Understanding Your Twin Flame Relationship & Tools to Manage the Experience

Romantic Relationships

  • Creating Hope for Love

    This set of exercises is designed to help you chip away at resistance and build hope that you can find love again.

  • Cult Leaders & the Big Ego Trap of Special Relationships

    I – like so many of us – have been fascinated by human behavior my whole life, which of course has lead to a lot of reading books, biographies and watching documentaries, and I’ve loved the serial killers and cult leaders and their stories.

    So this weekend I watched a completely new one, on a place in California called the Buddhafield, watching it with a new level of awareness obviously.

    It dawned on me that there is a pattern in what all former cult members say about the evolution of cult leaders – they all start out as so holy and so pure, but then it becomes about sex eventually. And when the whole thing collapses, there’s always a sexual scandal attached – one of an extreme nature usually.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 1

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    When you're chatting to someone online via text or messenger service, and you want to get to know the real them in as short a period as possible, do the following.

    Each time you respond, send off a quick bunch of questions - say 3 to 10 questions in each response burst.

    Make sure the questions cover a variety of topics, including sex and relationships, as well as things you're looking for in a potential partner.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 2

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    We are bad at seeing liars and lies

    As you progress along the journey, you're going to cross through certain one way barriers of understanding.

    You've experienced this before with big aha moments of realisation: suddenly you think in the new way and can't imagine that you ever thought the other old way before.

    What you'll realize later on is that this is because paradigm blindness works both ways.

  • Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths - part 3

    Dating and online dating for twin flames and empaths

    So continuing on our previous thread, here are some more dating tips for empaths and twin flames.

  • Dedicating relationships to holiness

    A Course in Miracles clearly says (repeatedly, the whole text through lol) that special relationships of any kind are an ego illusion and identification - in fact the ultimate one, because they are tied to your identity and the other person's identity.

  • Dirty Talk: the only toy you need for great sex

    If you know how to do it right, and you get a little practice, then dirty talk is truly the only toy you’ll ever need for great sex.

  • Ego Deaths of Special Relationships

    Basics time: an ego death is a loss of something you perceive you want - the deep and awful realization that this desire you had will never be fulfilled.

    The shortcut? Accept it!!

    Now special relationships...

  • Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Forgiving Yourself for Breaking God’s Commandments

    Twin Flames Break Up Update 1 of 2

    I live a deeply spiritual life, and if you’ve even had the briefest of interactions with me, you’ll know that. I’ll irritate you with how obsessive I am - even if you are deeply spiritual by your own standards. LOL :)

    For me, walking my talk is paramount, and I am VERY self disciplined in what I do. I’m not afraid to tighten my belt, limit myself and stick within very specific boundaries on certain things. Especially in matters spiritual.

    When I first found out that my Twit Flame of four years had been married all the time we’d been involved, I was shocked at a personal level.

    I have all this background with infidelity… ranging all the way back to my very narcissistic father who was a serial cheater.

    So at first, the knowledge that I’d been made a mistress hit me on that level.

    I felt the shame and humiliation and anger and resistance and vulnerability of the experience. Out of character for me, I didn’t cycle this up to a higher recursion. Probably because I was guilty of personalizing it too much.

    So in the past 24 hours when this realization hit me, well, it hit like a ton of bricks to be honest.

  • Free Will & Why We Remember Nothing at Birth

    Free Will & Why We Remember Nothing at Birth

    This is a plane of free will. That means that free will is honored first. That's what they mean by we're born as Gods - our free will is honored first.

    Also why they say the universe will respond to manifestation - it is obliged to honor your free will.

    So every time you put something out there, anything you manifest, you are automatically making God your servant.

    Therefore, the ONLY way to serve God fully is to hand over your free will in every second. To make no decisions for yourself.

  • Getting back together – a coaching strategy

    A relationship life coaching strategy for when you and your ex want to get back together and rekindle your romantic flame.

  • Healing immediately after a break up

    The end of a romantic relationship is almost always a tough experience to face.

    Here are three simple steps to follow after a breakup to shortcut the amount of time you have to spend healing mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

  • Healing twin flame separation pain

    As so many of us have learned over the past months and years, twin flame separation can be a very painful experience to go through.

    What tools can you use to help you find relief if you’re going through a twin flame break up?

  • How sex helps you feel more loved

    As women, a lot of us are guilty of letting sex slide in our relationships – it seems like too much effort, you don’t feel sexy enough, he doesn’t look sexy enough, it’s not something a mom should do, and more.

    There’s good reasons however why sex is important to your relationship, and the most important reason is that it helps you feel bonded and connected – which is what you need to feel loved.

  • How Spiritual Bypassing Breeds Narcissists

    How spiritual bypassing, and the accepted behavioral norms in society, breed narcissists, psychopaths and narcissistic behavior.

    Spiritual Bypassing is a really interesting term introduced by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, back in the 80s.

    A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks”.

    In a nutshell therefore, it’s how we use spiritual concepts to avoid dealing with the ugly truth of life that faces us sometimes.

    But the even uglier truth we’re facing right now is that we live in a world riddled with ego-driven narcissistic and psychopathic behavior - and so many of us are unhappy with it.

    So what are the beliefs and behaviors we engage in that enable narcissists and psychopaths to get away with the fraud and lies they are currently perpetrating?

  • How to bond without touch when a relationship is strained

    When we think of bonding, most often we default to touch - but in platonic, long-distance and strained relationships, touch is not an option.

    So what are the other ways we can stimulate bonding to get relationships back on track?

  • How to give a great blowjob

    What are the tips you need to know when you want to give a great blowjob to your man?

  • How to interrupt the pain of a relationship breakup

    The end of any relationship is difficult – romantic relationships more so.

    What makes breakups so painful and how can you interrupt the pain?

  • How to make a woman squirt

    A step-by-step technique that can bring a woman to multiple orgasms and squirting.

  • How to stay happily married

    When it comes to relationships, we tend to put a lot of effort into finding them, the wedding, fixing them and healing from them.

    What can you do to circumvent all that and stay happily married in the first place?

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