Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • Healing yourself - a practical example

    Soft drinks, cool drinks, cola and all the fizzy stuff

    So, like meat and dairy, one of the more common natural evolutions journeyers go through is eliminating fizzy drinks from their diets.

    For years, I had eliminated fizzy cold drinks, but had stuck to sparkling water. I finally gave the sparkling water up last year June, 2017.

    This week however, I was craving something different, and there was Sprite in the fridge, and so I had two small glasses over two days.

    Wow have I ever paid for it.

  • At the point when I ascended and the penny finally dropped about why complete alone is so important, I was really amazed.

    It’s so obvious – you can’t rely on external validation to tell you where you are on this journey, and you cannot rely on others’ opinions or their reactions to information, because you’ll fall into cognitive dissonance.

  • How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    Okay for background there are articles on my site on the morphic or holographic field.

    • Alternate Realities, Timelines & Tinnitus: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/alternate-timelines-realities
    • Morphic Field Understanding: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together
    • You can also read this one to help you understand the thought reality thing: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/03/13/creationism-vs-evolution-a-spiritual-perspective-on-the-debate-that-will-really-make-you-think/
  • Inherently, we understand that forgiveness is powerful technique for freedom, but through lack of experience or understanding, we often don’t understand how.

    What are the ways in which forgiveness frees you?

  • We often talk of having an instant gratification society, but what does this really mean and how does your impatience get in the way of the desires you’d like to manifest?

  • How does manifesting money and things make you depressed over the long term?

    Around the world, people are depressed. Current international suicide rates stand at 16 people per 100,000 population, or to put that in easier terms: around the world someone commits suicide every 40 seconds.

    So, between starting to read this article and reaching this point, two people have died by suicide already.

  • How media and minority issues are used to distract you from the real truth

    Approximately every 40 seconds, someone somewhere in the world successfully commits suicide. Those are just the successful attempts.

    Roughly, this means that 1-million people die every year from suicide, and that number is expected to reach 2-million by 2020, taking into account the rising trend of suicide.

  • So if the fact that I have incredible insight into stuff scares you about me, then you will probably be positively petrified by the end of this post. Probably best to stop reading now LOL

    However…. I challenged an ALDG member to stretch himself enormously. This member was anti-Trump and managed to find ten positive things to say about Trump as part of a forgiveness and acceptance lesson. I truly respect that kind of stretch.

    In order to create a safe space for this seeker to express himself, I offered to stretch myself equally by posting something that makes me uncomfortable.

    I do this regularly, exchanging pieces of information about myself and my journey to show seekers that they can safely reveal themselves.

    The weirdness of what we deal with means that people are often scared to verbalize their experiences for fear of being grandiose, delusional and insane - or having others think that they are. Sharing my experience and offering an equal return means that clients just have to follow my lead - they don’t have to take all the responsibility.

    So this is that post that stretches me and makes me uncomfortable :)

  • How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • Until we redress our karmic debts, we’re doomed to be stuck on this earth plane.

    How do you free yourself from the trap of karma?

  • So as all these wonderful experiences open up and you get messages and meet guides, etc, how do you throw yourself into the process and not let yourself get blocked by fear or doubt?

    There are two simple principles to keep in mind.

  • The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • So the big part of the shift is over and now we begin to live by the new energy rules…. what can you expect?

    How can you expect your life, healing and growth to change over the next few months and years, and what are the lessons you should be looking out for?


  • There’s very little as mentally and emotionally taxing as being worried about money. So how do you release the anxiety and let money flow?

    Manifestation practice teaches us that the way to allow the money you’ve manifested is to relax. But when you’re stressed out about money, it’s difficult to relax. In fact when you're worried about money, it's often all you can think about.

    It consumes every single thought and becomes a filter through which you see the world. This horrible, heavy emotional feeling settles over your body. You feel heavy, tired and demotivated. You battle to focus or think.

    That last one is really the crux of the matter isn't it? When you battle to focus or think, you often can't create the movement you need to get you out of the money crisis.

  • In spirituality and personal development, we’re often told to surrender to and accept an issue or situation – but where and how do you begin to surrender to and accept situations in life?

  • How to understand my higher level posts

    When you're reading these posts, you're reaching to a higher level resonance.

    Try this: while you're reading, scribble down your thoughts one at a time as they happen.

    • Then keep adding thoughts for the next 72 hours.
    • Then come back and read the piece again. Watch how your understanding has grown, you'll actively notice it.
  • How to use your dating experiences to help you shift faster!

    This is a simplified version of mirrors, and explains it in a dating context.

    If the next person you meet resonates at the same energy level as the last person, because you stay the same, then you can use the experience to release mirrors.

    Now a bad date becomes a shift instead of a waste of your time... and dropping the mirror (getting the lesson), means that you attract a different person for the next date, giving you a better chance of finding love.

  • Lightworker Alert - Wednesday, 17 January 2018

    Huge EGO DEATHS happening

    This is why you’re depressed, suicidal and feeling worthless and like there’s no point to anything.

  • Being back in 3D world with my new awareness and insight has made seeing the stuff easier to do, and it turns the world on its head from what I used to see years ago... but it doesn't make humans easier to deal with.

    In fact it makes it a little harder. With the amount we've changed and grown over the past few years, I think the thing probably driving me the most crazy is how resistant to change they are - and how much they want to stay stuck.

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