Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • An incredible forgiveness release

    What an incredibly powerful and healing day yesterday (16 May 2017) was. In the space of an hour, we reconciled 17 years of pain, abandonment and misunderstanding and achieved a complete forgiveness release among all the parties involved.

    Yes - in an hour, really. Then we went out for milkshakes as a family.

  • With so much anger in the air, thought I'd rattle out a post on anger and healing.

  • It often seems like the more you evolve spiritually, the more people seem to misunderstand you.

    So why does humility in spirituality often get labeled as arrogance?

  • So I have really felt like Alice in Wonderland over the past month… the word is wow. We stop there cos no word is big enough to describe what I’ve experienced and seen. A small one will have to do.

  • Basically everyone is battling with money right now

    So this isn’t a fun post, and it’s not the kind of good news post we want, but it is the truth.

    If you ask around, July & August were horrible months for just about everyone, with a lot being pushed to extremes, like actually becoming homeless.

    It’s not pretty, and it doesn’t look to be getting much prettier as we go forward.

    If you think about it, survival issues are our best hope for a catalyst that triggers global change and awareness - and everyone is in a hurry for stuff to change now. A collapse of the economic system fits those criteria - it can happen quickly, very quickly in fact.

    How quickly? If we simply hit two or three months running where over 40% of people could not pay their debt, that could be enough to put a massive dent in the system. The knock-on effect would be staggering in its magnitude.

  • Battling with Cognitive Dissonance

    The conflict between what you know spiritually (internal) and your experienced reality (external)

    Cognitive dissonance is a constant struggle for us on the spiritual journey, and it's a more constant companion as you surge higher.

  • In beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we take an honest look at the trend of fat and skinny shaming that is so prevalent on social media nowadays.

    It’s really difficult not to go onto a social media site nowadays and not see at least one post where someone is pointing out that the person in the picture is too thin or too fat… or pointing out a part of a (usually female) body, that honestly is usually far from visually appealing, and harping on about how this is definitely sexy.

    It’s also impossible to pick up a woman’s magazine and not see some sort of ‘who looked good and who looked terrible’ type of feature, often analysing the usually more wobbly bits of some celebrity’s body.

    Most often, these kinds of activities are often known as fat shaming, and involve pointing out how bad or less-than-perfect most women’s bodies are. In extreme cases the posts will attack obesity head on in a very denigrating manner.

  • Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

    I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?

  • After a death or breakup, what causes that grief, why does it hurt so much and what can you do to alleviate it?

    If you’ve experienced the loss of a person, either through death or the breakup of a relationship, you’ll know that you’re often left with a whole bunch of unanswered questions, and this horrible, dreadful heavy feeling that you can’t quite pinpoint and don’t know how to begin releasing.

  • Christ Consciousness & the Religious Overtones for the Shift

    Like so many other lightworkers, I come from a strict religious background.

    My parents used to make us go to church sometimes every day of the week. My mom was in the choir and the church secretary. I grew to hate Christianity.

  • Coaching Strategy for:

    • Physical System Support
    • Practical Functionality (Getting stuff done day to day)

    This will help you face the things you need to do, like work and focus and meetings and chores.

  • On 8 August 2016, we saw Lion’s Gate Portal, a release of the cosmic unity energy onto Earth’s plane.

    Since then however, for spiritual peeps around the world, there has been a sense of coming back down to Earth, hitting reality and feeling decidedly human again – after years of being on a non-stop spiritual surge.

    You’re not alone if you’ve been feeling this, and you’re definitely not alone if you’re battling to cope with moving back into human and secular reality.

  • We're definitely butting heads with control structures and 3D souls who want to try and control what they see and cannot understand.

    Luckily yesterday I did see a lot of stuff lift in that regard, and things are starting to flow more easily.

  • Converting someone to your way of thinking or faith by conversion

    The whole idea that you automatically want to convert someone to your way of thinking because you're spiritual is somewhat annoying.

    As is the idea that you want to change someone's mind just because you're talking to them.

    Also, I find people glamorize their journeys, because it is the most exciting thing that's happened to them.

    Truth is that most people's journeys compared to ours are quite boring. Their lives and issues and experiences are quite boring.

  • This set of exercises is designed to help you chip away at resistance and build hope that you can find love again.

  • Why are criticism and feedback so hard to take?

    It doesn’t matter if you’re in the corporate environment or at home with your nearest and dearest, hearing negative feedback about yourself seems to hit hard, and can shatter the way you thought things worked in an instant.

  • I – like so many of us – have been fascinated by human behavior my whole life, which of course has lead to a lot of reading books, biographies and watching documentaries, and I’ve loved the serial killers and cult leaders and their stories.

    So this weekend I watched a completely new one, on a place in California called the Buddhafield, watching it with a new level of awareness obviously.

    It dawned on me that there is a pattern in what all former cult members say about the evolution of cult leaders – they all start out as so holy and so pure, but then it becomes about sex eventually. And when the whole thing collapses, there’s always a sexual scandal attached – one of an extreme nature usually.

  • Don't personalise the anger, depression, sadness, fear, frustration and anxiety you are feeling. It’s NOT you - it’s global…. and shit is hectic out there!

    Global Check In - 17 May 2018

    Within a few kilometers of my house today there were two Cash-In-Transit heists. This is in addition to the robberies, losses, accidents, illnesses and a complete halt to business and money flow that I am hearing about and seeing.

    It’s every industry, everywhere in the world… and it’s not JUST happening to you. So do NOT personalize this.

    You are going to have make a concerted effort NOT to personalize this, like reminding yourself every few SECONDS that this isn’t just happening to you and is part of a global energy.

  • Ego & People's Responses

    If the person agrees with you, you're passionate.

    If your point of view offends them or conflicts theirs, or seems to offer more logic than theirs, then you are aggressive.

  • Ego is the thought that you are separate from God, and it’s your sense of identity.

    It is the idea that you as a person exist, and the idea that your soul identity continues after death.

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