Articles by Chemory Gunko/Amara Christi

3D vs 5D reality question

"How will my spiritual growth & knowledge affect my relationship with my spouse and children?

I've already seen both negative and positive shifts; however I can't help wondering if as I grow more, that my inclination will be to separate myself from them - which I don't want to happen."

So this isn’t just about immediate relationships, but every relationship that is around you.

And the short answer is yes - the growth will impact your journey A LOT, and not in ways that you necessarily expect.

How to use your dating experiences to help you shift faster!

This is a simplified version of mirrors, and explains it in a dating context.

If the next person you meet resonates at the same energy level as the last person, because you stay the same, then you can use the experience to release mirrors.

Now a bad date becomes a shift instead of a waste of your time... and dropping the mirror (getting the lesson), means that you attract a different person for the next date, giving you a better chance of finding love.

Why do we chase people in relationships?

Chasing someone in romantic relationships is a recursion of the urge to oneness and seeking.

When you chase you pursue or seek. All men will admit to the thrill of the chase thing.

Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

When you're chatting to someone online via text or messenger service, and you want to get to know the real them in as short a period as possible, do the following.

Each time you respond, send off a quick bunch of questions - say 3 to 10 questions in each response burst.

Make sure the questions cover a variety of topics, including sex and relationships, as well as things you're looking for in a potential partner.

Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

We are bad at seeing liars and lies

As you progress along the journey, you're going to cross through certain one way barriers of understanding.

You've experienced this before with big aha moments of realisation: suddenly you think in the new way and can't imagine that you ever thought the other old way before.

What you'll realize later on is that this is because paradigm blindness works both ways.

Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

So continuing on our previous thread, here are some more dating tips for empaths and twin flames.

Rebuilding trust after a betrayal is difficult - especially when you feel like your heart is all caged up and there’s nothing you seem to be able to do to get through to it.

As someone who has been there, I can honestly tell that this is not going to be easy... like forgiveness work, the exercises are simple but can be incredibly difficult to actually do.

Likewise, you’ll hear people say that forgiveness and trust exercises are useless, which is true if your intention is wrong.

Get your intention right and really mean for trust be granted again and it will happen - the exercises will work their magic.

The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?