Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • Where my teachings come from & walking your talk

    Yes it’s time for you step forward and show yourself too! Stop being such a sissy LOL!

  • When you spend some time applying your mind to it, you’ll eventually come to realize that the whole of society is built around the basic idea of “don’t offend or get offended.”

    I’ve written a good few posts on this that you can go back to if you want more detail, but it’s not a stretch to see that "not offending someone" is the basic premise of the way our society is structured.

  • Why are empaths such easy targets for narcissists and psychopaths?

    It’s no secret that those with narcissistic and psychopathic personalities and tendencies choose their victims carefully, but what are the characteristics they look for - and how does that make empaths such an easy target?

  • In this article we unpack the reasons behind why souls on a spiritual journey often have to face the dragon of depression and suicide.

    If you’ve moved in spiritual circles you’ll have noticed that spiritual journeyers often battle depression and suicide, or are diagnosed with other so-called mental or psychiatric illnesses. In fact, you often see this in people who start any kind of personal development journey… so why does it happen?

  • Why are you unhappy and depressed?

    I remember, as a young adult, hearing this term of “stress” for the first time… and not really knowing what it was.

    Like our current trends of instant gratification and FOMO, stress was the hot trending topic.

  • What causes the pain of jealousy we feel in sexual and romantic infidelity and betrayal?

    So the journey for me is really about moments like this, when you receive a revelation of information so profound, that ties together so many loose ends, that brings so much internal peace, that you just cannot deny it.

    Bear with me, because this requires some background.

  • Why do we chase people in relationships?

    Chasing someone in romantic relationships is a recursion of the urge to oneness and seeking.

    When you chase you pursue or seek. All men will admit to the thrill of the chase thing.

  • Why do we need religion?

    And why does this keep coming back to religion somehow?

    I've spent years unpacking this and this is the answer I found.... we need the rules.

  • This post is about faith and why we have it; the experiences that have led us to this place on our spiritual journey.

    This is such an important post and I didn’t know what to title it honestly…. titles have never been my favorite. I’m far too literal and factual lol. I don’t do story and fluff well at all.

    I’ve spoken a lot lately about faith by seeking, in other words faith that is earned through the experiences on your journey, vs faith by conversion, which is lazy faith, because you ride on somebody else’s experience of faith.

    However…. while I am not a fan of faith by conversion, because I know you need the experience in order to really cement it for yourself, the truth is that very few people did actually seek across their lifetimes, and most have only come to know themselves spiritually in the past few years, in sudden awakenings.

  • Why don't people think?

    The construct of society and media has reduced the amount of time they can focus - most can't even stay focused longer than a couple of hours.

  • At a certain point in your spiritual development you start looking for shortcuts to growth.

    It’s often here that you discover why forgiveness is the ultimate personal growth tool to have in your arsenal.

  • Why seekers hibernate and alienate people

    Theme: Complete alone, continuation of acceptance

  • Money and spirituality are uneasy bedfellows, and the truth is that many, if not most spiritual types have financial anxiety, worries and concern, and just can’t seem to get their lives together in that arena.

    So why do spiritual people battle with money? The answers might surprise you.

  • I'm really glad Trump won the Presidency. I predicted it months ago and I feel glad and relieved that it's not Clinton.

    It feels like there is hope.

    And the MAJORITY voted for him - that's how he got into power.

  • Why can't you forget your ex - or do you feel like you shouldn't forget him or her?

  • Why you feel uncertain about the future and can’t make decisions

    We tend of think of stress as a vague umbrella term and we tend to focus only on major life experiences when we think about life in terms of being hard and stressful.

    While the past few years have certainly had their share of big life changing and global events, where it really nailed us was in the small, repeated stressors that were thrown at us – it’s almost like we didn’t have time to recover in between.

  • Why you need to wait and be patient right now - 5 June 2016

    Also covering the concepts of subjective truth, the spiritual path and free will

    So wow - have the energies ever been moving the past while.

    The last post where I said wait was the post where I’d hit the realization of wanting to teach Ascension only. No romantic inclination or interest.

    That feeling was mirrored by practically every single women I ran into and spoke to this weekend - and many of them were shocked that they were now feeling like this after wanting a relationship for so long.

  • Money, Money, Money… Why you're experiencing money issues - and why you will be grateful for them later on!

    This also applies to other losses you may experience, and the sudden falls from grace we’ve been seeing among public figures and in the people in our lives

    So when the gist of this morning’s post arrived I was surprised and excited - this lesson is a big level up if you apply it correctly.

    Losing money and financial security is a big ego death on the journey, because the greed inherent in the morphic field makes money feel crucial to our survival.

  • Around the world over the past three years, and for most of our lives, spiritual journeyers have been going through literal hell.

    Why does this matter and how does it serve the greater good we’re all working towards?

  • Why do twin flame relationships have to end and what good or helpful lesson could possibly come out of an experience so painful?

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