Ego deaths are going to come in an area of challenge for you - mine were money, people stuff and relationships.
Basically an ego death is a loss of something you wanted for the self.
So you lose your dream of wealth and success or the relationship you wanted, or the hope of finding a relationship.
With people issues you may lose face, be humiliated, lose your right to be right.
The point is that you lose something you want for your SELF, for you personally.
The fastest ways out?
1. Find a UNITY lesson
e.g. I've learned how to draw people closer to me by learning how I drive them away
or. I've learned how to identify people like me so that I can create a clan
2. Unpack how achieving this objective would've held you back on your spiritual development
e.g. I would have been focused on my relationship to the detriment of my spiritual growth
or. The drive for money and being in that morphic energy makes me behave in a 3D way
3. Unpack how the lessons you've learned aid you on your purpose
e.g. I am here to show people how to transition into a money-free world
or. My clearer understanding of ego enables me to see when people are having ego reactions
4. Find the MESSIANIC lesson
e.g. I must have compassion for those around
or. Others believe I am in service or indebted to them because they choose God serves you