direction & submit to the process & flow
Give up or hand over (control, an energy, power, hope, hanging on, etc)
Worrying
Mental tension that causes anxiety about actual or potential problems; often unnecessarily pessimistic & alarming
Tender
Showing softness, gentleness, kindness, & affection
Sensitive to pain, including others'
Hard
Solid, firm, and rigid; not easily broken, bent, or pierced
Done with a great deal of force or strength or requiring a great deal of effort
Thoughtful
Absorbed in or involving thought; showing consideration for the needs of other people
Pedantic
Excessively concerned with minor details or rules; over-scrupulous
Thrifty
Using money and other resources carefully and not wastefully
Thriving, prosperous, or successful; 'thriving physically', or growing vigorously
Cheap
Low in price, especially in relation to similar items or services; compromise quality for price
Of little worth because achieved in a discreditable way requiring little effort
Timeless
Not affected by the passage of time or changes in fashion
Faddish
Intensely fashionable for a short time
Tolerant
Showing willingness to allow the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with
Prejudiced
Having or showing a dislike or distrust that is derived from prejudice; bigoted
Tractable
Easy to control or influence; easy to deal with
Contrary
Opposite in nature, direction, or meaning; perversely inclined to disagree or to do the opposite of what is expected or desired
Trusting
Showing or tending to have a belief in a person's honesty or sincerity; not suspicious
Gullible
Easily persuaded to believe something; easily manipulated
Truthful
Telling or expressing the truth; being honest
False
Not according with truth or fact; incorrect; made to imitate something in order to deceive
Unifying
Make or become united, uniform, or whole
Dividing
Separate or be separated into parts; disagree or cause to disagree
Unselfish
Willing to put the needs or wishes of others before one's own
Selfish
Lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure
Valuing
Consider to be important or beneficial; have a high opinion of
Exploitative
Making use of a situation or treating others unfairly in order to gain an advantage or benefit
Virtuous
Having or showing high moral standards; chaste
Celebrated
Greatly or popularly admired; renowned
Warm
Of or at a fairly or comfortably high temperature
Having or showing enthusiasm, affection, or kindness
Feverish
Having or showing the symptoms of a fever
Characterized by or displaying a frenetic excitement or energy


  Examples of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns

List containing real life & practical examples of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns.

In this list we will look at the extreme examples of these patterns.

When you look at some of these examples, it really seems like they are the same, or very similar.

Remember the word pair is being compared TO EACH OTHER; so, to understand them, ask yourself: if these are the two options available, then which one is preferable?

HIGH LOW
Abundant
Having enough food available to meet your needs, with some extra
Buying or replacing the clothes you need, when you need them, without having to worry about the resources
Excessive
Eating more food than you need, to the point of excess
Buying more clothes than you need, on debt, and having unworn items in your closet
Admitting
Tell the whole truth
Invite & welcome someone into your space
Denying
Persist in continuing or believing a lie
Cut someone off or isolate them
Aesthetic
Creating a visually pleasing environment or home that reflects your own timeless beauty & style
Wearing timeless items of clothing that suit your personal style & lifestyle
Making the most of what you have & what God gave you
Artsy
Matching current design trends in an effort to be validated by others
Being a dedicated follower of fashion, even if it isn't comfortable or doesn't really suit you
Forcing your body to adhere to fashion's standards, rather than finding styles that suit you, even if that means plastic surgery
Agreeable
A person who is easy to get along with & likable
Looking for commonalities & points of agreement
Condescending
Someone who acts in a way that others perceive as 'too superior' for them
You'll label a person condescending when you think that they think that they are better than you
Allowing
Going with the flow & letting stuff play out or happen
Controlling
Trying to determine the direction of something, a situation, or a person's actions, as well as the steps it takes to get there along the way
Appreciative
Thankful & grateful for assistance, support, etc
Valuing the item, experience that was received & wanting to offer an exchange
Envious
Unhappy that someone else has something, and wanting it for yourself, or not wanting the other person to have it
Approving
Having positive things to say, and/or a welcoming attitude
Critical
Having negative things to say & always looking for the worst in everything
Attractive
Something that appeals to your senses in a way that makes you think about it & want to go back to it
Usually very appealing to look at, so 'eye candy'
Seductive
Something purposefully contrived to be obviously attractive & arouse your loyalty or sexual desire
Designed to obviously draw your focus away from things that would naturally normally appeal to you
Authoritative
Somebody who is in charge, and is comfortable & confident about being in charge
A decision maker who sets clear boundaries
The key differentiator here would be that the authoritative person is good at making decisions - whether those are new, out of the box, or abide by old ways or rules
Dogmatic
A 'tight' micro-managing type of person, who sticks the rules & protocols, even when they don't make sense
An inflexible thinker who is mentally bound to adhere to rules & regulations, and usually can't process 'out of the box thinking' or new ideas
The kind of person who would immediately and wildly reject an idea, and then possible come back a few days or weeks later, presenting it as their own, when they've had time to process it
Aware
Someone who is conscious of what is going around them, and is present in now time
This kind of person notices what is happening with & to others around them, and when you speak to them, it feels like they are really listening
Preoccupied
Someone whose mind is 'off with the fairies' - thinking about something else entirely, and not present in the moment with you
When you speak to this person, you get a sense that they aren't listening or understanding, and often that they're just waiting for you to finish so that they can have a chance to talk
Balanced
In a balanced diet there is space for everything - from fruit to veggies, starch, a few slices of cake or even a bar of chocolate.
A balanced way to lose weight would be to introduce a manageable amount of exercises that you maintain over the long term, and allow the weight to fall off organically over time
A balanced lifestyle would make time for work, play, time alone, spirituality, quality time, fun, and everything else you can think of
A balanced approach to alcohol would be to drink when it's appropriate, in appropriate quantities - and yes, sometimes it's appropriate to to get drunk occasionally
Extreme
An extreme diet would be where you overeat of something in extreme - like having chocolate or a cheeseburger every single day, or always having one near for when you want it
An extreme way to lose weight would be to go on a crash diet, or use excessive exercise to lose weight quickly
An extreme lifestyle would see you dedicate most, or all, of your time to a single pursuit, e.g. workaholics or extreme hobbyists
An extreme use of alcohol would be an alcoholic who starts his day with a glass of something & cannot function without alcohol in his system
Beautiful
Pleasing & appealing to the senses, especially visually
Most likely naturally occurring & of a timeless nature, and so appealing across the ages, like a woman's face
Glamorous
Glamor is artificially contrived visual appeal that is designed to catch your attention & 'dazzle' you, usually to blind you to faults or what is being purposefully hidden
Magazine covers are glamorous, while a really good picture of you could be said to be beautiful
Being
You can 'be' in a relationship with someone, which means you are present & engaged usually, and you actively participate by your free will, more than is required to meet the expectations of the relationship
You can 'be' happy with your circumstances, but you can't have, obtain or go buy 'happy'; in this state your happiness is not dependent on the 'stuff' around you
Having
Conversely you can 'have' a relationship with someone where you are distant & withdrawn & you don't participate except to respond as much as you 'have to' to meet expectations & obligations
'She has everything that opens & closes, but she's still not happy' - happiness, like peace, freedom, understanding, and so many energies, is a state, and not something you can obtain
Believing
Belief is an internally validated experience that is reliant entirely on your own experience, and cannot be shaken by external validation or lack thereof
When you really believe in something, you feel no need to discuss it with others
When you truly believe something, it doesn;t matter to you what others think, or what 'reality' shows you - you develop a single-minded, almost dogmatic stance
Insisting
When you want to discuss something with others, it's because you want to convince them of your way of thinking, or piggy back off their faith as they convince you of their way of thinking.
We also initiate these kinds of discussions when we want to clarify our own thinking, and/or reinforce our beliefs, or change them
When you insist that others agree with you, or hear you, it is because you are trying to find the extra layer of thought to align with yours, so that you 'feel', on an energetic level, the agreement that is reached when two thoughts align to create reality - read more
Brilliant
To understand brilliant, you need to think of the typical 'lightbulb moment' concept.... the ideas presented are so smart, so applicable, that they shine with their obvious benefits & application
A brilliant person is someone who has a mind that seems to operate on that level permanently, producing ideas that automatically grab your attention for their design & device
Often these solutions seem very obvious once you see them, and leave you with a thought of 'well duh... obviously that was the answer!' Maybe even a... 'why didn't I think of that?'
Clever
While brilliance, and brilliant ideas, often seem inspired by some external force of 'creativity', or seem to be some sort of inherent natural talent that you're either born with, or not, cleverness is the ability to be able to learn something and see good, and often, great, solutions, by applying your mind
The ideas offered by someone considered brilliant are usually way superior, but it's really difficult to find people born with natural talent, and so we make do with cleverness in society instead
The advantage at a societal level is that 'cleverness' is more easily created by force, learning & application, while brilliance has to show itself & is unpredictable in its occurrence
Candid
'With her, it's never a spade... it's always a %$*# shovel!' is about the best contemporary metaphor we have to describe a candid person
You know where you stand with somebody who is candid... and often you know SO much that you wish you didn't know
Candid people might not always be comfortable to be around, but you know where you stand with them - and anyway they couldn't keep a secret long enough to be able to have a master plan
Calculating
On the other hand, a calculating person is VERY liberal in their application of the truth - telling you ONLY the bits of information that they want you to know in order to support the perspective that they want you to see or have
Candid people are trustworthy; calculating people, who watch their words & guard what they say, are not
Carefree
'You shall be free indeed when your days are not without a care, nor your nights without a want and a grief, but rather when these things girdle your life and yet you rise above them naked and unbound.' - Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
To be carefree is NOT to be completely free of worries or responsibilities, but rather the ability to be able to turn off the worry, and not allow it to take over your life
Frivolous
A lighthearted person would be the life & soul of the party, while a frivolous person would inappropriately make fun, say at a funeral
To be frivolous is to be wasteful & inconsiderate, e.g. buying unnecessary clothes or home items when you don' have enough money for food for the month, or even to buy unnecessary food that goers to waste
Frivolous people don't care about the consequences & are inclined towards being wasteful
Challenged
A challenge is something that can be faced & overcome - and so a challenged person can move past a current (short term) obstacle they are facing
A challenging person is a person who makes you think, and/or push yourself
Impeded
When someone is impeded, they are permanently stalled or stopped; they have an impediment that 'holds them back' - a permanent problem they can't overcome
The idea of problems we can't overcome, like addiction for example, create the belief that there is some stuff we are powerless against
Charitable
A charitable person is considerate of the needs of others, and will put themselves aside in order to assist someone or offer support & guidance
Prodigal
A prodigal person is what we'd call a narcissist nowadays - someone who will put their needs ahead of others', even putting their comfort & luxury ahead of another's survival
Cheerful
Someone who is cheerful is usually smiling & happy, and easy to be around, as they say & do fun, enjoyable & positive things
You want to share time with them, because you feel energized when you are around them or after you've seen them
Manic
A manic person is also high energy, and for brief bursts can be fun - but they quickly drop into depressions, having repeated cycles of ups & downs
It can be exhausting to be around mania - first because you can't keep up with the speed of the high, and then because the lows are so draining & all-consuming
Cherishing
When you cherish something or someone, you hold it near to you & keep it safe, looking after & nurturing it
Prizing
Something that is prized is often about the perceived superiority of the item in question
Prized items will be treated with much greater favor - like a favorite pet or child
Choosing-to
When you choose to do something, it is by your own free will decision that you decide to participate, and so you have agreed & are more likely to engage & be engaged
Having-to
When you have-to do something, you feel forced & like the decision is outside of your control, and so you often land up feeling powerless, stuck, trapped, and like you want to rebel
Civil
When you treat someone with civility, you are decent to them, even if you don't happen to particularly like them
You will do what is expected of you, and maybe go a little further; perhaps even showing genuine warmth & interest
Formal
Formality, on the other hand, is when you have that clear, cold distance with people; only doing the absolute minimum you have to with them - not opening to them, or 'letting them in'
Concerned
Concerned is when you look at something, have clear positive AND negative thoughts about it, and want to give input because you want the venture to turn out positively
Judgmental
Judgmental is when you look at something with the aim of finding fault with it, or criticizing it, finding only the negative aspects, and showing your superiority for having had spotted 'the problems'
What is implied here her is that you know better & have better answers - although those who criticize rarely have positive feedback or solutions for the 'problems' they perceive: the joy exists in pointing out he fault and illustrating self superiority
Conciliatory
Being conciliatory is about wanting to find a compromise, make amends, and find a middle ground
When you are conciliatory, you are often ready to hear, and incorporate, what the other party has to say
Inflexible
Inflexibility occurs when you won't change your mind, thoughts, stance, perspective on a situation or person, sticking doggedly to one way of thinking & refusing to compromise
Confident
To be able to agree to bake a cake, you have to know that you can source the ingredients & the recipe, and can satisfactorily execute them, and then decorate that cake - so you need to be 'sure' of which parts of that process you are capable of
This is confidence - the knowledge of your skills & abilities, and the level to which you are able to exercise them
Arrogant
Arrogance in mainstream thinking, is a confident person who believes that they are superior to others by virtue of their skillset
Arrogance is a funny one though, because it's a label that we apply by PROJECTION onto others
We label someone else as being arrogant, and this means that we perceive them as being someone who thinks that they are better than us, or others, because we feel inferior to this person somehow
Confronting
When you confront someone, you raise an often-difficult-to-speak-about issue, that you know will likely lead to an emotionally charged situation, with people getting hurt & offended
Basically this is dangerous territory, and you enter it carefully & tread lightly
Your aim is to resolve the issue with the least amount of emotional upset to all parties concerned
Harassing
With harassment, the issue often changes, because the point is the emotional abuse & drama that the confrontation creates
The issue is just an excuse to purposefully create emotional upset & usually cannot be resolved, mostly because it's not a 'real' issue for the complainant & they aren't looking for a solution
The aim is to use any excuse to create confrontation so that you can create the emotional upset that will you make you 'important' in someone else's life
Conscious
Someone who is conscious makes decisions, or acts, by free will choice, because they have their wits about them & are able to make a conscious decision about what they are going to do next
They are able to 'think before they speak' in other words
Unaware
Conversely, someone who is unaware may be temporarily distracted, or permanently unfocused, and therefore tends to let most of their processes, actions & behaviors run on default, or by habit
Because the processes run on default, the ability to interrupt them & choose differently is not present
Considerate
To be considerate is to take into account the needs, comfort & opinions of others, or to see from their perspective
Indulgent
An indulgent parent, for example, would blindly assume his or her child is correct, and offer unwavering, often financial, support
Constructive
The concept of constructive, has its roots in 'construct', which means to build
Something is considered constructive when it's end achievement is that it builds up the person, idea or understanding
Empowering something or helping it to grow, even if the process of growth is difficult, awkward or uncomfortable
Destructive
Similarly, destructive has its root in the word 'destruction', or 'destroy'
Something is considered destructive when it breaks down a person's confidence, hope, drive, passion, or puts an end to plans
Sometimes endings are necessary though, and not everything is meant to survive forever
Contending
To contend is to 'throw your hat into the ring' & participate
Contending is about matching your skill against others', in order to measure & benchmark your own progress, so that you are able to evaluate & validate your skill level according to an internally-referenced yardstick that happens to include others
When you measure & benchmark against yourself & your own performance, then you notice all the improvements & losses that have occurred, and are able to form a more well-rounded picture of your overall progress
Competing
Competition differs in that it is about benchmarking against an opponent - by winning, or defeating the opponent
Where a contender will set out to play the best possible match they can, and thus can be a 'good sport' or 'good loser', the ONLY benchmark in competition is winning
The danger here is the over-emphasis placed on winning - an achievement like being in second place can feel like a soul crushing defeat, even if that second place is a massive improvement on your previously-recorded position of 137
Courageous
'Feel the fear & do it anyway' is the best statement to describe courage, or bravery
Being courageous does NOT mean that you feel no fear - it means that you are willing to walk into the fray, even though you are scared, and will likely face danger - whether you know what that danger is or not
Reckless
Impulsively jumping into ideas & behaviors, with no regard for, or thought of the consequences of that behavior
While fear is a healthy ally in courage, as it reminds & encourages you to be cautious, all caution is thrown to the wind with reckless behavior
This is where stupid accidents happen; where you think to yourself... 'Well! They should have known better'
Defending
To defend is to protect, using physical force if necessary, oneself, another person or a possession or place
In any situation requiring requiring forgiveness, there are three positions - the perpetrator, the victim & the bystander; the bystander's guilt stems from not interfering to help or defend the victim, even though they knew what was going & had the ability to run some sort of interference
Attacking
When violence, aggression & force are used in defensive activity, they are used because they have been provoked - an attack is usually the activity that provokes such a defense
Democratic
For the greater good & aligned to the needs, but not necessarily wants, of the majority
Dictatorial
Aligned to the needs & desires of a single individual, with the populous forced to adhere to the rules & regulations as 'dictated'
Detached
Present but not overly attached or involved to a situation or person
Able to remove oneself mentally & emotionally from something by free will choice, even if you strongly disagree
Removed
Where detachment sees the person still being present, when the person is removed, they are completely separated or isolated; entirely cut off from all activity, interest & engagement with the person or object
Determined
When you're determined, you have set your mind to something, and have decided that you will make it happen, regardless of what it takes for you to get there
Stubborn
Stubbornness is a refusal to budge from an activity, way of thinking, perspective or behavior, doggedly holding onto it, sometimes even if the mindset can be shown to be erroneous
Devoted
To be devoted is to be be completely committed to someone or something, by your own free will decision & choice
Possessive
To be possessive is to demand the undivided attention & the behaviors & energy of devotion from someone or something - wanting it to be entirely focused on you
Diplomatic
To be diplomatic is to have the ability to soothe ruffled feathers, make people feel comfortable and help them to feel heard
Diplomacy is to consider & act on the needs of many different parties, playing a careful balancing game of egos & pride
Deceptive
Deception is diplomacy used for devious ends, in order to blind someone to a truth, or gain their trust with the purpose of taking advantage of them in some way
Deception only takes into account the needs of the deceiver, and does not consider the needs of the victim, or their comfort
Doing
The most obvious analogy here is the idea that if you do what you love, you'll never work a day in your life; when you do something with purpose, you feel fulfilled, because your intention is in the right place
Getting
If you're working only to get a salary, and your career is about what you can accumulate, or get, in terms of material wealth, then your criteria for job selection will be money, instead of asking if the role will fulfill you & give you joy
Educating
Arming & empowering with information designed to increase overall general awareness, knowledge, and the ability to apply oneself to a task at hand
Persuading
Limited & tailored exposure to information that is designed to give a one-sided view that hopes to inform the choice made by the listener
Egalitarian
Approaching life, or a situation, in a way that assumes that everyone is equal, and deserves equal right of access to goods & services
Elitist
The belief that a particular race, culture, country, people, ethnicity, gender, tradition, religion or wealth status can superior to others in the same class, and that members of those classes should be excluded from certain elements of society
Empathetic
An empathetic person is willing to lend an ear, be a shoulder to cry on (for a limited time), and may offer solutions or advice to the injured party
The truth is that, no matter how you cut it, some people don't want stuff to get better, they just want to complain - they don't want real help
Pitying
Someone who has pity on the other hand, will often join in the 'pity party', and spend hours commiserating, agreeing & in mutual complaint about the unfairness of the situation, with little to no constructive discussion or resolution taking place
Encouraging
Standing behind & supporting someone, offering hope for a positive outcome; holding the space of belief that they can 'make it' in their intended aim
You encourage someone to become the best they can be, or to do well
Promoting
Encouraging someone with the purpose of aligning them to a specified goal or aim
Presenting something as 'best in class' in order to more quickly build a positive or favorable reputation, rather than organically, or legitimately, earn one
Energetic
To be in high spirits, or have high vitality, presence or motivation to get stuff done
Agitated
Restless & unable to find stillness or peace; high energy behavior that can be disruptive to those around
Enlivening
The process of making a process, person, circumstance or place, more lively, exciting & engaging
Exhausting
A circumstance, person or pace that drains your energy & motivation, leaving you tired & disinterested
Envisioning
Imagining what a future could be or look like, with all the potential possibilities
You have or receive or receive a vision - it's more of a state
Picturing
Picturing a specific desired outcome, that channels energy into a specific outcome, usually designed to serve the desires of the individual
You envision the future, but you picture what you want
Equal
Treating with the same level of respect, or with the same right of access
Treat as if of equivalent value, dimension or ability; managing without favor or prejudice
Superior
Believing that someone or something is of better quality, more worth, or more important than something else, by virtue of a characteristic or set of characteristics
Erotic
The act of sexual intimacy as an expression of connection, bonding & tantric union
Being sexy within the context of a union, for your partner
Lustful
Designed to appeal to sexual desires & senses in general, and not limited to specific partner
Having sex appeal with the sole intent of provoking lust in others, to be seen or validated as 'sexy'
Essential
A vital part of the system or process, critical to its ability to keep running, e.g. the cogs and springs that drive a watch's timing mechanism, vs. the apparently useful watch face
Apparent
The obvious part of the mechanism or system that apparently seems to be most useful, i.e. the mechanism, cogs & springs can still run, and even 'keep time' without the watch face, but without the mechanism, the face is purely decorative
Eternal
Something that is eternal, is beyond the reach of time. often not changing even though standards of the day may vary wildly
The eternal transcends temporary fads & fashions, offering timelessness
Temporal
Of limited time, or limited to exist within time, or a timeframe
A fad may be wildly popular, but it will only be so for a brief period of time
Ethical
To act in a way principled manner that is aligned with an internally-referenced moral code, that is not swayed by outside interference, even if it does allow for external input
Equivocal
An externally validated set of principles that is able to be swayed, or will deviate, according to the people, environment or circumstances in which one finds oneself, most often in order to 'fit in', gain approval or curry favor
Excellent
Of exceptional quality & standard; a memorable & perhaps perfect example
Adequate
Good enough to meet the standards of requirement, while not surpassing them, or showing any extraordinary value
Experienced
Knowledge & ability gained from hands-on exposure to the matter in question
Knowledge that extends to the practical application, beyond just theoretical book learning
Cynical
Jaded, often pessimistic, views of the situation, frequently accompanied by complaints, judgment & negative sentiment
Often presented as born of experience, but mostly born of disappointment & failure
Fair
To be fair is to give an approximately equal consideration to all the parties concerned
A good example would be dividing land equally between two people - you can agree on an approximate halfway point & compromise around that
This fair approach looks at the big picture of the issue and makes decisions based on that view, without going into unnecessary detail, e.g. a judge makes a decision, but the lawyers scrupulously handle the details amp; terms of the agreement
Scrupulous
To be scrupulous is to be pedantic & OCD about being fair - taking it to the tiniest detail & measurement, or 'hearing absolutely ALL the facts of the case'
To continue our example of land division, a scrupulous approach would be to measure and divide the land down to the final millimeter, and then perhaps to compensate for someone getting a more fertile patch of land by giving the other person more land, or to create a weirdly shaped piece of land that also equally shares access to water
A scrupulous person would find more & more details that come to bear on the decision, making it more and more complex - so detail-oriented thinking
Fertile
Something that is fertile may not appear lush or beautiful, but it is capable of producing
This is the old 'don't judge a book by its cover' analogy - just because land does not look lush & beautiful, doesn't mean it isn't great for growing crops
While fertility is about creation & productivity, luxuriant is about presenting the aura of those elements within a limited space
Luxuriant
A nice contrast view here would be an oasis in the desert: it looks lush & luxuriant, and amazing when you're standing inside it, but you would not want to establish a farm there
The salesman of a firm always looks well-presented & gives you the best view of their product, but if you wanted to invest, you'd want to meet the nerdy tech guys - these guys may not look the part, but they are the guts of the company
The salesman is apparently useful, but the tech guys are essential; they are the true fertility and creation of the company
Flexible
'In any system, the element that shows the most amount of flexibility will experience the least amount of strain'
This statement beautifully captures not only the essence, but also the benefits of flexibility: when you're flexible you go with the flow & are able to adapt to changing circumstances around you, embracing change & thriving within it
The ability to be able to perform miracles, for example, requires extreme flexibility: you must adapt to change on a massive scale, and be able to INSTANTLY accept that change, even holding it in the face of absolute doubt in 'reality'
Rigid
Rigid is an easily understandable contrast to flexibility - where flexible behavior enables you to bend without breaking, rigidity means that too much pressure will make you snap
A rigid person is someone who will not change their point of view, or budge from a way of being, doing or thinking
Forgiving
Forgiveness is about letting go of thoughts &emotions that plague you (see resentment)
When you let go those thoughts, you gain back time & energy to invest in yourself & what you want to achieve
Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from the perpetual reminder of the historical event or person (it's ALWAYS history, because it isn't happening RIGHT NOW)
So a forgiving person is someone who does not allow themselves to dwell on stuff from the past, who accepts that those things & people are over & gone, and who moves forward with life as it exists now, pulling all their energy & focus into the now moment
Resenting
When you resent someone, or hold any negative sentiment towards them, what you'll eventually come to realize is that the entire process of resentment takes place inside your own head - you spend time &, sometimes daily, thinking about this person, what they did to you, how much it hurt you, etc, etc
That's the power that resentment & emotions like that hold over you - the time it takes up in your life to continue doing that on a daily basis
A resentful person is therefore someone who holds onto issues from the past, constantly recalling & remembering them , dwelling & lingering on them, and choosing to relive the emotional pain & trauma on a regular basis, so that it stays fresh in their mind, and a priority for them to deal with... ever noticed how resentful people love to complain about their list of issues? they have to, because they want to keep them top of mind
Free
Something that is free is allowed to develop organically & naturally, free of external interference, and according to the laws of free will
If a jungle or wood is free, a garden is regulated
In a free or natural environment, local or indigenous species will automatically grow, which parallels nicely to how we pick up our culture from our environment - you pick up & develop according to what is naturally occurring around you
Regulated
A regulated person, situation or process is one that is subject to rules that aim to prevent certain behaviors & directions from being pursued: 'rules & regulations'
A garden entered into a garden competition may be even more 'regulated' as it has to meet certain predetermined standards, such as size, use of plants, products used, etc
Controlling personalities often like to implement their need to control through regulations - think of that micromanaging supervisor you used to work for
Generous
To be generous is to freely share & give of what you have, no matter how small or large that resource pool may be
A generous person will go out of their way to make you feel welcomed & like you have the right to be present, but the degree of comfort you feel will be determined by how comfortable & deserving you feel
A generous boss is gregarious & forgiving, within reason
Petty
A petty person or attitude conversely, can be explained by the host that makes you feel uncomfortable about everything - always rushing around cleaning up, taking bowls away, focusing too much on details - so much so that you feel uncomfortable for creating so much work for them
A petty boss will micromanage & try to control every detail of every thing
Gentle
To be gentle is to be soft & tender in your approach, treating people with kid gloves & catering foremost to the idea that you do not want to hurt or offend their egos or sensibilities
Cotton & other soft materials are gentle, while sandpaper or sacking material is rough, coarse & abrasive
Rough
To be rough in your approach is to rush in without forethought, acting as you see fit, often without consideration that others even matter
A gentle person will make someone comfortable, while a rough person often expects everyone to be comfortable with their coarseness
Gifted
A person who is gifted, is usually considered to be 'naturally' so, so in this way there is an element of luck involved as well
This once-off, at-birth luck enables the person the to create success each time, with most or all of what they encounter, in general, or in their area of talent
Lucky
While a gifted person is able to create success, lucky is a situation to situation occurrence, and requires fate, or divine intervention, to interfere each time
The ability to generate the luck needed is entirely outside the person's control, and the gift cannot be consciously exercised or directed to specific ends
Giving
A giving person is someone who freely extends themselves, their resources and/or time to others, placing equal importance on others & themselves, or giving others greater priority
A giving person would host lunch & probably cover the costs
Taking
Someone who expresses an attitude of taking aims to interrupt the flow of resources, time, or effort, diverting them to flow for their own personal gain
A taking person would pitch up to eat lunch without remembering to bring the thing they were supposed to bring
Global
To take a global view of a situation is to look at all the elements impacted, and how it fits into the big picture
In practical application, a global decision would be deciding that you are going to study, or that you are going to get married
Local
When you look at something locally, you zero in on a specific aspect or element within the whole, viewing it in isolation
To continue our practical example, this would deciding exactly what the course is you're going to study, or setting a date & picking a venue for your wedding
Gracious
A gracious person is almost blessed with the warmth & appeal that we would imagine a divine being to have - grace
There is a mystical quality about them, that makes them appealing & you want to approach them
Gracious behavior is often paired with the idea of treating everyone you encounter equally, regardless of discriminating factors, including social standing
Decorous
The word decorous has its roots in 'decorum', which basically means protocol & regulation; conducting oneself with decorum, or according to the 'rules'
A gracious host is warm & welcoming, but a decorous host would do only what is necessary to be seen as doing their duties - their role is almost 'decorative' (another root?)
Decorous behavior would see people treating others 'in line with', or 'as befits', their social class
Grateful
When you're grateful, you feel thankful for, and appreciative towards, someone or something, usually for support, help, assistance or some kind of positive intervention, usually that benefits you or someone that interests you
The distinguishing factor here is that you feel thankful of your own accord, and want to offer thanks or repay the debt
Indebted
When you're indebted, it's also often because you've received help, assistance or support in some way, but now you feel like you are in the debt of the person who offered
The distinguishing factor here is that you feel obligated to be thankful, like you HAVE to be thankful, and are expected to keep repeatedly showing that thanks - usually way beyond the lifespan of the appreciation
Harmonious
When an environment or process is harmonious, all the parts work together seamlessly to create a well-functioning whole
A harmonious person usually fits into an environment or group easily, and has the added benefit of being able to bring other parties or elements into the perfectly functioning whole
So a harmonious person not only acts harmoniously, but usually displays the characteristic of being able to create harmony
Disruptive
When something is disruptive, it upsets the natural flow of the process & prevents the parts from working well together
A disruptive person is someone who upsets the people and/or energy in an environment or group, even if that system operated flawlessly previously
A hallmark of a disruptive energy is that the sense of discontent & friction often disappears when they leave the room, the way so many offices brighten up when the 'bad' boss walks out
Healing
If something is healing it is getting better or has the ability to make something get or feel better
A healing person is someone who helps others heal to by being around them, and/or is good at healing themselves
Irritating
If something is irritating, it chafes you, causing mental, emotional or physical discomfort & tension
An irritating person is someone who causes that kind of tension reaction when you spend time with them, either for you personally, or for others in general
the irritation factor can range from energetic presence, to mannerisms, appearance, personality, characteristics, and so much more - or may be nothing specific in particular
Helpful
When something is considered helpful, it is because it offers support, makes a task easier or lightens the load of another
It's a difficult measure though, because what people consider helpful vs. meddling will depend on their particular mirrors & belief systems - what is helpful to one is meddling to another
A good measure to use here is to ask yourself if the help you are offering is in line with the recipient's free will choice - if it is, then it is helpful; meddling would be taking away the person's free will choice
Meddling
When something or someone is considered meddling, it is because they 'help' in a way that creates frustrations for the recipients & people involved
In many cases, these people are often also not directly involved or included in the situation, and are 'assisting' so that they can find out what is going on, or often because they want to make the issue about them, as a form of attention seeking
In our free will choice example, you can further clarify by looking at whether you like the solution or not - even if you don't like the way things are going or the decision made, if you can support it, you're helping; if you're trying to get it to go your way because you don't agree with the direction, then you're meddling
Holistic
When you take a holistic view of something, you look at everything involved in it - it's the difference between sitting down to plan a wedding, or ensuring that you put equal attention into per-marriage counseling, spending time together, managing finances so that you don't spend everything on the wedding, planning for after the wedding, and setting up structures to support the marriage
A holistic approach considers all the factors influencing the situation, including subtle & secondary elements
Analytic
An analytic approach, on the other hand, would drill down into the details of a specific part of say, just the wedding plan, like the budget
A holistic view of the wedding itself would include guest's experience, the bride & groom's dreams, family requirements, contingencies, etc, while the analytic approach would zero in one only reducing line items on the budget to save costs
Analytic is an extremely detail-oriented point of view, focused only a specific aspect at a time, an aspect that is 'analyzed'
Honest
An honest person is someone who deals in truth, aiming to speak truly, share honest information, and in many cases, walk their talk
Truly honest behavior would require no laws or legal system in order to regulate it
Legal
Because of the lack of honesty, and trustworthiness, in our society, we need laws to govern and manage how people deal with each other
To reach the point of legal intervention, you have usually reached a point where communication has irrevocably broken down
Honoring
When you honor someone or something, you hold a special place for it, in a part of your life
the item is important, and given a place of importance, but it is not unbalanced, or takes over the person's entire life
In the case of death, the deceased will be remembered, but not to a point of disrupting the present status quo
Enshrining
Enshrining, on the other hand, is honoring taken to an extreme level
A handy modern day example, is parents who have lost children, where they turn the child's bedroom into a shrine, treating it with sacred honor, because they are unable to let go
The distinguishing factor here is the inability to let go
Humble
To be humble is to be modest & unassuming about one's abilities & talents
Humility is usually associated with those with great ability or potential, and is assigned because these people don't display perceived 'arrogance' with that ability
An additional meaning of 'humble' is to reduce a notch in importance, usually self-importance; a person is humbled through their challenges or losses, i.e. brought down a peg
Diffident
Diffidence differs from humble, in that the diffident person is truly doubtful of their abilities & skill level, and the lack of confidence stems from a genuine lack of self worth, knowledge or experience
A humble person will be able to do the job, but won't make a big deal about it; a diffident person can't do the job, and you'll be in no doubt of their lack of ability
Humorous
To be humorous is to be lighthearted in your approach to stuff, inserting joy, laughter, comedy & a funny perspective into a situation in order to obtain, or retain, a positive sentiment, hope & perspective
Humor can be beautifully used to diffuse the tension, stress, and strain of a situation, enabling you to survive even the most difficult of stages or transitions
Sombre
An extreme contrast of being humorous, sombre people are dull, dreary, serious, and inclined towards treating everything as if it is of critical importance
The Goth/Emo culture is a great representation of the sombre mentality - they are dark, dreary, negative, inclined to look for the worst, judgmental & critical, in many cases
Impartial
An impartial person will look at all the sides of a situation, viewing the situation & players in it with equal consideration, and not allowing any former allegiances or ties to sway them, if these even exist
An impartial person is someone who is not emotionally involved in the situation, affected by the outcome, or worried about the outcome
Impartiality is well expressed by the concept of 'having no skin in the game' - the person's decisions will not be swayed by the outcome in any way
A lack of impartiality that is coming more and more to the fore is doctors and kickbacks - are doctors prescribing because the medicine is needed, or because the pharma companies give them kickbacks?
Righteous
In context of this duality, a righteous person is someone who is strongly & completely aligned with one of the sides of this argument, believing firmly in that side's view & perspective, and (often blindly) agreeing with the arguments presented by that party, even if they can be shown to be illogical or true
A second hallmark of righteousness is that the person additionally believes that their viewpoint is not only superior to any other viewpoint, but to a markedly superior to a specific viewpoint in particular, which they label and deem as 'wrong & bad', while theirs is 'right & good'
Ingenious
An ingenious idea is one that solves a problem so well & perfectly, that it seems like the most perfectly obvious solution to the challenge once you see it
An ingenious person is someone who is full of ingenious ideas, able to see solutions in a& for almost everything; often simple & easy solutions that always seem to perfectly tackle the challenge
Scheming
A scheming person, while often gifted with an ability to see & create solutions, will only usually focus on aspects that suit or serve their own particular needs or ends
Where ingenious will solve the problem for many, scheming will only solve problems that are self-serving in their outcome
Inspired
An inspired idea is brilliant in it's application, and almost seems to come from an external source it is so perfect
An inspired person is someone who can generate these kind of ideas, or has been inspired to a level of great passion (and usually action) by a great idea
Mundane
A mundane idea is a boring, run-of-the-mill idea, that basically anyone could come up with - and anyone would come up with if faced with that particular challenge
A mundane person is equally dull & boring, very ordinary, and not at all memorable, generating similarly commonplace ideas
Intentional
When you act intentionally, you are acting with free will choice, on purpose, and with a specific purpose or aim in mind
To act intentionally is to have an intention - a reason why you're doing this; think 'setting your intentions' or 'having clear intentions'
Calculating
Calculating behavior is often also intentional, but in this case, the intention is often self-serving, and/or designed to harm someone else, or benefit the self
When someone is calculating, they will go out of their way to manipulate people, or a situation, in order to steer it in a particular direction that suits their own ends
Intuitive
When you operate from an intuitive level, you make decisions & act from a more instinctive level, making bigger picture decisions that don't drill as far down into details
The application of intuitive, in contrast to the duality of the pattern here, is that 'the rules' would be interpreted much more broadly, as opposed to followed to the letter
Literal
Literal, for all intents & purposes, means 'exactly as it is written'
So a literal person would take exactly a word you say at face value, without holistically looking the intent of the entire argument presented
A literal person is the kind of person who will follow the rules 'exactly' as they are presented, even if a variation would make sense or is called for
Inventive
When you're inventive, you're good at finding new ways to apply existing technologies & ideas, or finding new solutions, usually cost-effective & efficient, to problems that exist
The root of the word is the same as inventor, which is the archetype that bests represents this energy; think 'Doc Emmett Brown' in Back to the Future, with his crazy ideas that seem to come out of nowhere, and his machine for every purpose
Prosaic
A prosaic approach lacks originality on the other hand, and the ideas presented are lackluster, unoriginal, commonplace & ordinary
If an inventor is inventive, then a typical engineer would be a prosaic inventor... the inventor creates new technologies & envisions new worlds & possibilities, but the engineer takes the safer road and works with already known elements, more comfortable fixing your toaster than building a time machine
Inviting
An inviting energy draws you in: you notice it of your own accord & are drawn towards it, feeling like you want to enter it by choice
Urging
Conversely, when someone is urging you towards something, you feel pressed, compelled, pushed & forced towards it, usually against your own free will choice
Involved
When someone is involved, they are an active & engaged participant in the environment, situation, task or relationship, but it is only a part of their life
Obsessed
When someone is obsessed, the area of interest becomes the primary focus of their life - it's all they want to think, talk & hear about
Joyful
Joyful is a state of being happy & cheerful, and expressing positive, uplifting sentiment, usually not dependent on the environment or circumstances the person finds themselves in: they can be in the worst circumstances & still experience a state of joy
Pleasurable
Pleasurable relates directly to the environment or situation you find yourself in usually - you have a pleasurable experience, or experience pleasure; you're not considered a pleasurable person
Just
A just situation is one that is fair, or in which fair justice has been served, so a convict rightfully captured for a crime & serving a sentence
Punitive
A punitive result, conversely, is one in which the person is punished for something, as opposed to justice being served; in law they speak of 'punitive damages', which literally means 'to punish for the damages caused'
Kind
Someone or something who is considered kind, is caring, compassionate, and usually easy to handle or be around
If the day is kind to you, things go well, are easy & tend to go your way
Cruel
A cruel person, on the other hand, is one that deliberately goes out of their way to hurt, harm, or upset you, often taking pleasure in your pain & discomfort
Leading
When you lead someone, you go first, put yourself in danger first, and show those following you which way to go, making yourself answerable to people, and responsible for their well-being
Again, the distinguishing factor in this duality set is free will - a leader is followed by the choice of those following them
Coercing
When you are coerced into following someone, you are threatened, cajoled, forced, manipulated, blackmailed, etc, into following the person
Seductive tactics may also be employed to lure you into the fold or a certain direction
Liberating
If something is liberating it is freeing - it frees you from a previous restriction that held you back in some way, enabling you to move forward in a different direction in life
Slaves were 'liberated' when they were freed from their owners; prisoners of war are similarly 'liberated' from prison
Restricting
In contrast, a restriction places a limitation on you that restricts your behaviors, actions, or speech, such as school rules, or a dress code
An example of a restricting personality would be someone controlling, who tries to place limitations on what you can do
Long-term
When you are working towards something long-term, you are willing to invest a (significant) period of time, energy, money & resources into the investment before seeing any results from it
A great example of long-term is investing in your studies & gaining a degree - the time spent can give you a foot up in the business world as you embark on your career, with university & college graduates tending to earn more for starting salaries, for example
Immediate
Immediate results are what we commonly refer to as 'instant gratification' nowadays - wanting results that turn around immediately, for minimal effort
To continue our example in long-term, this is opening a business & expecting it to yield results quickly, or wanting an MD job straight out of high school
Loyal
When someone is loyal to a person, group or cause, he or she is aligned to that energy, and stays true to those principles, even if there is no one around to see it
As an example, a loyal man will take his manly duties seriously, stay faithful to his wife & do right by his children for example, knowing that his actions impact those around him
Chauvinistic
Chauvinistic behavior, on the other hand, takes it to another level, with the idea that the body the person is aligned to is far superior to anything that can paralleled against it
A male chauvinist, however, believes in the superiority of males over females, and does not believe that he has to take any action to illustrate his superiority - he is superior by dint of birth, as are all males, and this gives him the right to conduct himself as he pleases
Merciful
A merciful response, or person, would look at a situation that had a wrongdoing, acknowledge the wrongdoing, and then offer mercy, as in forgiveness & compassion, perhaps with an opportunity to make up for the wrongdoing
Importantly the wrongdoing would be acknowledged, and mercy would be offered in spite of the wrongdoing taking place
The merciful boss would say, 'okay I understand you made a mistake, and now we have to fix it - but make sure this doesn't happen again', and would extend that magnanimous to all the staff in the office, within reason
Permissive
A permissive person however, would allow an extreme level of wrongdoing, usually repeatedly, without pointing it out, or doing anything to correct it
Where the merciful person acknowledges that something wrong was done, the permissive person just doesn't even look at it, or if they do, turns a blind eye, usually as a result of special favor towards the party doing wrong
The permissive boss would allow someone, or a group, to get away with murder basically, but usually will not extend that to other persons who do not curry as much favor
Modest
A modest person, situation or place is unassuming, practical, not fancy, but good enough to get the job done... it may not be the best couch, but you can sit on it & rest
Haughty
A haughty person, in contrast, is one who believes they are better than the people or situation they find themselves dealing with, assuming an superiority, and often making those around them feel uncomfortable, or trying to make them feel inferior
Natural
Something natural has been allowed to develop according to standards determined by nature, so a (genetically unmodified) apple seed growing into a tree
The apples from that tree would also be considered to be natural
Natural literally means 'as it appears in nature', or 'according to its original, instinctive & basic nature'; nature being the root of the word
A natural person is one who is true to their nature, accepting themselves as they are
Artificial
If however, you planted a genetically modified (GMO) apple seed, that would be unnatural - as would any kind of farming or agricultural practice, as it forces the apple trees to behave in a certain way, grow in a certain spot, and manages & controls the elements that that apple tree is exposed to, in order to ensure quality 'produce'
Similarly, if you took that apple and made it into juice or baby food, that too would be artificial or 'produced'
An artificial person would put on a pretense, fro example, or may have plastic surgery or weight train & exercise in order to force a certain body shape
Noble
A noble person is someone who is usually of a higher social standing, but conducts themselves with the presence of mind of their role, and with cognizance of the responsibility that is attributed to their station in life
Queen Elizabeth is very noble in her conduct of the role of monarch, taking care to always put her best foot forward & conduct herself as befits what people expect of her, without being too full of herself, or 'pompous'
Pompous
A pompous person on the other hand, whether they are superior on some way or not, is someone who conducts themselves with an attitude of being better than everyone around them
In an extreme example, Sadam Hussein or Muammar Gaddafi were pompous - convinced of their own superiority & treating everyone around them as less-than (inferior), as a result
Nurturing
When someone or something is nurturing, it encourages the elements around it to grow
A gardener nurtures a garden, a mother nurtures her baby, and a nurse nurtures her patients
Draining
Conversely, something or someone draining will deplete the resources that the person or element needs in order to grow & flourish; the energy is sucked out or 'drained', often leaving you feeling exhausted, without energy & demotivated
Observant
When you are observant, you will notice things around you, but as a matter of course of your normal day-to-day activities, noticing things in general
When you're observant, you notice something is wrong because it seems out of place
Suspicious
Suspicion is the extreme observation of a specific person or element, usually because you want to find fault or identify wrongdoing
When you're suspicious, you notice something is wrong because you were watching like a hawk for anything that raised a red flag
Ironically, this also often gives you tunnel vision blindness to noticing other things, e.g. you're so busy watching your husband because you think he's cheating that you don't notice a problem your friend is having
Open
An open person will freely share information, and is most likely to get themselves in trouble for sharing too much, saying the wrong thing, or giving away a secret that they weren't supposed to
Secretive
A secretive person however, is guarded about the information they share, who they share it with , and what people know - they're the person who is likely to get angry at the open type for blabbing what was supposed to be a 'secret'
Optimistic
An optimistic person or situation, on the other hand, is one in which hope, and usually positive sentiment about current & future plans, can be found
Optimism is nicely encapsulated in the idea of a 'glass-half-full type of person'
Pessimistic
On the contrary, a pessimistic person will only have negative things to say, offering criticism & pointing out the problems
To extend our illustration, this would be a glass-(half-)empty approach & mindset
Orderly
An orderly environment, situation, person, process, etc, is one that is neat & organized: things are 'in order'; all the 'ducks are in a row'
An orderly person will do things with a structured & methodical approach
Confused
On the other side of orderly, you have confused, where order is replaced with chaos
If an organized filing cabinet is orderly, then the infamous 'file 13', or a random stack of papers on a desk, is confused
A confused person will show no order or reason in their actions or words, and will appear 'confusing' when you look at them
Outgoing
Someone who is outgoing is usually social, comfortable with approaching & talking to people, and is confident & engaging in most situations
Outgoing people often are energized by social contact, making them extroverts
You're most likely to get irritated by an outgoing person if they forget to include you, or if you can't get them to sit still
Reserved
Reserved personalities, on the flipside, tend to keep to themselves, both in terms of going out, and when it comes to speaking up when they are out
A reserved, or withheld person, may come across as distant, aloof & even secretive, or suspicious
Patient
Patience is the ability to allow time to pass while waiting for a goal or desire, without getting frustrated or annoyed that you have to wait for time to pass, and without getting annoyed that you have not achieved it yet
A patient person may have a hobby, but will allow it to fall into the natural order of life, i.e. when they have time to pursue it, as opposed to making time on a daily basis
Avid
An avid person is someone who cannot sit still and allow the time to pass - they dedicate every moment to the achievement of the goal, 'avidly pursuing' it, with new approaches, actions, behaviors & tasks, never allowing other elements to get in the way
Many hobbyists in areas like the comic con genres could be considered avid, with a lifestyle-level dedication to their hobby or 'passion'
Patriotic
A patriotic person is loyal to their country, and aligns themselves to the ideals & vision of the country they are from, within reason
Nationalistic
A nationalistic mindset, however, will see the person blindly follow the rules of their nation, even when those don't make sense, out of a mistaken belief in the superiority of that nation over other nations
In this context, a nation may be a religion, creed, culture, race or ethnicity, e.g. white supremacy
Peaceful
Th real measure of peace is 'what is your inner voice doing?'
If your inner voice is still & restful after an interaction, and you're not left endlessly running the event over & over in your mind, then you are at 'peace'
Belligerent
When you walk away from a situation or person or event, and your mind is going wild with all your responses, replaying the saga over & over, with a tone & suggestion that 'I was right', or 'I'll show you', then you're being belligerent - you don't want to budge from your point of view, even if that view is not justified
Polite
A polite person will offer you the courtesy that is expected within the realms of normal life, making an effort to not go to places that will upset you
Obsequious
An obsequious person on the other hand, will wait on you hand & foot, acting almost as your servant or slave, often making you feel very uncomfortable
Powerful
Something or someone that is powerful has the ability to effect or influence an element, even if that power is not exercised
Power is usually exercised in alignment with a sense of responsibility for the consequences of the actions
Because the powerful person can influence change to take place, they often achieve the free will 'buy in' of interested parties, who become willing participants
Forceful
A forceful person, conversely, may not have power over people, but may have the ability to force their hand in a situation, like a controlling boss where tasks are performed grudgingly & out of fear of losing your job
A forceful person will use violence, hostility, anger, control & fear to 'make' someone go in a specific direction or do something, against their will, and with resistance
Praising
When you you're praising, you acknowledge the apparent positive qualities of someone or something, extolling its virtues, which are true & can be verified by another party
Flattering
When you flatter someone, you sing their praises in an excessive way, often praising characteristics that they don't actually have, usually with the purpose of winning their favor & getting into their good graces, or to manipulate them into feeling comfortable for more devious ends, such as fraud or a con
Principled
A principled person will conduct themselves according a fixed internal moral & ethical code, a code that won't deviate according to circumstance or the people in the situation, because it is internally defined
Expedient
In contrast, when you act expediently, it is with the intention of achieving the aim in the minimum amount of time, even if that means cutting corners or breaking the rules; profit trumps principles in this regard
Privileged
A privileged person has had access to better opportunities, and/or the finer things in life
Cognizant that the morphic field is about words & language, and how we use them to give & receive (love, ideas, knowledge, affection, etc), it is worth noting the contemporary trend of terms like 'white privilege' and 'male privilege'
The resonance of the energy of a word in the field is created by the alignment of thoughts within the field, so words in the power patterns list will change & evolve over time
An example of this is an idea like religion or church - a few centuries back, churches were so revered you could claim sanctuary in them, and people would stop chasing you at the church walls; now that role is exclusively reserved for the right of governments, and the church is no longer really seen as a 'power player'. In fact churchgoers may be actively ridiculed in secular society nowadays, where non-churchgoers would have been shunned in times gone by
Entitled
When you look at terms like 'white privilege' & 'male privilege', what they're really referring to is what this list would define as entitlement: the belief that you are automatically worthy of access to a place, experience, object, person, by right of association or birth
Entitlement means you believe you have right of access, a right to be somewhere, a right to resources, as you are now, without having to put in any extra effort to earn it or be worthy of it
Many of our family issues and societal complaints are driven by a sense of entitlement: the expectation that something should happen in a certain way, which causes discontent when it doesn't play out that way; if there was no expectation, the disappointment would not take place in the first place
This is why releasing expectations is such a powerful tool - when you let go of the expectation, you learn to see what you already have
Prolific
If someone or something is considered prolific, it means they produce a lot (of whatever); so a writer that generates a lot of books or articles would be considered to be prolific, or to be a prolific writer
One important distinguishing factor here is that the volume of product does not adversely impact the quality of the final output
Barren
In context of prolific, barren means unproductive, or unable to produce
In common parlance, an infertile woman is referred to as 'barren'
A writer that has writer's block could also be considered to be barren, although you're not likely to hear that term used
Purposeful
When someone is purposeful, they are driven by a purpose, working towards a purpose, or tend to approach most, or all, of what they do, with purpose, intention & focus
A good statement for purpose is 'I will achieve', 'I will do' or 'I will create'; this presupposes that you will have to work towards it
Desirous
To be desirous however, is to be purposeful with the intention of a specific aim or desire that you want to achieve
Here, the statement becomes 'I want to have', and the problem is that the purpose is directed only towards the desire & cannot be applied to any other part of life
Receiving
When you receive something, you willingly accept something that is willingly given to you
When you have a receiving nature, you are welcoming & warm, inviting people to enter your space by free will choice
Grasping
Grasping is holding onto something, usually that is being taken away from me, that you've lost, or that you no longer have right of access to
Someone with a grasping nature can otherwise be described as clingy, or possessive, making you feel emotionally uncomfortable about being out of their line of sight
Releasing
Releasing speaks to your ability to 'surrender to' or 'let go of'
Somebody who expresses an attitude of releasing, is able to go with the flow, move past & forgive situations
Tenacious
Tenacity speaks to the ability to hold on when things are not going as expected or wanted
Tenacious people are known for hanging in there well beyond the point when most people would have given up; 'like a dog with a bone'
Reliant
To be reliant on something, is to be dependent on it, but only to a degree
A business that is reliant on a client's business will experience a setback if they lose that client, but will be able to bounce back from it
Dependent
To be dependent on something is to be entirely reliant on it
When is a business is dependent on a client, their entire income comes from that client, and the business will likely fold without that business flow continuing
Requesting
Requesting is to ask ask someone to give you something, or access to something, by their free will choice
Demanding
Conversely, to demand is to require a person to give you that right of access, usually against their free will choice
Respectful
To be respectful is to afford people the type of treatment that befits their station in life, or to 'show the respect due' to a person, place or situation
A respectful person is someone who shows respect accordingly, and often treats everyone with decency, courtesy & equality, regardless of their station in life, or the respect naturally commanded by that station
Demeaning
To demean is to reduce, or make to feel inferior, or to show as inferior
A demeaning comment may disparage someone, or break them down, or reduce their character in the eye's of others
A demeaning task is one that reduces & humbles a person, e.g. having to take a menial job after bankruptcy would be considered demeaning, or below a person's station
Responsible
A responsible takes on the burden of being answerable for someone or something, or in general in their life
In the case of 'everybody thought that somebody should do it, but nobody did it', the responsible person is the one who finally got up & got it done
Guilty
Where responsibility sees you take the onus & initiative, guilt sees you take the blame, and happens in retrospect; you only feel guilty after the fact, usually when you can't do anything about it
Satisfied
To be satisfied is to have had enough in order to slake a desire, thirst or similar
If you eat until you are satisfied, then your hunger has abated, but you're not about to pop because you're so full
Sated
To be sated on the other hand, is to have had so much that you probably cannot take anymore, so that the desire in question is fulfilled to a point where it no longer exists
As an example, if you eat until you are sated, you can't take another bite; you're saturated with food
Selective
When you are selective, you are choosy about who is allowed access to the person, situation, object or place, usually according to a set of criteria that must be met
Exclusive
Exclusivity on the other hand, is to leave out based on certain criteria; it's selectivity to the extreme, almost discrimination
Serene
Someone who is serene is calm & peaceful, able to hold their center of balance in most situations, and are not easily unsettled or upset
Dull
While still calm & grounded, dull people take it to the extreme, being so safe and still as to be boring
Serving
When you do something with a serving attitude, it is in service to someone, something or a purpose, hoping to propel that element forward in some way, and meeting its needs
Ambitious
Ambition, conversely, is pursuing the element for the sake of success, with success, and often fame, celebrity, wealth & popularity, the goal, and not the betterment of the aspect
Sharing
A sharing person gives freely of what they have, whether that is time, resources, energy, or more
Hoarding
When you hoard, you stockpile & store an unnecessary amount - way in excess of what you need or could possibly use on your own
Significant
When someone or something is significant, it is noteworthy in its level of importance
When something makes a significant impression, for example, it means that you don't, or can't, forget it
Important
When something is important, it is noteworthy to a lesser degree, and if the two elements were contrasted, the significant item would eclipse the important one in worth or allure
Sober
To be sober is to be clear and level headed, free of influences that could cloud the thinking
Negatively aspected, sober people are often considered to be dull & boring
Intoxicated
When you are intoxicated, your senses, clarity & thinking have been clouded by some external influence
A great contemporary example are people who are considered 'drunk on love' or 'high on success'
Spontaneous
To be spontaneous is to embrace opportunities that arise, making calculated decisions to have adventures after weighing the risks
Impulsive
To be impulsive is to be spontaneous to an extreme degree, regularly taking risks, most often without considering the potential consequences
Spiritual
A spiritual person is one who places higher value on spiritual values, and on the subtle & intangible
Materialistic
A materialistic person, on the flipside, places a much higher value on things of the corporeal, or physical, world, valuing the tangible above the subtle
Steadfast
A steadfast person is a 'good man in a storm'; someone you can rely on & trust in pretty much any situation
Faltering
A faltering person, on the other hand, is someone whose character changes from situation to situation, someone who cannot be relied upon or trusted
Striving
When you strive towards something, you are diligently moving towards, putting your effort, time & resources into achieving your aim, always moving ever closer to it
Struggling
Struggling is battling to holding into something, on the other hand, fighting against losing control or grip on the item
Surrendering
To adopt an attitude of surrender is to 'go with the flow' & 'roll with the punches' that life delivers, accepting what is happening without resistance, anger or frustration
Worrying
Worrying
Tender
When someone is tender, they are soft, kind, warm & approachable usually, gentle in nature, handling situations & people softly & with a gentle touch
Hard
On the opposite end of the spectrum, to be hard is to be rough & run roughshod over people or items in the situation in question
Thoughtful
When someone is thoughtful they consider others & their interests, treating them with compassion, and catering to their perspectives
Thoughtful people are often people who take the time to make each individual feel special & seen
Pedantic
A pedantic person varies by taking the attention to detail to an extreme degree, focusing on tiny details to the exclusion of seeing the big picture
If thoughtful would be buying everyone a personalized gift; pedantic would be making sure those gifts cost the same, down to the cent
Thrifty
A thrifty person is someone who can make money & resources stretch, using them wisely, to live a good life, or have a good experience, without breaking the bank
Cheap
A cheap person is equally focused on the final cost of the item, but with them the cost will be the defining factor
If a thrifty person will make their dollar stretch to include quality, a cheap person will zero in on the lowest price, ignoring all other factors; 'money talks' with a cheap attitude
Timeless
When someone or something is timeless, their energy & aura have an appeal that extends across the span of time
The quality of intelligence is timeless, as it useful in every age - the act of knowing a lot about sports statistics is faddish, as the need for that knowledge will fall away in a few years from now
Faddish
Faddish concepts & ideas are those that are limited to a specific time in history, and have a natural expiry date, after which they are no longer relevant
In a larger sense of history, spirituality is timeless, while alignment to a specific religion is faddish
Tolerant
When someone is tolerant, they are accepting, to a lesser or greater degree, of others & other ideas, even if it only to grudgingly accept their presence
Prejudiced
On the contrary, a prejudiced person has determined certain characteristics that they will not tolerate, or be around, and will not deviate from that mindset
Tractable
When someone is tractable, you generally get along with them easily, like them, enjoy being around them, and find them easy to work alongside or cooperate with
Contrary
A contrary person however, is someone that is difficult to work with - always causing problems, criticizing, unsettling people, creating drama, or creating situations that require everyone to put their focus & attention on them
Trusting
When you are trusting, you are open to the idea that the person you are with is worthy of trust, but you will pay attention to, and heed, warning or danger signs
Gullible
A gullible person, on the other hand, is someone who will not ignore obvious signs, but may not even know what kind of signs to look out for, as gullibility & naiveté are regular bedfellows
Truthful
When something is truthful, it presents an honest & accurate description of the person, item or situation, without embellishment or omission
If the facts of the account were to be validated, they would be found to be in accordance with reality as the even unfolded
False
Falsehood differs in that it presents a partial or inaccurate account of the person, situation or item, usually with the aim of presenting it from a particular, and biased, perspective
Unifying
When someone has a unifying energy, they bring people & elements together, to work together as a functioning whole, as opposed to individuated parts, performing separate functions
'The whole is greater than the sum of its parts' is a great way to understand the benefits of unification
Dividing
When someone or something is divisive, they drive people & elements apart, causing them to operate in isolated silos, focused only on their area of focus
Unselfish
Someone who is unselfish is a person who will not withhold of what they have, sharing if necessary, or by free will choice, wanting to be charitable or generous
Selfish
A selfish person, on the other hand, is someone who will keep what they have strictly for themselves, not wanting to share what they have freely, even if others are in need, wanting to cater to their own current & future needs
Valuing
When you value someone or something, you place importance on it, offering it special favor or a place of honor
The idea of value is aligned to the concept of cherishing, or taking special care of something, which extends to nurturing it in order to ensure its longevity
Exploitative
Conversely, an exploitative approach would see the element being used to the point of exhaustion, in order to attain (usually monetary) value from it
An exploitative approach would see very little care placed to preserve the sustainability or well-being of the person or element being targeted
Virtuous
A virtuous person is one who conducts their life by a moral and ethical code
The concept of chaste, or to not have sexual intention or a sexual nature, especially not to engage in premarital or extramarital sex, is often associated with being virtuous
Celebrated
A celebrated person on the other hand, is someone who is widely known & accepted by the people of the day, regardless of their morals, principles or ethical code
Warm
Someone who is warm is inviting, easy to be around, and usually pleasant & cheerful in their demeanor
Feverish
A feverish person, on the other hand, is too-excitable, energetic to a point of frenzy, and possibly even obsessive or manic in their approach


  Positive & Negative Aspects of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns

This list is a way to further unpack the power patterns, but is a little different, in that we show the positive and negative aspects of each power pattern by utilizing examples & analogy.

Every energy is neutral effectively, and it's up to you how you want or choose to express it.

To use an extreme example, three people encounter the energy of pedophilia - one goes on to hurt children, another becomes an children's advocate, and the third gets involved in rehabilitating offenders.

Same energy, expressed in three different ways, with three different results.

It was not the energy that was effectively good or bad therefore, it was the way that people chose to play it out that made it good or bad - the actions that they took that were driven by the energy were therefore either 'good' or 'bad'.

HIGH LOW
Abundant
Positive: an abundance of goodwill can open doors & pave the way for diplomatic solutions to difficult issues
Negative: an abundance of feedback (read criticism) can leave people feeling downhearted
Excessive
Positive: excessive care is take with a quality control process, ensuring that every item produced meets the most strongest standards, as advertised
Negative: excessive cleaning can lead to killing off healthy & unhealthy bacteria, leaving you more prone to illness instead of less
Admitting
Positive: admitting a wrongdoing & for forgiveness, or trying to make amends
Negative: revealing a secret that you know will hurt someone by its revelation, or take away their free will
Denying
Positive: denying access to someone who has truly hurt you in the past, for example, a physically or sexually abusive partner
Negative: denying your emotions, or warning signs that you see
Aesthetic
Positive: artfully applying make up in order to enhance & frame features
Negative: deliberately manipulating the tone of a space in order to generate a desired emotional response, usually for financial gain, or to present a false front or mask
Artsy
Positive: over the top stimulation & chaos that promotes artistic & creative inspiration
Negative: garish, almost clown-like make up that transforms people into cartoon or anime characters
Agreeable
Positive: a positive, warm & friendly person that people enjoy collaborating with
Negative: a pushover who agrees with everyone they are with, coming across as hypocritical, two-faced or flaky, because they will take opposing stances in order to curry favor with the present company
Condescending
Positive: executed correctly, a condescending attitude can pull someone out of their own similarly arrogant stance
Negative: condescension can break down confidence, worth & trust, not in only in the self, but among group members, establishing a hierarchy within a group, and/or creating division & factions
Allowing
Positive: to give permission to exercise freedom, within the boundaries of what is acceptable & appropriate
Negative: giving too much freedom, and not applying the brakes when things get out of control
Controlling
Positive: to guide & direct, preventing potential risks & harm, and steering towards success
Negative: to limit the movement, behavior, actions and/or words of someone or something, to a degree where permission is required for anything undertaken, often because the object of the control begins to doubt their every move
Appreciative
Positive: give appropriate thanks, in line with the size of the boon received
Negative: to go overboard with thanks, making way too much of a big deal of the gift or aid provided, often making the giver feel uncomfortable, and/or hesitant to assist you again
Envious
Positive: to use the desire that is ignited in you to propel you forward to achieve that, or similar, for yourself
Negative: going out of your way to damage someone else's property because don't want them to have it
Approving
Positive: offering support & validation that empowers people to further themselves or their cause
Negative: allowing clearly unethical, illegal, and/or delinquent behavior because of special favor
Critical
Positive: pointing ought critical faults or errors that could make something a bad investment or decision
Negative: breaking down someone's self esteem with repeated slander & slurs, until they lose hope or faith in their situation, abilities, or themselves in general
Attractive
Positive: appealing, exciting & inviting items, energies & people that add value to your life experience
Negative: addictive behavior, such as drugs, gambling, sex & alcohol, that offers short-term thrills & rewards, but often does long-term damage
Seductive
Positive: taking time to utilize pleasurable sexual experience to strengthen & reinforce a romantic love bond
Negative: teasing & alluring sexual behavior that is designed to distract from, or hide, something else, like the truth
Authoritative
Positive: able to make learned & experienced decisions, with the confidence to execute them
Negative: dictatorial & autocratic behavior, under the guise that the 'man-in-charge' is always right; 'my way or the highway-style thinking
Dogmatic
Positive: loyally dedicated to a beneficial practice, such as spirituality, exercise or study, over a long term period
Negative: stubbornly refusing to budge from a fixed set of beliefs, even if one or most of these can be shown to be errant
Aware
Positive: cognizant of your surroundings, while still able to focus easily & take in peripheral information
Negative: overly alert, almost to the point of mania or paranoia; obsessive and/or unable to sit still
Preoccupied
Positive: completely focused on the task at hand, with nothing distracting you or diverting your attention
Negative: distracted & not properly paying attention their immediate surroundings, which often results in silly mistakes & clumsy accidents
Balanced
Positive: having an appropriate amount of space, time, resources & energy for all areas of life
Negative: refusing to allow the natural extremes that happen in life: experience is immersive, which means you experience one thing at a time, e.g. being in love, OR being out of love - you can't experience both at the same time
Because of these extremes, you are 'immersed' in the one emotional experience at a time, and it is important let those extremes happen, because you can't understand doubt, or fear, or pain properly, unless you have lived through it yourself, and been completely immersed in that experience
If you experienced faith or hope at the same time that you experienced doubt, then your experience of doubt would not be pure: the presence of the faith automatically cancels out at least a part of the doubt you would otherwise have experienced
Extreme
Positive: an extreme obsession with cleanliness is a positive characteristic for someone like a surgeon, while in a gardener, the same would be OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) behavior
Negative: the obvious extreme to mention is addiction - a desire so strong, that you believe you have given up your right to be able to say no to the item, or choose against it
Your obsession with the so-called addictive item is so extreme, that you have willingly given over your right to be able to choose against it, pre-deciding that you will ALWAYS want it when you encounter it, and will most likely not be able to stop yourself from partaking of it when & where it is made available to you - even if that means you have to go out & seek it
Beautiful
Positive: pleasing to look at, pleasurable to the senses, a joy to be around or experience; enhancing the natural features & making more visually pleasing
Negative: artfully contrived glamor that masks or hides the true nature of the element; misrepresenting it to a larger or smaller degree
Glamorous
Positive: a formal ball to celebrate something of importance, or to raise funds for a worthy cause
Negative: stylized & airbrushed photoshoots that create an unrealistic expectation of beauty standards, and also the sexual experience
Being
Positive: allowing & trusting the flow of life, and being patient with the process, giving it time to unfold
Negative: sedation & inactivity to the point of laziness & achieving or completing nothing
Having
Positive: to accrue & gather the elements you need to live reasonably comfortably & have your basic needs taken care of
Negative: to gather, store, buy & accrue more than what you need, in excess, to the point of wastefulness
Believing
Positive: having a firm set of convictions, principles & ethics by which you conduct yourself in all situations
Negative: doggedly sticking to a perspective or point of view, or supporting a person, even when it can be shown to be errant, or untrustworthy
Insisting
Positive: a mom requiring her kids to do their homework, bath & eat dinner
Negative: stubbornly holding onto a point of view that you try to convince everyone of, in order to feel that your choice is validated
Brilliant
Positive: an ingenious idea or approach that is so outstanding as a solution that is adopted by all interested parties, or becomes a standard or benchmark
Negative: something or someone so bright that they eclipse other elements around them, for example someone with such good ideas that no one else gets a chance to shine, and whose leaving would damage the group irreparably because the group is dependent on their ideas to keep going
Clever
Positive: a smart idea whose application is an obvious solution to an existing problem or challenge
Negative: someone who is able to manipulate parties in order to divert a situation into the direction they want it to go
Candid
Positive: telling the whole truth about a situation, including the relevant facts, but leaving out unnecessary detail, e.g. your husband cheated with this person, at these times; in this case the person has the relevant big picture facts to work with, with ENOUGH detail of what they need to know
Negative: going into graphic descriptions of moments, events & experiences, giving intimate details that aren't usually shared, or that people don't want to hear, e.g. providing photos and recordings of the cheating partner in the throes of sexual activity, as opposed to photos that prove the infidelity, but are not over-the-top or painful to view; this is way too much detail
Calculating
Positive: the ability to be able to use shrewd decisions to make a positive difference for a group of people, or work within a tight budget, or with limited resources
Negative: manipulating a group of people in order to defraud them
Carefree
Positive: not weighed down by worry or anxiety, even if stressors are present in life; able to to 'rise above' anxiety, and put negative inner voice monologue to rest
Negative: not taking any responsibility & actively avoiding responsibility
Frivolous
Positive: having fun on a holiday or party day, being light-hearted, carefree & indulgent for a period of time
Negative: spending your entire salary the day you get it, on an unnecessary shopping spree, and then having nothing to carry you through the month - and doing this repeatedly, month after month
Challenged
Positive: facing an obstacle that tests your skills & abilities, helping you to advance onto another level
Negative: an inability to face any rough patch or down period, or lack of faith in internal abilities & skillsets, causing you to avoid facing anything in life
Impeded
Positive: delays that prevent a desired outcome that turns out to be the best thing over the long-term
Negative: permanently stopped or stalled, without the ability to find a way to move forward
Charitable
Positive: understanding & having compassion for someone, and aiding them through a rough patch or set of difficult circumstances, offering varying levels of help
Negative: 'Give a man a fish & you feed him for a day; teach him to fish & you feed him for a lifetime'... charity is negatively aspected when it makes people dependent on the help proffered, leaving them unable to care for themselves
Prodigal
Positive: spending freely as a luxury or indulgence, in an appropriate setting, like a vacation
Negative: buying on credit when you don't have cash, to the point of having excessive credit bills every month, that interfere with monthly cash flow
Cheerful
Positive: a lighthearted person who injects joy & positive sentiment, offering hope & injecting brightness
Negative: making jokes & being overly raucous in an inappropriate environment, like a funeral
Manic
Positive: using the frenzy of a highly energetic period to complete or achieve something quickly
Negative: disrupting the normal course of everyone's lives with drama & unnecessary conflict & chaos
Cherishing
Positive: looking after something carefully, and holding it close, without being overly protective or possessive
Negative: elevating something to level of addiction or need; feeling like you can't live without it; refusing to move on after a break up or death
Prizing
Positive: using a specific goal, usually something of value, to drive you towards an aim
Negative: elevating someone or something above others, to the point of nepotism or discrimination, or obvious favor
Choosing-to
Positive: making a free will choice to participate in something, bringing your enthusiasm, optimism & excitement, as well as dedication & commitment
Negative: having to choose between two options that you don't want, such as choosing who you can save between two people; regardless of the decision you make, you will feel guilt, doubt & regret
Having-to
Positive: being pushed in a direction, such as school or education, as a child, that you don't want to engage in, but benefits you long-term
Negative: having no choice in a situation, such as a hostage, kidnap or sexual assault; having-to fight back in a fight that somebody else starts
Civil
Positive: allowing someone or a party access to a place or element, and offering them the same amenities & respect that all are afforded
Negative: instituting a private (civil) legal suit in order to sort out a situation because you can't reconcile it yourselves
Formal
Positive: the formality of the work environment helps people keep their emotional reactions in check, and keeps them focused on the job at hand
Negative: so rigid & regulated that people feel uncomfortable & don't want to be there
Concerned
Positive: offering guidance or advice without expectation of it being implemented; committing mental time & energy to something, with the view to solving it
Negative: obsessive worrying & over-thinking, often when you have no ability to do anything about the situation, at least immediately
Judgmental
Positive: using discernment based on past experience in order to dodge a potentially risky situation
Negative: overly critical & constantly expressing negative or disparaging sentiments
Conciliatory
Positive: willing to compromise & put in the effort in order to achieve harmony
Negative: willing to go to any lengths to appease an offended party, even when their requests are unreasonable
Inflexible
Positive: unwilling to bend the rules because doing so would create danger or put people at risk
Negative: unwilling to budge on a specific point that becomes make-or-break in a situation
Confident
Positive: self-assured & outgoing behavior, where the person is at ease in the situation
Negative: being so sure of your answer that you don't listen to what someone else has to say
Arrogant
Positive: using a right of entitlement to force service delivery and not let a group get away with cheating people
Negative: leaving people feeling like you're too good to be around them
Confronting
Positive: tackle a challenge or issue directly, by speaking tot he person involved or taking direct action
Negative: approaching someone in a an aggressive & hostile manner, so as to strike up a conflict & create drama
Harassing
Positive: nagging, badgering & pestering someone to do something that is good for them, such as exercise, even when they have to be forced on a daily basis
Negative: a stalker or ex that won't accept that a relationship is over & keeps trying to initiate contact
Conscious
Positive: aware and alert, able to recognize & take in the information in the surrounds
Negative: unable to sleep, even when very tired, with the mind racing with excitement, ideas or thoughts
Unaware
Positive: not recognizing danger & able to maintain a positive forward momentum
Negative: oblivious to the surroundings, innocent, naive & gullible
Considerate
Positive: aware of, sympathetic to, and catering to the needs, wants & comfort of others
Negative: overly attentive, to the point of not sitting still, or making someone else uncomfortable with how much you fuss
Indulgent
Positive: taking time, and/or using resources to pamper or luxuriate, with the aim of rest & rejuvenation, or 'enjoying the fruits of your efforts'
Negative: buying unnecessary luxury items that do not fit into your budget
Constructive
Positive: to methodically build up something up to a level of quality that is appropriate to the element
Negative: constructing a building from inferior materials
Destructive
Positive: to break down a challenge or roadblock that enables you to move forward; to massively surpass a previous record: 'destroy' it
Negative: to break down someone's personality until they become completely dependent, unsure of everything they do
Contending
Positive: participating in a competitive arena in order to benchmark your ability against others
Negative: fighting or vying for a position against someone else, where only one can win
Competing
Positive: voluntarily testing your skill level against a group in order to establish a ranking or hierarchy system
Negative: constantly trying to outdo or one-up someone else, with the intent of proving your self 'better' than them in general
Courageous
Positive: being brave enough to swallow your own fear to take on something that others refuse to do
Negative: taking an unnecessary risk that leads to injury or death, because there isn't enough of a limiting sense of fear
Reckless
Positive: to not worry about limitations or rules in an appropriate setting, where not too much damage can be done, but to enjoy yourself with wild abandon within those constraints
Negative: to take unnecessary risks because thrill-seeking has become one of the few ways you actually feel anything; 'adrenalin junkies'
Defending
Positive: to stand up for yourself when you are unfairly attacked, or to stand up for someone who cannot stand up for themselves
Negative: to protect an excess of resources from a starving population, with the intent of securing your own comfort
Attacking
Positive: to pre-emptively strike when you know an attack is imminent, with the hope of impeding the future attack
Negative: to constantly be vicious, aggressive & hostile towards someone whenever you encounter them; to start wars & pick fights
Democratic
Positive: when the element or decision is used for the benefit of the greater good, or greatest good
Negative: 'majority rules' situations where people who are not armed with all the facts are making the decisions
Dictatorial
Positive: a parent making a blanket decision for a child that they are not equipped to make for themselves yet, like the choice to engage in sexual activity below a certain age
Negative: strictly controlling the behaviors, actions & words of another to the point where they require approval for every move
Detached
Positive: interested, but not emotionally attached to the outcome, or trying to force it into a specific direction
Negative: totally disinterested in what is happening, not engaging or participating
Removed
Positive: something or someone is kept temporarily or permanently away from an element it may be harmful to, and vice versa
Negative: someone or something is withheld from something it wants or needs access to, such as water, or other survival resources
Determined
Positive: focused & dedicated to doing what needs to be done to achieve the aim in mind
Negative: determined to stick with a specific path, even if it has been shown to errant or unwise
Stubborn
Positive: doggedly holding onto an idea that supports an important part of life, e.g. the idea that God exists is crucial to a spiritual path
Negative: refusing to vacate a house when a hurricane is impending, or your life is otherwise in danger
Devoted
Positive: loyal to & protective over someone, caring for their well-being & making yourself available to them
Negative: unable to accept the end of a relationship, or experiencing unrequited love, remaining focused on the object of their affection, even when that affection becomes unwelcome
Possessive
Positive: keeping a watchful eye over something precious, and guarding it carefully
Negative: not letting something out of your sight, not letting anyone anywhere near it, and/or jumping into attack mode if somebody ventures too close by
Diplomatic
Positive: able to smooth over ruffled feathers & bring conflicted parties together again, unifying them for mutual benefit
Negative: able to use their powers of persuasion to manipulate a situation or the people in it
Deceptive
Positive: telling a white lie in order not to offend or emotionally upset someone over something that there is no reason for them to know
Negative: telling lies of varying degree in order to manipulate & bamboozle, usually
Doing
Positive: taking positive action that propels a person or situation forward
Negative: keeping obsessively busy in order to avoid thinking about something; busy to stay distracted
Getting
Positive: obtaining what you need in order to sustain yourself & thrive, or be comfortable
Negative: obtaining resources way in excess of what you need or purchasing beyond your available finances
Educating
Positive: enhancing someone's overall level of knowledge while fostering their ability to be able to think & apply that knowledge in a way that they choose to in the future
Negative: offering a limited set of information that forms a fixed set of opinions, that are predetermined & purposefully striven towards, perpetually being reinforced by the content & curriculum that is chosen
Persuading
Positive: encouraging someone verbally to push their own boundaries, and/or take a risk that makes them uncomfortable, because the growth experience is in their best interests
Negative: using your influence over someone to convince them that your point of view is superior, often to the point of disregarding other perspectives
Egalitarian
Positive: making sure that people are allowed equal right of access to a service or space, regardless of any discriminating facts; finding a win-win compromise that meets the needs of the parties, with a view to solving the challenge
Negative: forcing a body to proportionally represent a population, selecting 50% female membership because that is the proportionate demographic split in the area, instead of allowing the most capable members to be selected from all who have equal access to vie for those spots
Elitist
Positive: limiting access to areas of study that would be dangerous if you have not reached a certain level, until you prove yourself worthy of having attained right of access, e.g. not allowing spiritual seekers to pursue certain knowledge until they have achieved a specified degree of ego mitigation; or only allowing you to pursue a certain area of study if you have certain subjects behind you, like mathematics for engineering
Negative: limiting access to a service or space based on unchangeable characteristics, such as gender, race, religion, tradition, social class or other accident of birth
Empathetic
Positive: able to understand another's point of view, offering insight from their perspective
Negative: pressing an issue on someone's behalf, or getting involved where you have no business, because the issue at stake hits home for you personally
Pitying
Positive: taking time to stop and help a person or animal because you can imagine what it would be like to be stuck in their situation, e.g. buying a meal for someone who is down on their luck
Negative: constantly reinforcing negative habits of laziness and entitlement, using a single event, or series of events, as a reason to excuse someone's behavior - often long after the events should be behind the person, e.g. excusing drunken behavior a decade later because the person was cheated on once
Encouraging
Positive: letting someone know that you think they need to go out on a date, or on a diet, and that you will support them on the journey
Negative: making a doctor's appointment or setting up a date for the person, and putting in the effort to get them there because they won't do it alone
Promoting
Positive: speaking to key trusted people about the choice of doctor, or looking for a date; creating awareness about your business services in order to earn a sustainable income
Negative: approaching guys in the street and 'selling' the person you're setting up; claiming to be 'the best' or better than your competitors
Energetic
Positive: able to find the energy to apply and focus the self on tasks at hand, with vigor, clarity and focused mental application
Negative: highly energized to the point of where it disrupts others in the environment, or is out of context, such as laughing at a funeral
Agitated
Positive: staying alert and on guard because the intuitive senses are picking up a danger; healthy fear that intends to protect
Negative: highly restless and unfocused, unable to focus on anything with clarity
Enlivening
Positive: using a bright splash of color, such as painting a feature wall, to inject energy and excitement into a space
Negative: overusing bright primary colors, e.g. in fast food restaurants, in order to overstimulate people to eat really quickly, in order to achieve higher sales and more quickly turnover 'bums in seats'
Exhausting
Positive: 'good tired', where you have done a hard and honest day of labor, that has tired you almost to collapsing, but enables you to sleep a well-deserved night of rest, earned by the labor you put in that day
Negative: tiredness to the point of collapse, where you just can't go on anymore, and cannot find the reserves to extend yourself even a little bit further
Envisioning
Positive: creating a vision of a great gathering where everyone has fun and enjoys themselves
Negative: fastidiously contriving every detail of the event or gathering in order to awe people and force a good time through awe-inspiring detail and experiences
Picturing
Positive: simplifying a concept by using a visual aid in order to make it more easily understandable
Negative: making a detailed mock up or model that is so accurate, it is practically a scale replica of the original, leaving no room for creative evolution along the way: a great example is modern marketing strategies, that aim to schedule and plan every activity well in advance, not allowing room to evolve according the results yielded
Equal
Positive: offering equal rights of access, or a compromise befitting the needs of all the parties
Negative: painstakingly ensuring that the exact measure is equally given to each party, regardless of their needs
Superior
Positive: acknowledgment of a level of knowledge, achievement, ability or skill in someone who is regarded as an expert
Negative: behaving as if your needs are more important than those around you
Erotic
Positive: engaging in tantric sexual practice with a bonded partner
Negative: utilizing spiritual sexual practices, such as tantra, purely to elicit physical pleasure with casual partners
Lustful
Positive: teasing and tantalizing your partner over an extended period of time in order to build up sexual anticipation, perhaps even engaging erotic literature, porn or other devices, to increase anticipation
Negative: regularly using sexual stimuli such as porn, on a daily basis, purely for physical release, and to the exclusion of other sexual practices
Essential
Positive: an important part of a system, which aids or greatly enhances the efficacy of that system
Negative: a part of a system or group that is so crucial that the group cannot operate if that element is removed
Apparent
Positive: easy to grasp and understand
Negative: blatantly obvious and unavoidable
Eternal
Positive: timeless and of lasting quality, enduring in its appeal
Negative: going on forever, without hope of end in sight
Temporal
Positive: nothing lasts forever; all things must come to an end
Negative: not having enough time; feeling that time is limited, e.g. a death at a young age; 'only the good die young'
Ethical
Positive: applying wisdom and insight to a situation or challenge, and finding the best possible solution from within that framework
Negative: rigidly sticking to a set of principles or rules, and stubbornly refusing to budge, or gauge the situation in context
Equivocal
Positive: willing to hear others out before coming to an opinion
Negative: adjusting your opinion to match the opinion of whomever you're with, with the intent of currying favor
Excellent
Positive: made to a high standard of quality and showing expert craftsmanship
Negative: made to meet required standards, or a benchmark of excellence, but not striving to be the best it is possible to be
Adequate
Positive: meets requirements of the situation, with a level of quality additionally
Negative: meets the minimal requirements necessary, cutting corners whenever possible
Experienced
Positive: balanced exposure to an area or ability, with the ability to work towards a positive outcome and a healthy fear and understanding of potential risks
Negative: extreme positivity or jaded negativity, born of an excess of success, which inhibits caution, or an excess of failure, which creates doubt and lack of self worth
Cynical
Positive: a cautious approach that prevents hasty and impulsive decisions before due diligence is exercised
Negative: lack of faith, hope or optimism, paired with negative verbal sentiment, that kills ideas before they even making out of the starting gates
Fair
Positive: offering a balanced judgment or verdict based on the circumstances and needs of the parties concerned
Negative: excessive focus on ensuring a perfectly equal 50/50 split, with over-attention to unnecessary details
Scrupulous
Positive: fine-toothed attention to detail; extreme moral uprightness characterized by a life that supports the perspective, e.g. walking your talk when you have a strong moral code and voice that to others
Negative: micromanagement of every aspect and detail of an element, with a focus on detail that tends to eclipse the big picture, e.g. making sure your handwriting is perfect instead of investing time in researching content, because the lecturer or teacher penalizes even the slightest untidiness
Fertile
Positive: land that is rich in nutrients and produces healthy crop yields
Negative: the fast growth experienced in breeding rodent populations, causing damage to food stock piles
Luxuriant
Positive: opulent and comfortable surroundings that engage and comfort the senses
Negative: unnecessarily expensive products that are priced for the brand name they carry, or because they are associated to a certain celebrity
Flexible
Positive: the ability to do yoga comfortably and easily, stretching your body and keeping it in good working order; being able to go with the flow
Negative: obsessively looking for something new to stimulate you; readily accepting any excuse given to you by a certain person
Rigid
Positive: sicking to your guns on certain issues, e.g. not spending more than you can afford on an entertainment experience
Negative: refusing to allow an occasional splurge on something to spoil yourself
Forgiving
Positive: able to release the psychic pain and tension caused by a past event, and move forward into new experiences without the shadow of that former incident lingering over you
Negative: repeatedly accepting abusive behavior from a spouse or partner, and not holding them accountable to change their behavior
Resenting
Positive: being driven into action because of a failure or experience of envy
Negative: becoming mean and ill-tempered towards someone because of something they said or did, but not confronting them about the issue
Free
Positive: able to make choices that serve your free will desires, while still respecting the free will choices of others and the generally accepted norms of society
Negative: forcing your free will choices onto others, even when doing so breaks the law, e.g. rape or indecent exposure
Regulated
Positive: made to conform to a minimum required level of quality in order to ensure health, e.g. food standards
Negative: controlled to the point of where no organic growth takes place anymore; excessive bureaucracy and administrative red tape; overwhelming complexity; micro-management
Generous
Positive: willing to share freely of what they have, welcoming others to partake in the bounty, or what is available, regardless of how much is available
Negative: giving and sharing freely to the point of running out of resources yourself
Petty
Positive: managing the books or accounts of an organization and fastidiously accounting for every cent
Negative: being focused on small details that you easily get offended about; charging for every single small item, down to the chocolates on the bed; a good example would be businesses who go as far as monitoring the keystrokes of employees on their computers
Gentle
Positive: a soft and tender touch, or approach, or demeanor, appropriate to handling something delicate, such as a mother with a baby
Negative: being so soft that you become a pushover, and find it impossible to say no
Rough
Positive: a hard and abrasive approach or demeanor, suitable to handling something crude, e.g. construction workers or garbage collection
Negative: an abusive situation, spouse or family member, who uses alcohol to excess and then takes whatever actions they see fit, without considering the needs of, or ramifications for, others, often resulting in emotional, verbal, physical and sexual abuse actions
Gifted
Positive: skilled, talented and capable in an specific arena, or arenas, with the requisite experience to be able to make sound decisions
Negative: seemingly supernatural ability within an arena where power of decision making is awarded beyond what is commensurate with the experience,e.g. someone who gets appointed to management very young because of a natural talent, but then lands up messing up because they lack hands on experience
Lucky
Positive: 'One-in-a-million chances happens nine times out of ten' - Sir Terry Pratchett; i.e. having exactly the right thing happen at the right moment in order for you to be saved, make a getaway, or somehow extricate yourself from a potentially threatening situation
Negative: a propensity to having things play out in your favor that results in you inadequately preparing for anything in life; 'We had a statue in our dorm quad, and it was said that if you rubbed its nose before tests you'd have good luck. My roommate firmly believed in the power of the statue - she probably should have studied more and then she wouldn't have failed!' Meredith Grey, Grey's Anatomy
Giving
Positive: to share freely of what you have, no matter how little or much, being willing to extend your time and resources to those who need it
Negative: blindly supporting the spending habits of a spouse, partner or child, without placing any limitations on them
Taking
Positive: willingly accepting something that is offered to you, e.g. graciously accepting a gift or donation
Negative: forcibly removing something or someone from someone else, against their will, or when you have no right to the item, e.g. the police seized their assets; they were robbed last night
Global
Positive: taking a look at the bigger picture at play, and how it impacts all parties concerned, directly and peripherally
Negative: building a worldwide distribution network that establishes you as a monopoly, destroying macro business opportunities
Local
Positive: within a close distance, close to home; impacting you directly
Negative: limiting you to a confined area that you cannot grow beyond, like a supervisor who won't allow you to expand your role or abilities because they feel threatened by you
Gracious
Positive: welcoming and inviting people equally into a space, offering them the same regard and consideration, regardless of status
Negative: making a show of welcoming a less privileged person into a space, being overly attentive and accommodating, to the point of discomfort
Decorous
Positive: decorating a space according to your personal style because you spend a lot of time in that space; decorating or dressing up for an event or occasion
Negative: fastidious attention to a motif or style in order to 'fit in' or gain approval, e.g. dying your hair black because you're Emo or goth, even though black hair doesn't suit you at all
Grateful
Positive: buying someone a thank you present or card, or offering sincere words of thanks
Negative: feeling obligated to jump whenever someone says you must, or feeling under their control, because they helped you once, or help you from time to time; this is the classic parent controlling the child with money situation - if the (usually adult) child steps out of line in any way, financial assistance is cut off or threatened, where overtly or subtly
Indebted
Positive: taking out a loan that you can comfortably afford, to buy a house, so that your future is more secured
Negative: feeling obligated to someone for anything they ask for, because they did something for you once and use it to keep a hold over you
Harmonious
Positive: an easy going relaxed person, who fosters a similar mood for the people around them, allowing everyone to get along and have a great time, e.g. a really great event host
Negative: someone who does not allow people to raise issues of contention, always brushing stuff under the rug, allowing it to fester until it explodes and cannot be contained anymore
Disruptive
Positive: upsetting the status quo, and forcing people out of their comfort zones, in order to stimulate and encourage growth in various areas
Negative: destruction of property, possessions and ending relationships because of wild and reckless behavior, such as addiction, wild parties or gambling
Healing
Positive: an improvement in state that leads to the recovery of an element from damage
Negative: soothing actions and behavior that do not allow someone to descend into an emotional or mental low period, when such is necessary for long-term health, e.g. not allowing someone to grieve or talk about a lost loved one
Irritating
Positive: away-from driven motivation that forces you to move away from an abrasive factor, such as isolating yourself when you need time to think about something, or jealousy spurring you onto achievement in some area
Negative: chafing and tension on the physical, mental and emotional levels that makes you not want to be in an environment, or facing a situation, and/or can make you want to give up the will to fight
Helpful
Positive: offering aid and assistance aligned with the free will choices of the recipient, aiding them to follow their chosen path
Negative: offering aid and assistance only if an end goal as decided by the giver are pursued; controlling the outcome of an event and using the aid to ensure that outcome, which is often not aligned to what the recipient has chosen of their free will, e.g. I'll pay for your wedding if you marry this person that I chose, or have you wedding where I decide and invite who I want to have there, but I'll disinherit you if you do it your way
Meddling
Positive: interfering in a situation when you can clearly see that someone is about to make a naive and obvious mistake out of ignorance, because you want what is in their best interests
Negative: using your powers to interfere in order to push your own agenda, and control someone or something, e.g. using your influence over a family member's supervisor to force that person to have weekly drug tests because you no longer have control over their life through money and where they stay, when there has been no aberrant behavior to raise suspicion (sadly, this is just one of many real-life examples)
Holistic
Positive: taking a big picture view of a situation, exploring all the options, e.g. looking into mental and emotional aspects when tackling illness or weight loss
Negative: refusing to ignore certain elements of a system, when the system can operate without that interference, e.g. consulting a medical doctor to get approval before pursuing a homeopathic treatment, and/or not being willing to pursue the treatment without that validation
Analytic
Positive: perusing something in detail in order identify an error or fault and rectify that element
Negative: overly critical and focused on detail, to the extent that it eclipses the big picture, e.g. someone who zeroes in one statement you've made, coming back to that over and over again, preventing you from discussing the actual issue at play
Honest
Positive: sharing the honest facts of the situation, without bias, and offering a perspective from all major concerned parties
Negative: telling someone 'the truth' about something because you know that hearing it will hurt them
Legal
Positive: protecting the rights of the naive and innocent so that they cannot be unfairly swindled by a 'bad guy'
Negative: utilizing legal action, or the threat thereof, to strong arm a situation or try to control the outcome, often when you have an unfair advantage
Honoring
Positive: remembering, recalling, and reminiscing about a person or place, recognizing the role they played in the past, and/or play now
Negative: favoring a person or persons above others, as a result of some form of discrimination, e.g. nepotism in the workplace; another example would be favoring a candidate because they belonged to the same sorority as you, especially when another candidate shows more suitable ability
Enshrining
Positive: putting something special into a special place of honor, so that it cannot be enjoyed by many, but is kept safe, e.g. a family tomb or burial plot
Negative: favoring the preferred element or person to such a degree that you do not allow any disturbance of their possessions, even after they're gone, e.g. parents who keep a deceased child's bedroom intact years after the child's loss
Humble
Positive: remaining somewhat reserved and gracious in collaborative environments, even if your expertise is vastly superior to those you are engaging with
Negative: not putting yourself forward, or sharing ideas or insight, because you doubt your abilities, likability and/or right to be present in the forum
Diffident
Positive: healthy doubt in your ability and/or need to learn more before you are classified as an 'expert', or have the 'right to make decisions'; knowing your place in the pecking order or hierarchy
Negative: refusing to take on responsibility because you have no faith in your abilities, and doubt everything you do, regardless of how much validation you get; being permanently scared to 'mess up'
Humorous
Positive: inserting lightheartedness, jokes, laughter and fun into an appropriate environment, such as a social gathering
Negative: making jokes as a means of avoiding dealing with a tense or awkward situation, or in inappropriate situations, such as at a funeral or other solemn occasion
Sombre
Positive: a serious demeanor befitting a situation, such as a state of grieving a loss; 'the president was sombre as he delivered the devastating news'
Negative: bitterness, melancholy, and rigidity of nature in an environment not suited to it; the girl who spends the whole day at the funfair sulking because you won't go do what she wants to go do, or an Emo or goth type that refuses to don a costume to go to the beach, sitting in long black clothing all day
Impartial
Positive: willing to look at both sides of the story equally and give equal credence to them, without bias, in order to reach a just decision
Negative: focused on being fair and being seen to be fair to the exclusion of giving the issue at hand the consideration it actually needs, e.g. insisting that both parties are punished because the rules said so, when one party's breaking of the rules saved the company a lot of money or embarrassment
Righteous
Positive: dedicated to living a morally upright and/or holy life, with a strict inner moral code that is always abided by
Negative: believing that the way you choose to conduct your life is superior to the way others choose to live, and letting people know that you feel that way, often forcing your beliefs onto others, e.g. white supremacists
Ingenious
Positive: a solution so brilliant in its design that you wonder why no one thought of it before
Negative: something that is extremely well suited to its purpose, to the point of being perfect, but is under patent and sold at a ridiculous premium, making it inaccessible in to those who may need access to it, e.g. brand name medicines and proprietary software
Scheming
Positive: working together collaboratively to bring about a change that will result in a greater good, e.g. freedom fighters or a resistance movement
Negative: manipulating a person or situation in order to swindle, cheat, con or otherwise lie to them, potentially causing them financial, physical, mental, emotional damage
Inspired
Positive: being driven to achieve a greater purpose on a societal level, as a result of a personal experience, that brings about change that benefits many, e.g. Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela
Negative: becoming focused on revenge as a result of a wrongdoing or perceived wrongdoing, and making the attainment of that revenge a priority that eclipses other areas of your life
Mundane
Positive: a sedate, calm, stable and drama-free existence, that 'chugs along nicely'
Negative: boredom, feeling stuck and trapped by the banality of everyday existence
Intentional
Positive: undertaking activities and entering environments with purpose and focus, present and clear mentally, applying yourself to the task at hand, moving towards achieving a specific goal, or staying aligned with a defined set of principles, or a moral code
Negative: staying focused on a goal or desire, and being unwilling to budge the goal posts, e.g. hanging onto lost or unrequited love and refusing to even entertain dating someone else or considering another relationship
Calculating
Positive: working out the steps, tasks and activities required to make a group or system run flawlessly as a whole, without interruptions caused by one element in that system breaking down or operating poorly, e.g. making sure that the bakery gets enough resources to keep producing, but not so much that they run out of space to store it all
Negative: using the ability to manipulate and influence situations in order to drive them towards your desire end, even if that aim will mean that another will suffer damage or have their free will choice taken away from them
Intuitive
Positive: keen insight, able to deduce and glean important details, seemingly out of thin air; has proven the ability trustworthy
Negative: not taking the time to research or investigate anything because of trusting their ability to 'figure stuff out' and 'just know what to do'
Literal
Positive: exactly as it played out, offering a comprehensive view of the facts so that a sound decision can be made
Negative: misinterpretation of the words and meaning of what has been communicated because of a lack of understanding of the subtle nuances of vocabulary and how the terminology may be used, e.g. ecological in healing means 'in the person's best interests', while ecological in mainstream understanding means 'about the natural environment'
Inventive
Positive: able to look at the elements available and create a solution that meets needs but doesn't require a complex overhaul of an existing system
Negative: a solution that, while effective, would cause too much disruption to day-to-day activities, and would require people to undergo extensive training
Prosaic
Positive: an easier everyday solution that will offer a temporary fix in order to give time to deal with other priorities first, and not cause too much disruption to day-to-day activities
Negative: an event or experience that is boring and does not engage or require much imagination, e.g. hosting an informal barbecue for an event, as opposed to a more formal dinner party, which may be more suited to, say, an engagement or marriage celebration; a completely unoriginal idea
Inviting
Positive: someone who welcomes you warmly, in an appropriate manner for your relationship, and/or the situation, having you feel comfortable and like you want to be there
Negative: having a friend's spouse offer unwanted sexual attention, offering a sexual tryst
Urging
Positive: supporting someone, verbally, mentally, emotionally and otherwise, to go for their dreams and goals, especially when they need a push to take the leap
Negative: strongly encouraging someone to do something that they would not necessarily choose to do themselves or have to be forced into doing
Involved
Positive: being an active participant in a situation or group, freely giving of your time, knowledge and resources, in order to further the aims of the group as a whole
Negative: inserting yourself into a situation that has nothing to do with you simply because it is good gossip, or you want to try and control the outcome, e.g. the parent who controls with money in order to be able to 'call the shots' in other areas, or the friend who always wants to listen but them goes on to tell everyone else; addicts
Obsessed
Positive: short-, medium- or long-term dedication to a goal or outcome, with passion and interest that allows you to commit to it on a regular basis, e.g. a weight loss and health plan, or learning to play an instrument
Negative: refusing to give up a particular focus on an object or person, even when that attention is unwanted, and/or eclipses other areas of life, e.g. groupies who follow bands around or stalkers who 'fall in love' with celebrities
Joyful
Positive: happiness, elation and feelings of pleasure related to an experience or person or object, resulting in appropriate expressions of enjoyment
Negative: always looking for a party or otherwise 'fun' experience, to the exclusion of other areas of life; always being the life and soul of the party, and making sure a party happens every night
Pleasurable
Positive: enjoyable and pleasing to the senses, like having a great meal or going for a massage in order to unwind and 'have some R&R'
Negative: being obsessed with pleasure to the point of neglecting other areas of life, e.g. addictions such as drugs, porn and sex
Just
Positive: fair and unbiased, willing to look equally at everyone and everything concerned
Negative: determined to stick to the letter of law, when a considered decision is actually called for, often because the letter of law may suit their (often unconscious) bias
Punitive
Positive: meting out just punishment, commensurate with the infraction, in order to act as a deterrent in future, both to the offender and others at large, 'making an example'
Negative: unfair punishment meted out for unjust infractions, where the punisher has created rules that are designed to be failed, e.g. sadistic activity
Kind
Positive: gentle and approachable in nature, and inclined towards being easy to be around or deal with
Negative: scared to offend or upset anyone, and inclined to give people their way so that they don't get upset, even if those actions make the giver uncomfortable
Cruel
Positive: tough love that forces someone to look at their life and take responsibility for their actions; 'being cruel to be kind'
Negative: purposefully malicious and hurtful actions and words that are designed to make someone else feel inferior and experience shame and self doubt, as well as inadequacy
Leading
Positive: making the choice of direction for a group of persons who willingly choose to follow you and participate in the activities
Negative: forcing a group to follow a direction they don't agree with because you have the power in the situation; having to step forward and direct and guide a group of followers as a result of someone else vacating a position, by death or otherwise, because you are the next in line, e.g. royalty and titles, or being the matriarch or patriarch of a family
Coercing
Positive: convincing someone to do something they don't necessarily want to do, when it really is in their best interests, e.g. helping a mom and her kids escape an abusive domestic situation
Negative: convincing someone to do something they don't want to do because the results of the outcome will be in your own personal best interests, and may damage the person being coerced, e.g. helping someone lie to someone else, or catfishing
Liberating
Positive: freeing someone or something from an oppressive environment that inhibits their growth and development or causes them pain, e.g. freeing animals from a lab that tests on them
Negative: stealing something from someone that you want and/or don't believe that they deserve to have, or delivering a piece of bad news that you know will end someone's relationship because it's what you want to have happen
Restricting
Positive: limiting actions, behaviors and activities that you may choose for before you know better, i.e. when you are too young, such as a drivers license age
Negative: limiting behaviors in a way that limits growth to an unnecessary degree, inhibiting the development of required skills, e.g. parents that don't let kids date at all before the end of high school prevent the normal development of relationship skills that are necessary later on - this is where the good girl gets herself stupidly pregnant shortly after going off to college, because she is unused to the freedom and has not developed limits
Long-term
Positive: it takes 10,000 hours of exposure and experience in order to achieve mastery, and so long-term commitment allows you to really master what you focus on, from learning an instrument to karate and coding
Negative: when a goal takes too long to achieve, you lose momentum and focus, and start to feel like you will never get there, reinforcing the idea that you are a failure
Immediate
Positive: if you've had an accident or major trauma, then you likely need instant action taken in order to save your life
Negative: our societal focus on instant gratification has bred a population of impatient and entitled people who will 'flip out' because of any reasonable delay, believing that being forced to wait makes them less-important somehow
Loyal
Positive: to willingly offer your allegiance to someone, in general, or according to a specific set of criteria, such as fidelity in monogamous relationships, and having that positive sentiment stay in place, regardless of whether you can 'get away' with doing something behind their back or not, e.g. staying faithful even when you have an easy opportunity to cheat
Negative: to remain allied to a person or cause, even when current circumstances prove that that element does not deserve your trust or support
Chauvinistic
Positive: the ideal of male chauvinism and superiority can produce very traditional personalities, where the male takes on sole responsibility for looking after the wife and family, and values the female role equally in its place
Negative: the idea that this differentiation of roles somehow makes one side superior to the other inherently, classing the 'other side' as inferior or sub-par; e.g. male over female gives the right to abuse; white over black gives the right to murder someone
Merciful
Positive: to be understanding and hear the elements of the situation in context, offering a commensurate response to the challenge presented, with a tendency towards leniency
Negative: blindly accepting anything done by a group or persons, based on nothing more than their word or a misguided sense of loyalty
Permissive
Positive: allowing freedoms and liberties corresponding to the level of maturity shown by the recipient, e.g. you are allowed to apply for driver's license at age 18, but must wait until you have passed it before you can actually drive on your own
Negative: blindly allowing freedom to someone, regardless of their ability to handle such freedom, or exercise it carefully, e.g. you can automatically drink at age 18 without the need to prove that you will be a responsible drinker and/or make responsible choices
Modest
Positive: reserved and unassuming in approach, quietly confident with no need to show off or prove oneself to gain others' validation or approval
Negative: playing down your abilities because you doubt them and don't want to take the risk of being called on because you're sure you'll mess up
Haughty
Positive: a somewhat visible degree of self confidence and trust in your own abilities, that people perceive as being something that makes you trustworthy in this instance; the confidence of a leader who knows what they are doing and is comfortable with taking the lead
Negative: excessive pridefulness and superiority that becomes discriminatory towards anyone that does not met a strict set of criteria that 'make them worthy to be around'; snobbish behavior and acting superior towards others
Natural
Positive: of natural origin, in it's original, unaltered state, e.g. an organic apple
Negative: seeming to maintain its natural state or form, while actually cleverly masked, e.g. 'apple juice' that is a mix of clarified grape and apple juice, and natural apple flavors, as opposed to being pressed juice from an apple; genetically modified (GMO) fruits, vegetables and other crops, which look like the originals but have been altered to be pesticides or herbicides and actually offer little to no nutritional value anymore
Artificial
Positive: the altered form of a processed product, often combined with other products and ingredients, to create something completely different, e.g. turning the apple into baby food by cooking it, processing it, and adding various spices and preservatives
Negative: an engineered substitute that takes the place of something that should occur naturally, e.g. drinking energy drinks or capsules with vitamins as opposed to absorbing these from the food you eat, in the way they were meant to be absorbed
Noble
Positive: an upstanding and ethical person, who honors and respects the status and expectations of their status as a leader, even if that role has been thrust on them by birth, e.g. Queen Elizabeth's dedication to her role as queen and maintaining the visage of the royal family as moral, upstanding citizens to be admired and revered
Negative: assigning importance to persons by nature of their accident of birth; so royalty can only marry royalty, because their bloodline must not mix with that of commoners
Pompous
Positive: someone who places importance on traditions, roles and protocol, helping preserve the knowledge of these practices through their fascination with the topic
Negative: someone who believes that they, and select group, are superior to others somehow, and deserve preferential treatment, excluding others by discrimination based on a certain select group of factors, such as social class, financial wealth, race, or accident of birth
Nurturing
Positive: offering the support and resources needed to help a person or element grow at a steady and sustainable pace
Negative: overextending support and resources offered, until the recipient becomes somewhat or entirely dependent on the giver for their every need
Draining
Positive: when you get a stomach flu or some kind of poisoning, your body will drain your entire system, purging the toxin through your bowels, bladder, etc; crying is an emotional drain that helps you release and relieve negative emotion and sentiment that has built up inside you and may be causing you pain to carry around
Negative: a draining person can make you feel tired and exhausted for days after seeing them, no matter how excited or energized you felt when they walked in your door; it's almost like they suck the good energy out of you
Observant
Positive: aware of your surroundings, and able to take in overt and peripheral detail, while still able to relax and enjoy the moment
Negative: overly alert and cautious, paying so much attention to perceived potential fears, that you forget to focus on the actual proceedings taking place in front of you
Suspicious
Positive: following up on something that caught your attention and made you concerned, in order to allay your fears or prevent a potential problem
Negative: constantly being on the look out for strange behavior, or being overly untrusting of someone, particularly over the long term, e.g. a wife who has suspected a husband of cheating for years but has never been able to prove it, always treating situations with mistrust, fear and doubt, and being overly careful not to allow even the slightest opportunity where infidelity could potentially happen, such as ending a friendship because you suspect your husband MAY be attracted to the woman in question
Open
Positive: interested in and welcoming towards new ideas, people and places; confidently sharing the truth because there is nothing to hide
Negative: constantly looking for the next new thing, unable to settle down and enjoy something twice; sharing too much information (TMI) or being OTT (over the top)
Secretive
Positive: keeping information hidden purposefully because you're planning a surprise party or a special treat for someone
Negative: purposefully lying about or omitting information that you know would make someone view a person or situation differently, or may influence a decision in a direction opposite to where you you want it to go
Optimistic
Positive: expressing positive sentiment about a task , person, environment or venture, and expecting a favorable outcome, in line with the work that will be put into making it happen
Negative: not planning or preparing and expecting everything to just fall into place without having to put in any effort
Pessimistic
Positive: a tendency to look for the downside in anything, can be put to good use when you want to identify potential risks and threats that could get in the way of your plans
Negative: negative verbal sentiment that drags everyone else down and kills an idea before it evens has a chance to get off the ground, or be properly considered
Orderly
Positive: neatly presented, arranged and organized, making it pleasure to be in the space or work with the element
Negative: overly fussy attention to detail, with someone who gets annoyed if even a single item is 'out of its place'
Confused
Positive: a messy and disorganized pile of stuff that has all been lumped together because it is about to be sorted out properly
Negative: unable to make sense of, sort or organize; lacking clarity or the ability to think coherently, e.g. Alzheimers or dementia
Outgoing
Positive: confident and gregarious, able to engage other people, even when they are unknown elements; easily able to find common ground
Negative: always active and busy, looking for the next thing to do, the next people to meet; unable to sit down and focus on enjoying the present (boring) moment
Reserved
Positive: purposefully withheld and restrained, choosing to observe and assess a situation before jumping into it
Negative: withheld and restrained from fear of inadequacy, lack of self worth or doubt in one's abilities or right to be present in the space
Patient
Positive: willing to make a continual investment of time and resources, over an extended period, before seeing results
Negative: waiting for something to happen, without taking any action to realize it: an old man repeatedly asks God to win the lottery, and to his surprise, one day he gets a verbal answer from God: 'Sure, you can win the lottery - but just do me a favor: BUY A TICKET PUH-LEESE!'
Avid
Positive: a keen and engaged participant, observer or supporter, whose interest continues over an extended period of time, allowing them to achieve mastery through their dedication and passion
Negative: overt and excessive focus on a specific area of interest, to the exclusion of other areas, e.g. a new lover means that you don't see your friend for a few weeks or months
Patriotic
Positive: validated loyalty towards a tradition or culture, showing justifiable pride in the easily observable achievements of that group of people
Negative: belief in the superiority of a nation, tradition or culture over another, because of an historical attitude, that has often been indoctrinated into the thinker, creating a false perspective
Nationalistic
Positive: the idea that the government and country work for the people, and are designed to create the greatest good so that the majority may benefit equally, and people have a stable and prosperous society to grow up in; in Mein Kampf, Adolf Hitler makes an interesting point when discussing the rougher, lower social class elements of society, saying that you cannot hold a man accountable for his thinking when he is a product of the society that he has been raised in. If you want to improve these people, you must improve the world they live in - you cannot judge them for being what they are when they had no say in being molded as that. What's interesting here is how the Internet has changed the game, making information much more freely accessible, even across borders and behind boundaries we could never previously reach. Can we still say that man is a product of his societal influences, or is he now responsible for his development because we have such easy access to information? Is the lack of intelligence we see nowadays a product of our upbringing, or is it a product of willful ignorance?
Negative: the idea that the people are the product and resource of the state, and that this resource can be used and directed at the state's will, overriding the free will choices of the citizens concerned, e.g. the idea of conscription, or forced military service, means that young men and families have to be willing to give up lives and futures in order to protect the financial and political interests of the state, regardless of the personal cost of this burden, whether that is trauma (PTSD), disability or death
Peaceful
Positive: calm and serene in presence, with an energy or ability that enables that state to be extended to others around you
Negative: disregarding, or not taking seriously, a warning because of a false sense of security, which means that you don't offer enough caution in what is actually a dangerous situation, e.g. taking time your time during a fire evacuation because you think it's a drill, when it actually turns out to be a real fire - and you stayed behind ten minutes longer to finish with that important call
Belligerent
Positive: refusing to accept an obviously unjust decision, and bullishly fighting for what you know is right, standing firm and not allowing yourself to be swayed, e.g. lobbying for the release of a political prisoner or prisoner of war that has been unjustly incarcerated; the pig headedness and determination are what will eventually get your cause noticed here
Negative: refusing to budge even when you are clearly in the wrong or have no right to take the stand that you are taking, e.g. the teenager who sulks because they had to come home by curfew, and gives you the cold shoulder for two weeks
Polite
Positive: offering genuine warmth and welcome to someone, whether guest or known entity, even if that person's actions in the past do not warrant such a warm welcome - but locking away the silverware and precious items in the company of known thieves
Negative: barely tolerating a person, and while not saying or doing anything obviously rude, being cold and distant, and obviously in a hurry to get it over with as quickly as possible
Obsequious
Positive: a dedicated butler at a five star resort is chosen to wait on you hand and foot as part of the pleasurable luxury experience you have paid for on your vacation
Negative: a partner who takes care of everything for the other, leaving them stranded in case of an emergency, and unable to fend for themselves
Powerful
Positive: able to exert influence to effect change, and knowingly where and when to apply that talent judiciously, for the greater good; respect that is earned and commanded, NOT demanded
Negative: having the ability to exert influence and effect change, but only applying it for the benefit of the self, or to further your own interests
Forceful
Positive: using sheer willpower to open a door or effect a change that is in the best interests of the greater good
Negative: using brute strength to overpower someone's free will, as in rape or abuse cases; managing through fear
Praising
Positive: offering positive verbal sentiment, and/or an assurance of ability or mastery, commensurate with the level of experience truly present
Negative: perpetual compliments designed to curry favor, and/or force a bond; brown-nosing, where opportunities to compliment everything are sought actively
Flattering
Positive: suited to the person, making them appear in the best possible light, e.g. a flattering hair cut or dress style, that highlights their assets and downplays their weaknesses
Negative: unfairly offering verbal praise, on a continuous basis, often when that praise isn't warranted, or the opinion is purely subjective; offering ongoing praise in order to falsely boost someone's confidence
Principled
Positive: standing by a a moral code or set of principles that has been defined by your own choices and experience
Negative: adhering staunchly to a moral code or set of principles that is indoctrinated into you, without questioning if they ring true for you
Expedient
Positive: getting a time-sensitive task handled quickly and efficiently, as delays could cause critical problems in the system
Negative: rushing through a task too quickly, and cutting corners, because time sensitivity trumps all else; feeling rushed
Privileged
Positive: having access to a superior class of products, resources and services, by virtue of association, status or means
Negative: assuming right of access to superior products, resources and environments, or superiority over others by default, as a result of accident of birth, or wealth
Entitled
Positive: knowing what you deserve right of access to, in relation to your human rights
Negative: displaying destructive or aggressive behavior because an expectation of delivery of a certain standard of product, service or resource is not met, when no steps or action has been taken to deserve access to that element
Prolific
Positive: an abundance of great ideas, that have great application and offer real return on investment value
Negative: an abundance of mundane, ordinary or prosaic ideas that offer no real value in terms of their implementation, even if they will be effective stop gaps for a while
Barren
Positive: acknowledging that land is barren, for example, allows the farmer to make a choice to to rest the land, and/or nurture it back to health; a barren period for a creative type is a signal that the mind needs rest, and that a holiday, or distance, must be taken in order to recuperate the creative flow of ideas
Negative: unable to produce effectively, destroying the resources that are put into it, and past its sell-by date in terms of productive output
Purposeful
Positive: to act with decision, commitment and dedication, remaining fixed on a specific outcome or result, not allowing the self to be easily swayed or deterred, and willing to make a long-term investment of time and resources in order to yield results
Negative: not willing to consider other avenues or outcomes because of a dogged focus on a specific outcome; inflexible and rigid in approach, unwilling to compromise and adjust according to needs
Desirous
Positive: allowing a desire that you believe you can achieve, to propel you to work towards it, becoming an end goal that keeps you constantly motivated and focused
Negative: to be driven by desire, and the instant gratification of those urges, to the point of addiction and compulsion, being unable to resist partaking in the activity on a daily basis, or until funds run out
Receiving
Positive: accepting something that is offered by free will choice of the giver
Negative: knowingly buying stolen goods, taken from people by force, or even under violent circumstances; taking aid or charity when you know you don;t need it, and doing so anyway in order to increase one's own share, i.e. for selfish reasons
Grasping
Positive: holding on tightly to something precious under precarious conditions, or under circumstances of danger
Negative: refusing to let go of something that has reached a natural end or conclusion, like refusing to give a divorce to your estranged ex who you've been separated from for years
Releasing
Positive: voluntarily letting go of something that has run its natural course and come to a natural end or conclusion
Negative: being forced to let go of someone, such as the separation of family members for extended periods of time, in armed forces' deployments
Tenacious
Positive: holding on because you have hope and believe that if you make it through this you will yield turnaround or positive results
Negative: refusing to let go of someone or something, whether a grudge or relationship, well past a reasonable period of processing and closure
Reliant
Positive: feeling secure enough to trust someone with part of your survival needs, because they have proven themselves to be reliable and trustworthy
Negative: being wholly dependent on someone who takes unnecessary risks with money; not being allowed to establish any independence of your own because this is perceived as a threat
Dependent
Positive: being reliant on a trustworthy caretaker as a child, one who has your best interests at heart
Negative: being unable to perform basic functions of maintaining or caring for the self, as a result of someone else taking on too much responsibility
Requesting
Positive: asking politely for something to be done
Negative: sending a legal letter of demand forcing someone to comply with something you want, against their will
Demanding
Positive: insisting that someone meet their obligations, such as issuing an order against the salary of a father who keeps skipping child support payments out of spite
Negative: insisting someone does something that is unfair, and potentially illegal to demand of them, or that they would not agree to if they had their full faculties or were old enough to understand, e.g. pedophilia or drug induced date rape
Respectful
Positive: honoring and being aware of traditions, customs, ways of being and boundaries of others, with the intention of making them feel genuinely comfortable
Negative: demanding an unnecessary level of knowledge of a wide range of particular customs, and requiring that all are honored, e.g. South Africa has 12 official languages, which would make for very big street signs and very long forms, if each and every language had to be honored and given equal place; instead, the default language has evolved to be English, which is a powerful native tongue to have when competing in a global market, strengthening the country's ability to participate on the international economic stage; eventually this common language will breed a common heritage from the many tribes and cultures that currently make up the country's population
Demeaning
Positive: offering a negative or disparaging view of something that was previously considered flawless, when such knowledge would influence and inform a decision, or where caution must be advised because people are viewing a skewed perspective of the whole truth, e.g. someone presents themselves as being impartial when they are actually secretly on biased and firmly established on one side of the fence, and have been for a while
Negative: negative verbal sentiment and biased opinions or stories that are designed to negatively skew someone's favorable opinion away from someone or something else, and in another direction
Responsible
Positive: power = responsibility: when I acknowledge that I already created the reality that I am facing, it becomes apparent that I have the skills and ability to create a chosen reality through my words, actions and deeds. Therefore, I claim my power to create the new reality I now choose to replace this one that no longer serves me, according to the decisions I make from here on in
Negative: accepting the burden of caring for responsibility that is not your own, as a result of someone else's mistakes or errant behavior, e.g. allowing an absentee father to get away with not paying child support and shouldering the burden yourself, while still trying to provide as if there were no difference to funds and resources available; trying to fill the role of both parents to cover for an absentee parent who does not make space for the child
Guilty
Positive: away-from motivation triggered by your own internal reactions to your own past behaviors, that inspires positive change, forgiveness, making amends and healing bonds
Negative: responsible for performing a harmful action or deed that caused harm to another, taking away their free will choice, or robbing them of resources, and is potentially illegal to have perpetrated
Satisfied
Positive: you have had enough of something, or you feel a sense that you have enough in your life; you are content and at peace with what you have achieved and done
Negative: having had so much of something that you have reached the point of saturation and don't even want to hear the name mentioned again
Sated
Positive: having had your fill of something and feeling no need to repeat the desire or experience, e.g. his desire for other women was sated when he met his wife, and he was sure that he could honestly commit to a monogamous bond
Negative: literally saturated in something; where you have experienced so much of that element that you become blinded to it, e.g. photographers who are surrounded by beautiful women all the time
Selective
Positive: choosy over who should be admitted, with the aim of finding those truly suited to the vocation or experience, e.g. testing a spiritual initiate before allowing them access to certain information, or requiring students of certain fields to meet certain predetermined criteria, such as subject selection and marks achieved, in order to ensure the student can cope with the workload and is suited tot eh field of study
Negative: basing the criteria of access on elements that are outside the applicant's control, such as social status, race, gender or disability
Exclusive
Positive: limiting access to an environment so that like-minded seekers can enjoy a niche dedicated to their area of interest, e.g. forming an online community for enthusiasts and not allowing those that are not really avid followers to participate
Negative: purposefully not allowing someone access to something in order to make them feel inferior or illustrate your superiority over them, to them, yourself, or others
Serene
Positive: calm and stable presence or nature, not easily upset or unsettled, able to stay calm regardless of changing circumstances, and thus reliable
Negative: not displaying emotional attachment in any way; being distant, cold and aloof in circumstances where you would expect a vastly different response
Dull
Positive: sedate and toned down environment, with boring, quiet people, perfect for rest and recuperation after illness or injury
Negative: a boring and uninspiring person or situation, that is easily forgotten the moment it's over, and is potentially a relief to have behind you
Serving
Positive: acts, deeds and activities undertaken in order to make more comfortable, lighten the load of, or assist another, by way of thanks or hospitality
Negative: being a slave to someone's every demand and whim in order to retain positive favor
Ambitious
Positive: using desire of achieving a certain degree of knowledge, wealth or recognition, as a forward motivating factor, to drive one towards achieving desires and goals
Negative: putting work and financial rewards ahead of all other areas of life, to the detriment of those areas, such as health or family
Sharing
Positive: distributing resources to others when you have excess and others are experiencing lack
Negative: not controlling the volume of resources used, so that reserves are quickly exhausted, and all now experience lack
Hoarding
Positive: careful distribution and allocation of resources in limited quantities, so that longevity and sustainability are maintained should the deficit continue for longer than the immediate term
Negative: refusing to share, even though an excess of resources is available; allowing others to suffer or die in order to secure your own comfort
Significant
Positive: relevant to a system or process; exerting a notable influence that is largely positive and yields results in the interests of the greater good
Negative: making up a majority portion of something, so that the removal of that element would cause the whole system to collapse, e.g. a long-term reliance on chronic medication
Important
Positive: a key motivating factor to extend oneself and achieve goals and desires
Negative: unable to function or operate without the person or element; a distracting factor such as alcohol, drugs, or other addictive substances and activities, like porn addiction and gambling
Sober
Positive: not under the influence of alcohol or other narcotics or numbing substances, of clear and rational mind, able to make sound decisions and be trusted
Negative: a serious and dour demeanor, often with a strict, rigid and inflexible approach to life, making them an uncomfortable person to be around
Intoxicated
Positive: 'high on life'; able to enjoy oneself and experience a positive upswing of emotion, as well as being emotionally free and light, as a result of a positive natural experience, such as a great meal, being relaxed, being on holiday, being in love or experiencing a dopamine surge from exercise and activity
Negative: under the influence of drugs, alcohol or other substances or influences that cloud the thinking and decision making abilities, leading one to make reckless or impulsive decisions that would not otherwise ordinarily be considered
Spontaneous
Positive: a spontaneous decision would be deciding to elope after being engaged and living together for a while - it doesn't come as a surprise to anyone that you got married, but the decision to run off and commit the act may just happen suddenly; likewise starting a business of your own after talking about it for years - the action to actually start the business and set the wheels in motion is actually quite sudden, and made in the moment
Negative: crashing into a vehicle that suddenly appeared in your path because the other driver was speeding is an example of a bad spontaneous event; it's sudden and seemingly outside of your control, not giving you enough time to choose a more appropriate or safer action
Impulsive
Positive: deciding to pop put to local roadhouse or diner for a family meal or milkshake, to satisfy a sweet tooth and spend some time together, is an impulsive decision with happy results; you may spend a bit of money, but you certainly won't break the bank
Negative: meeting a stranger and marrying them within 48 hours, just a few days after ending a previous relationships is a reckless and impulsive decision that probably won't end well
Spiritual
Positive: seeing a greater and purpose for our lives, as well as a unifying energy that connects us all
Negative: rigid and dogmatic adherence to a creed or belief system, without allowing for the value or importance of any others; believing the native religion to be superior to others
Materialistic
Positive: focus on acquiring the resources needed in order to secure survival, and a degree of comfort, without unnecessary excess
Negative: excessive greed, hoarding and isolation of resources, designed to establish superiority over others, and secure the luxury of the self and future generations; placing higher credence or value on material wealth and possessions than values, ideas or people
Steadfast
Positive: stable, trustworthy and unfaltering; reliable and consistent
Negative: stuck in their ways, rigid and inflexible, potentially dull and boring
Faltering
Positive: able to be swayed from a previously rigid standpoint, willing or open to be convinced because new information has come to light
Negative: easily swayed according the circumstances, people or environment; fickle and hypocritical, or two-faced; untrustworthy
Striving
Positive: reaching for a working towards an aim, moving past challenges and roadblocks
Negative: pushing oneself to greater feats than what one is capable of achieving; reaching beyond your capability, and so setting the self up for failure
Struggling
Positive: fighting to hold on to or protect something precious or cherished; engaging in physical aggression for the purpose of defense, of the self or others
Negative: finding it really difficult to cope, carry on, or have hope for a better outcome or the future; in need of rest and respite because of exhaustion, overwork or fatigue; in the process of 'burning out', or 'burning the candle at both ends'
Surrendering
Positive: willingly relinquishing control over a situation, person or outcome, willing to let it go for the best possible outcome for all concerned
Negative: giving up because all other options are exhausted, you have no fight left in you, or you have completely lost hope
Worrying
Positive: healthy fear that inspires you to get the things done that you need to get done, such as earn enough money to pay your bills at the end of the month so that you can keep a roof over your head
Negative: obsessive over-thinking and anxiety about future or current events, focused entirely on what the problem is, instead of finding a constructive way to deal with it, e.g. worrying that your boss will find out about a mistake instead of admitting to it and facing the consequences
Tender
Positive: a gentle and caring approach or demeanor, that offers nurturing, warmth and support, such as a care worker or nurse in a healing facility
Negative: an overly sensitive spot on the body, or in the emotional range, such as a trigger word, that causes an unnecessary level of overdramatized pain when stimulated, or triggered
Hard
Positive: to stand firm and resolute with a decision or regulation, because of the known consequences of crossing that boundary; a no nonsense person that you do not cross or mess with, where respect has been earned
Negative: a brutal approach that is designed to undermine and generate inadequacy in another, with the aim of making them feel inferior, or experience lack of self worth
Thoughtful
Positive: considerate of the needs of others, and cognizant of ensuring their comfort, e.g. a host that gifts a basket of bath products to each guest on arrival at a group event
Negative: a passive aggressive approach, where someone knows what you like, and provides the exact opposite in order to irritate you, or push their own agenda in a subtle way
Pedantic
Positive: taking time to discover if there are any potential allergies to the bath products selected, or choosing popular scents that are frequently used, or options that are least likely to cause irritation
Negative: to continue our example of the gift baskets, the pedantic person would make sure they found out each person's exact favorite scent for the bath products selected, visiting multiple stores to fill their exact list, which must see each basket contain exactly the same range of products and options, down to the style of basket used, in each appropriate color of course
Thrifty
Positive: the ability to be able to use money wisely, to make smart and logical decisions, knowing when to invest more for quality, and when to be price savvy
Negative: only making use of second hand stores and hand me downs, and never willing to invest in quality items, even when quality would be more sustainable
Cheap
Positive: when budget concerns are a priority and survival is top of mind; the ability to be able to make a little bit go a long way; it may not be pretty, but it will get the job done - for now anyway
Negative: prioritizing price over all other considerations, and always buying the cheapest option, regardless of other influencing factors, e.g. buying at the 80% off sale, just because the items were 80% off, especially when they are items you would never normally consider buying at full price
Timeless
Positive: elegant, refined and classic gems and attitudes that span across the ages, and have universal appeal, such as grace, mercy, compassion, forgiveness, wisdom
Negative: material wealth such as gems and precious metals, that are highly valued for their monetary value, and are a risk throughout the ages, e.g. the sacking of graves, tombs, pyramids and other burial chambers
Faddish
Positive: fun and lighthearted gimmicks, such as songs like 'gangnam style', that excite the contemporary population for a brief period, uniting them in a common energy of having fun
Negative: continually evolving high priced fashion that sees women spend way in excess of what is feasible, in order to keep up with the trends
Tolerant
Positive: willing to listen to and hear opposing opinions
Negative: barely accepting the presence; only grudgingly putting up with in order to get the situation or obligation over with as quickly as possible
Prejudiced
Positive: having a favorable bias towards a specific element or group, as a result of positive personal experience, but still judging each individual case on its personal merits
Negative: discriminating against a group, characteristic, or idea, based on the belief that that element is inferior to the comparable aspect within the self, e.g. you're black, and I'm white, so therefore I am better-mentality
Tractable
Positive: easy to collaborate and work with, a pleasure to run into or be paired off with
Negative: easily swayed or convinced, coming across as unreliable, flaky, two-faced and hypocritical
Contrary
Positive: does not find it difficult to say no, or point or the risks or concerns; is not afraid (as much), to offend people by revealing the truth
Negative: repeated negative sentiment can drain hope and enthusiasm, killing motivation and forward momentum, stopping a project in its tracks, and reducing the willingness of participants to contribute over the long term
Trusting
Positive: confidence in the authenticity and reliability of another who has proven themselves over a period of time, and in various circumstances
Negative: offering blind trust to someone you barely know, and giving them access to personal details that could lead to them taking advantage of you, or stealing resources from you
Gullible
Positive: retaining an air of innocence and an easy going nature that makes them fun to joke and kid with; an almost childlike innocence despite the traumas and experiences that could have jaded them otherwise
Negative: naivety that stems from ignorance due to being too closely shielded and guarded, or from a general lack of knowledge and know how
Truthful
Positive: revealing the honest facts about a situation or element, without omission or embellishment that could skew the perspective of the listener in a certain direction
Negative: revealing facts to someone, that while truthful, are designed to cause the listener psychic (mental and emotional) pain and tension, with their revelation
False
Positive: the identification that an idea or theory does not apply to a certain element; a verbal and intellectual measure by which we can distinguish that something is not relevant to something, e.g. the pregnancy test was false because the woman was not pregnant; false is the word that enables us to express that concept
Negative: negatively aspected, false means untruth, or lies; so the truth without all the facts (omission), or embellished in some way, added to and dramatized to skew the perspective of the listener to the speaker's stance
Unifying
Positive: the ability to bring together, unite and mold into a coherent process or team that can collaborate to work together as a seamless whole
Negative: the merging of mentality, such as in cults, where free thinking and individual expression are discouraged, and members become blind followers, wielding a few key principles as facts, without taking the time to verify the authenticity of the of the 'truths' they are spreading
Dividing
Positive: ego separates larger pieces of soul into smaller individuated identities, that act with autonomy; a child separates from its parents at an appropriate age, going out to participate in the world and live a life of their design
Negative: losing an organ or appendage; divorce that separates a family unit; creating a wedge between two people
Unselfish
Positive: gives freely and is willing to share of the resources that are available, generous and giving, within reason
Negative: giving too much of the self and ones own resources, leaving no time, space, energy or resources to take care of your own needs, or burning out
Selfish
Positive: setting boundaries that help you maintain balance and sanity; making space for pursuits and activities that fill your tanks, invigorating you
Negative: refusing to share with others, greedily withholding resources, time and energy, especially when you have excess
Valuing
Positive: treating as precious and cherished, and offering protection commensurate with how highly the item is valued
Negative: cherishing purely for financial or monetary worth, or for the perceived status the object carries
Exploitative
Positive: exploiting a weakness to bring an enemy down for the greater good
Negative: to purposefully manipulate someone in order to swindle, cheat or otherwise con or defraud them
Virtuous
Positive: living by strict moral and ethical code, often inspired by a religious or spiritual conviction, and including a vow of chastity and celibacy
Negative: believing one's actions, deeds, ideals and principles are superior by default, and acting superior to others, particularly those who disagree; faked sexual chastity in order to entrap a man, i.e. 'withholding sex'
Celebrated
Positive: highly renowned because of an expertise of level of mastery in a field or arena
Negative: infamous characters who are revered for the excitement and drama in their lives, rather than for an area of achievement that would justify the level of public recognition they have achieved
Warm
Positive: to be gentle and approachable, welcoming and gregarious, with an energy that invites people in and makes them feel comfortable to be around you
Negative: experiencing an uncomfortable surge in (physical, mental or emotional) temperature that unsettles the system
Feverish
Positive: excited and in overdrive to achieve a passion or goal; a peak build up anticipation, surging right before the expected moment of release
Negative: running an uncomfortably high (physical, mental or emotional) temperature, that runs the risk of doing damage to the system it is so extreme, e.g. extreme anger that results in a violent act


  Your Understanding of the High & Low Energy Power Patterns

This final list allows you to clarify the power patterns for yourself, by writing your own definition for each power pattern.

The answers will not save anywhere - the point is just for you to clarify where your understanding is by writing out a definition

Every time you share an idea, you clarify it in your mind simply by the act of putting it into words. This tool allows you to boost your growth by writing out those definitions from time to time.

You really do not need to save the list of words you've defined - the benefit of exercise lies in actually just getting the words down.

Every time you come back & do this again, your understanding will improve, and your definitions will be slightly different. So there's no point in keeping the list - by the time you've written the definition you've already started moving past it.

To keep or store a list this, and especially to go back & reread it, would only cause you to stall or slow down.

In a nutshell, it was a choice to not allow the list to be saved. It's better for your development.

There are no right or wrong answers, and you don't have to stick to a specific format. This is about what you understand about each power pattern, based on where you currently are in your development.

You can, and should, expect your understandings to change & grow over time, developing subtle nuances each time you clarify the pattern.

HIGH LOW
Abundant
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Excessive
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Admitting
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Denying
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Aesthetic
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Artsy
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Agreeable
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Condescending
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Allowing
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Controlling
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Appreciative
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Envious
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Approving
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Critical
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Attractive
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Seductive
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Authoritative
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Dogmatic
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Aware
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Preoccupied
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Balanced
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Extreme
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Beautiful
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Glamorous
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Being
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Having
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Believing
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Insisting
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Brilliant
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Clever
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Candid
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Calculating
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Carefree
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Frivolous
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Challenged
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Impeded
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Charitable
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Prodigal
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Cheerful
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Manic
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Cherishing
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Prizing
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Choosing-to
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Having-to
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Civil
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Formal
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Concerned
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Judgmental
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Conciliatory
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Inflexible
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Confident
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Arrogant
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Confronting
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Harassing
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Conscious
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Unaware
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Considerate
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Indulgent
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Constructive
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Destructive
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Contending
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Competing
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Courageous
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Reckless
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Defending
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Attacking
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Democratic
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Dictatorial
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Detached
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Removed
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Determined
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Stubborn
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Devoted
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Possessive
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Diplomatic
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Deceptive
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Doing
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Getting
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Educating
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Persuading
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Egalitarian
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Elitist
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Empathetic
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Pitying
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Encouraging
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Promoting
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Energetic
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Agitated
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Enlivening
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Exhausting
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Envisioning
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Picturing
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Equal
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Superior
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Erotic
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Lustful
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Essential
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Apparent
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Eternal
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Temporal
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Ethical
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Equivocal
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Excellent
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Adequate
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Experienced
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Cynical
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Fair
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Scrupulous
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Fertile
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Luxuriant
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Flexible
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Rigid
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Forgiving
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Resenting
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Free
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Regulated
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Generous
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Petty
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Gentle
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Rough
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Gifted
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Lucky
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Giving
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Taking
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Global
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Local
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Gracious
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Decorous
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Grateful
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Indebted
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Harmonious
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Disruptive
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Healing
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Irritating
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Helpful
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Meddling
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Holistic
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Analytic
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Honest
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Legal
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Honoring
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Enshrining
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Humble
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Diffident
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Humorous
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Sombre
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Impartial
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Righteous
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Ingenious
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Scheming
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Inspired
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Mundane
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Intentional
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Calculating
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Intuitive
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Literal
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Inventive
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Prosaic
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Inviting
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Urging
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Involved
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Obsessed
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Joyful
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Pleasurable
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Just
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Punitive
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Kind
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Cruel
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Leading
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Coercing
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Liberating
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Restricting
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Long-term
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Immediate
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Loyal
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Chauvinistic
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Merciful
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Permissive
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Modest
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Haughty
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Natural
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Artificial
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Noble
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Pompous
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Nurturing
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Draining
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Observant
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Suspicious
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Open
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Secretive
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Optimistic
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Pessimistic
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Orderly
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Confused
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Outgoing
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Reserved
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Patient
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Avid
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Patriotic
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Nationalistic
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Peaceful
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Belligerent
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Polite
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Obsequious
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Powerful
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Forceful
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Praising
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Flattering
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Principled
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Expedient
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Privileged
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Entitled
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Prolific
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Barren
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Purposeful
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Desirous
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Receiving
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Grasping
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Releasing
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Tenacious
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Reliant
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Dependent
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Requesting
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Demanding
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Respectful
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Demeaning
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Responsible
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Guilty
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Satisfied
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Sated
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Selective
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Exclusive
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Serene
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Dull
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Serving
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Ambitious
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Sharing
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Hoarding
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Significant
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Important
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Sober
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Intoxicated
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Spontaneous
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Impulsive
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Spiritual
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Materialistic
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Steadfast
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Faltering
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Striving
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Struggling
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Surrendering
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Worrying
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Tender
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Hard
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Thoughtful
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Pedantic
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Thrifty
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Cheap
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Timeless
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Faddish
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Tolerant
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Prejudiced
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Tractable
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Contrary
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Trusting
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Gullible
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Truthful
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False
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Unifying
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Dividing
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Unselfish
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Selfish
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Valuing
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Exploitative
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Virtuous
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Celebrated
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Warm
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