Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • How instant gratification sabotages your manifesting

    We often talk of having an instant gratification society, but what does this really mean and how does your impatience get in the way of the desires you’d like to manifest?

  • How manifesting money & things makes you depressed

    How does manifesting money and things make you depressed over the long term?

    Around the world, people are depressed. Current international suicide rates stand at 16 people per 100,000 population, or to put that in easier terms: around the world someone commits suicide every 40 seconds.

    So, between starting to read this article and reaching this point, two people have died by suicide already.

  • How media and minority issues are used to distract you from the real truth

    How media and minority issues are used to distract you from the real truth

    Approximately every 40 seconds, someone somewhere in the world successfully commits suicide. Those are just the successful attempts.

    Roughly, this means that 1-million people die every year from suicide, and that number is expected to reach 2-million by 2020, taking into account the rising trend of suicide.

  • How my mind works and how much I actually see

    So if the fact that I have incredible insight into stuff scares you about me, then you will probably be positively petrified by the end of this post. Probably best to stop reading now LOL

    However…. I challenged an ALDG member to stretch himself enormously. This member was anti-Trump and managed to find ten positive things to say about Trump as part of a forgiveness and acceptance lesson. I truly respect that kind of stretch.

    In order to create a safe space for this seeker to express himself, I offered to stretch myself equally by posting something that makes me uncomfortable.

    I do this regularly, exchanging pieces of information about myself and my journey to show seekers that they can safely reveal themselves.

    The weirdness of what we deal with means that people are often scared to verbalize their experiences for fear of being grandiose, delusional and insane - or having others think that they are. Sharing my experience and offering an equal return means that clients just have to follow my lead - they don’t have to take all the responsibility.

    So this is that post that stretches me and makes me uncomfortable :)

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • How to free yourself from the trap of karma

    Until we redress our karmic debts, we’re doomed to be stuck on this earth plane.

    How do you free yourself from the trap of karma?

  • How To Grow Your Abilities

    So as all these wonderful experiences open up and you get messages and meet guides, etc, how do you throw yourself into the process and not let yourself get blocked by fear or doubt?

    There are two simple principles to keep in mind.

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to navigate 5D unity energy

    So the big part of the shift is over and now we begin to live by the new energy rules…. what can you expect?

    How can you expect your life, healing and growth to change over the next few months and years, and what are the lessons you should be looking out for?

  • How to release anxiety when you’re worried about money


    There’s very little as mentally and emotionally taxing as being worried about money. So how do you release the anxiety and let money flow?

    Manifestation practice teaches us that the way to allow the money you’ve manifested is to relax. But when you’re stressed out about money, it’s difficult to relax. In fact when you're worried about money, it's often all you can think about.

    It consumes every single thought and becomes a filter through which you see the world. This horrible, heavy emotional feeling settles over your body. You feel heavy, tired and demotivated. You battle to focus or think.

    That last one is really the crux of the matter isn't it? When you battle to focus or think, you often can't create the movement you need to get you out of the money crisis.

  • How to surrender to and accept situations

    In spirituality and personal development, we’re often told to surrender to and accept an issue or situation – but where and how do you begin to surrender to and accept situations in life?

  • How to understand my higher level posts

    How to understand my higher level posts

    When you're reading these posts, you're reaching to a higher level resonance.

    Try this: while you're reading, scribble down your thoughts one at a time as they happen.

    • Then keep adding thoughts for the next 72 hours.
    • Then come back and read the piece again. Watch how your understanding has grown, you'll actively notice it.
  • How to use your dating experiences to help you shift faster!

    How to use your dating experiences to help you shift faster!

    This is a simplified version of mirrors, and explains it in a dating context.

    If the next person you meet resonates at the same energy level as the last person, because you stay the same, then you can use the experience to release mirrors.

    Now a bad date becomes a shift instead of a waste of your time... and dropping the mirror (getting the lesson), means that you attract a different person for the next date, giving you a better chance of finding love.

  • Huge EGO DEATHS happening (Lightworker Alert - Wednesday, 17 January 2018)

    Lightworker Alert - Wednesday, 17 January 2018

    Huge EGO DEATHS happening

    This is why you’re depressed, suicidal and feeling worthless and like there’s no point to anything.

  • Humans Are Crazy

    Being back in 3D world with my new awareness and insight has made seeing the stuff easier to do, and it turns the world on its head from what I used to see years ago... but it doesn't make humans easier to deal with.

    In fact it makes it a little harder. With the amount we've changed and grown over the past few years, I think the thing probably driving me the most crazy is how resistant to change they are - and how much they want to stay stuck.

  • It’s not you – it’s the world that’s screwed!

    Put down the whip and stop beating yourself up about everything that’s wrong in your life: it’s not you - it’s the world that’s screwed!

  • Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 1 - Lightworkers and our love/hate relationship with humans

    Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 1 - Lightworkers and our love/hate relationship with humans

    Like so many lightworkers, I’ve been sitting here for the last while, thinking “what next?”

    And then because I’m me, I’ve been looking for the patterns and mirrors as well, especially around our reluctance to engage with the 3D world again.

  • Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 2 - Warning! Constant Low Grade Stressors

    Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 2 - Warning! Constant Low Grade Stressors

    The Current Lightworker Stuckness - Extra Important Layer

    This doesn’t exactly tie in with the humans/humanity stuff we’ve been discussing, but it’s a big part of what’s happening to us right now.

    There are a number of constant low grade stressors we’re all experiencing that are taking a toll on us and making us more frustrated than we need to be.

  • Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 3 - Media, Censorship & Reach

    Lightworker Mission Challenges Part 3 - Media, Censorship & Reach

    You’ve noticed it - posts being deleted, people (perhaps you) getting locked out of their accounts, not receiving notifications… it’s happening: they’re trying to silence us.

    And it’s not just us - run on over to guys like Alex Jones and the usual YouTube suspects and you’ll hear the same thing.

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