In Twin Flame Souls & the Twin Flame Push Pull Duality we take a look at what sets Twin Flame souls apart from normal souls, why the relationships take such a toll on them, and why break ups are so hard for them.

There's no such thing as unconditional love. So, why do we keep lying about unconditional love?

Unconditional love is a concept people love to bandy around - especially in spiritual circles, where anything that does not meet another person’s Godview of all-loving gets you labelled and judged.

Understanding Free Will

Okay so reaching an interesting stage on unpacking free will, a stage that always happens for me.

So this post is about the content, as well as the mechanism of the stage I’m at. it’s a double whammy learning LOL

So the mechanism and stage is a scaled list, and even mirrors started like this.

You’ve seen this in other scales and codifications, like PEMSC (physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and cosmic) and the levels of lessons in faith, for example.

It’s really an ordered duality scale, and seeing the scale is always a marker that you’re going through to new levels of understanding in a short while.

When it appears, it will appear as a bunch of dualities, which will have a common thread. One of my favorites is the surrender scale:

In Understanding God As All-That-Is we take a look at the concept of God as separate, while still being everything that exists.

One of the interesting things that’s happened with my recent surges is that I am aware of the field and what’s happening in it ALL THE TIME. I’m really seeing in action how so much of what we feel and experience is fed to us by the field.

A key insight for me over this last period is that the morphic field controls every aspect of our lives – including birth and death. If you carried death in you then you wouldn’t be able to live, and if you carried life, then you wouldn’t be able to die. So birth and the start of life is really about entering the morphic field.

A chart of Universal & Unmet Core Life Needs.

Use this chart to help you identify core life needs when you are working with your past, Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), childhood neglect, codependency and attachment theory.

You know things are actually one way and yet you have to pretend it’s another way to fit into society… welcome to walking between two worlds.

What other kinds of experiences can you expect to encounter when you’re experiencing practical 3D life on a 5D spiritual journey?

Walking your Talk & the Courage of your Convictions

So the theme for almost everyone I’m speaking to right now is, or is becoming, walking your talk. Pretty much what I’ve been talking about the last while LOL :)

It’s huge isn’t it? That fear of what people will think of you.

Will they think you’re nuts? Will they start avoiding you? Will they - horror of horrors - think you’re arrogant?

Watch out for dips after major download periods

I'm watching lots and lots of people surge into the stage of major downloads and pouring through reams of downloads and insights.

These periods are phenomenal when they happen - and when it switches off for a while, the contrast low throws you completely off kilter.

It can be horribly extreme, and because we live in now time, the depression can feel terrible.

We paralyze ourselves ourselves into inadequacy with political correctness

What’s the euphemism you use for male and female genitalia? What catchphrase do you use when going to the loo?

The idea of couching things when we say them, in order not to offend the sensibilities of others, is VERY entrenched in us. The whole of human relationships is about making sure that people approve of you so that they stay in your life.

In this article, we look at the fact that we’re creating a world for children and why it can only make us egotistical and unhappy over the long term.

In We're Designed to Notice Problems & Complain, we look at how the human mind works - and why it's so much easier for people to complain and notice problems.

You know that feeling when you “can’t let go” of something or someone? When you “don’t know what keeps pulling you back” to them? That pull you feel when you “fall in love” or “experience chemistry”?

When your mind and inner voice are racing at a mile a minute, looking for the thought that will help you reach internal peace and alignment? The thought of realization that will help you make sense of it all?

What are your plans for Lent 2018?

So if you don't know what Lent is, it's 40 days of voluntary sacrifice of something to mark Jesus's 40 days in the desert.

This year, Lent runs from Wednesday 14 February, to Thursday 29 March, the day before Good Friday.

The rules of Lent are that you sacrifice or give up something that will be difficult for you to give up.

There's no point if you don't feel the sacrifice.

In What Atheists Don’t Understand About God we look at some of the more common mistakes atheists make in their approach when discussing God.

For those of you that are working on your stuff long term and ongoing, you'll have noticed that when you are working with something big or a lifelong pattern that you'll often get stuck in the same place.

If you shift in statements, you'll notice that you're repeating the same statements over and over again. If you shift in your head you'll recognise it as being stuck on the same thoughts.

Ego is one of those vague concepts that we all understand, but can’t quite pin down and verbalize. So what really happens inside you when your Ego gets in the way of a heartfelt response and effective communication, and how can you mitigate it in future?

What is a relationship? A true relationship is three things:

1. An agreement that creates a connection of thought layers in the morphic field
2. A permanent place or space created for the partner's identity
3. A revelation of the self to the partner

When you first start working with statements, and releasing issues on the cognitive level, it feels like very slow going at first…. I mean you’re answering question after question, bringing statement after statement to awareness, but it doesn’t feel like you’ve made any progress.

What is Gaslighting?

Gaslighting has become a more-commonly used term over the past few years, and refers to the behaviors that some people engage in, that leaves you feeling insecure, stupid, inadequate, and just generally inferior... or like you might be going mad!