10 common reasons you’re likely unhappy in your romantic relationship.

Rebuilding trust after a betrayal is difficult - especially when you feel like your heart is all caged up and there’s nothing you seem to be able to do to get through to it.

As someone who has been there, I can honestly tell that this is not going to be easy... like forgiveness work, the exercises are simple but can be incredibly difficult to actually do.

Likewise, you’ll hear people say that forgiveness and trust exercises are useless, which is true if your intention is wrong.

Get your intention right and really mean for trust be granted again and it will happen - the exercises will work their magic.

3D vs 5D reality question

"How will my spiritual growth & knowledge affect my relationship with my spouse and children?

I've already seen both negative and positive shifts; however I can't help wondering if as I grow more, that my inclination will be to separate myself from them - which I don't want to happen."

So this isn’t just about immediate relationships, but every relationship that is around you.

And the short answer is yes - the growth will impact your journey A LOT, and not in ways that you necessarily expect.

In the inequal 3D/4D world, the idea of unconditional loves exists - someone can love you and you don't have to be worthy of it. Ways it expresses is when people don't look after themselves and then want a partner that does, or the use of gifts and money to buy affection.

In a 5D world however, we come to a mother's love... and a mother's love is NOT unconditional - it is fair and just.

A mother knows that the child has to sleep and will enforce rules and structure. A mother doesn't just accept everything. A mother will employ discipline and tough love.

As a relationship coach I often hear the question, “What does he/she want?”

Here are five possible answers to the question of what your partner, or the person you’re longing after, wants.

What signs can you look for in your relationship that will tell you you’ve met your false twin flame and you may be wasting time by chasing this relationship?

Right from the very moment you meet, twin flame relationships are intense and overwhelming, and you usually know you’ve met someone serious, someone important.

What are five signs that you can look for that will let you know you you’ve met your twin flame or soulmate, and that the relationship in front of you is of importance in your life, as in karmic or destined to happen?

The new generation of children, star, crystal and indigo children, sometimes require different handling to traditional parenting methods.

Here are 5 tips to help you parent your new age child.

The worst thing about being in an abusive relationship with a bully, abuser or narcissist is the long-term damage it does to your self-esteem – the way it changes how you feel about, see and interact with the world.

What are 6 common ways that empaths land up sabotaging the relationships around them through their natural behaviours and actions?

Being an empath is not easy – you basically live your life experiencing your own feelings, as well as the feelings of most of the people around you.

8 dangerous myths about Twin Flame relationships

When you first hear about Twin Flames the idea is appealing - largely because it’s misunderstood at first.

Most people make the mistake of thinking that a Twin Flame means guaranteed love - a guaranteed relationship.

The second reason that Twin Flames appeal is this desperate need we all have to be special - at least to one person… The One.

In this regard, ego has really screwed us over, as has society, with this idea of entitlement to love, a guarantee of love from Divine sources.

If you are interested in A Course in Miracles and would like to further your practice, but aren’t quite understanding the text, or are battling to read it, then this is a practical guide for daily actions to keep you in line with ACIM practice.

This prayer is carefully crafted from the direct statements from A Course in Miracles, and can practically be used at any time, for any application. It's one-size fits all :)

You can also use sections of the prayer alone for specific applications. Each paragraph or verse of the prayer can be used as a standalone, with Lord heal me, Lord atone for me as the opening line.

A grief and loss experience, post-ascension

So I don’t often get really tangible experiences to illustrate what it’s like for me since I crossed over, what you can expect and why you want to get there, but my current experience of grief and loss over Eggy is unfolding…. and it’s fascinating.

An inspirational poem for all you Beautiful Souls :)

You are loved and you matter.

The very idea that you should be able to feel love for them - that you even exist in the first place - that's the ego trap.

You will change and vacillate as you grow... sometimes you'll have hope, at other times you will feel disdain, at others complete disappointment.

The Ego or spiritual journey has as one of its goals that you accept death, the transience of life.

This is one of the more vague pieces of the puzzle that doesn't readily make sense.

An argument for patience

Since achieving enlightenment in December 2016, barriers have dropped away that have enabled me to see the final connections on stuff that I just could never before.

Like I knew the details of the morphic field, but I couldn't quite see actually how it worked and the mechanisms and how it really all fit in. Now however I can put my mind there and within a while the answer just comes.

So at the same time, spiritual concepts have really made sense and I've really been able to apply them as tools. Concepts like faith, appreciation, patience, compassion, humility.

The most fascinating of these though is patience...

I've been actively applying patience as a tool.

An incredible forgiveness release

What an incredibly powerful and healing day yesterday (16 May 2017) was. In the space of an hour, we reconciled 17 years of pain, abandonment and misunderstanding and achieved a complete forgiveness release among all the parties involved.

Yes - in an hour, really. Then we went out for milkshakes as a family.

Use the Ask For Forgiveness Process when you need to apologise to someone, and get their absolution.