Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • Forgiveness – your biggest mistake

    According to a 1988 Gallup Poll, 94% of respondents said it was important to forgive, while 85% said they couldn’t do it with outside help.

    Even regular prayer was not found be effective in achieving forgiveness.

    So what is it that people get wrong about forgiveness that makes it seem like it is so far outside our reach?

  • Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Twin Flames Break Up Update 1 of 2

    I live a deeply spiritual life, and if you’ve even had the briefest of interactions with me, you’ll know that. I’ll irritate you with how obsessive I am - even if you are deeply spiritual by your own standards. LOL :)

    For me, walking my talk is paramount, and I am VERY self disciplined in what I do. I’m not afraid to tighten my belt, limit myself and stick within very specific boundaries on certain things. Especially in matters spiritual.

    When I first found out that my Twit Flame of four years had been married all the time we’d been involved, I was shocked at a personal level.

    I have all this background with infidelity… ranging all the way back to my very narcissistic father who was a serial cheater.

    So at first, the knowledge that I’d been made a mistress hit me on that level.

    I felt the shame and humiliation and anger and resistance and vulnerability of the experience. Out of character for me, I didn’t cycle this up to a higher recursion. Probably because I was guilty of personalizing it too much.

    So in the past 24 hours when this realization hit me, well, it hit like a ton of bricks to be honest.

  • Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Going Numb on the Ego Journey - Why you need to create drama

    Thomas Szasz has a few really good books worth reading, if you can get past the superfluous language lol :) One of my favorites is pleasure and pain.

    In the book, Szasz presents the following idea: pleasure is not a thing in and of itself, pleasure is actually the absence of pain.

    So in order to experience pleasure, you need the contrast of pain to know the pain has gone away.

  • How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    How Alternate Realities & Timelines Work

    Okay for background there are articles on my site on the morphic or holographic field.

    • Alternate Realities, Timelines & Tinnitus: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/alternate-timelines-realities
    • Morphic Field Understanding: http://lifecoachestoolbox.com/index.php/the-morphic-or-holographic-field-explained-the-missing-information-link-you-ve-been-looking-for-to-tie-the-puzzle-together
    • You can also read this one to help you understand the thought reality thing: http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/03/13/creationism-vs-evolution-a-spiritual-perspective-on-the-debate-that-will-really-make-you-think/
  • How forgiveness frees you

    Inherently, we understand that forgiveness is powerful technique for freedom, but through lack of experience or understanding, we often don’t understand how.

    What are the ways in which forgiveness frees you?

  • How instant gratification sabotages your manifesting

    We often talk of having an instant gratification society, but what does this really mean and how does your impatience get in the way of the desires you’d like to manifest?

  • How manifesting money & things makes you depressed

    How does manifesting money and things make you depressed over the long term?

    Around the world, people are depressed. Current international suicide rates stand at 16 people per 100,000 population, or to put that in easier terms: around the world someone commits suicide every 40 seconds.

    So, between starting to read this article and reaching this point, two people have died by suicide already.

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    How to do shadow work - How to face your dark, shadow or ego

    Cycling down to the rock bottom of lessons

    So before I even explain the process, I have to explain why we do shadow work and why it’s not a bad thing.

  • How to free yourself from the trap of karma

    Until we redress our karmic debts, we’re doomed to be stuck on this earth plane.

    How do you free yourself from the trap of karma?

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to navigate 5D unity energy

    So the big part of the shift is over and now we begin to live by the new energy rules…. what can you expect?

    How can you expect your life, healing and growth to change over the next few months and years, and what are the lessons you should be looking out for?

  • How to release anxiety when you’re worried about money


    There’s very little as mentally and emotionally taxing as being worried about money. So how do you release the anxiety and let money flow?

    Manifestation practice teaches us that the way to allow the money you’ve manifested is to relax. But when you’re stressed out about money, it’s difficult to relax. In fact when you're worried about money, it's often all you can think about.

    It consumes every single thought and becomes a filter through which you see the world. This horrible, heavy emotional feeling settles over your body. You feel heavy, tired and demotivated. You battle to focus or think.

    That last one is really the crux of the matter isn't it? When you battle to focus or think, you often can't create the movement you need to get you out of the money crisis.

  • How to surrender to and accept situations

    In spirituality and personal development, we’re often told to surrender to and accept an issue or situation – but where and how do you begin to surrender to and accept situations in life?

  • It’s not you – it’s the world that’s screwed!

    Put down the whip and stop beating yourself up about everything that’s wrong in your life: it’s not you - it’s the world that’s screwed!

  • Looking into the mirror: how to spot the lesson a situation is trying to teach you

    In coaching and development work you often hear talk of mirrors, and the fact that situations and experiences come to teach you a lesson and show you an aspect of yourself.

    How do you recognize these lessons when you’re looking into the mirror of a situation?

  • Manifestation, Allowing & Instructions that Serve your own Ego Desires

    Manifestation, Allowing & Instructions that Serve your own Ego Desires

    As we've said, this is FINALLY the shift of turnarounds, lol, and this aspect is no different.

    We often chat about money and manifestation and how we don't feel comfortable with it and that blocks us.

    It's the lesson of you serve God or God serves you - at a point you get told, quite firmly, that God is NOT your servant.

    It will come as a surprise when it happens I promise.

  • On Spirituality & Growth & the Evolution of the Journey

    On Spirituality & Growth & the Evolution of the Journey

    A comment in reply to another comment ;)

    I have to be strong - there's a difference. There are times I'd like to collapse, but it's just never been an option. It's just easier to step over it now.

    It's all practice - I was gobsmacked when I ascended and realised it had all been practice for not going insane once I was there. The cognitive dissonance is beyond words.

    The problem is the 500s level and the Christianity and external validation.

  • Rejection & Betrayal - the Cosmic Core Lesson

    Rejection & Betrayal - the Cosmic Core Lesson

    So the restlessness has somewhat started subsiding as the new downloads are starting… and they started with a humdinger this morning hey.

    When you first start getting the aha moments on your journey, you stall for a few minutes while you assimilate the information, and you generally go quiet and can’t speak.

    Once you’re past a certain level, you really just feel the relief that the lesson releases - and past a point you’re on duality lessons: lessons of all that is. So here you get multiple ahas that lead to a bigger aha, or puzzle fitting together - often a reshimo (pulling down and completing a spiritual lifetime).

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